Leaving Porn is easy. Don't take the worst of both the world

I posted this in another thread in a reply of someone’s streak dairy and thought that this could be useful for others.

I will be blant here. Have gone through many dairies and people journey.

There is a common thing in most of your progress of eliminating PMO.
You guys are doing couple of things wrong.

You are fighting with willpower. No matter how great your willpower is, one day it will sap and you will relapse.

Many of your thought process is like this:

I won’t watch porn or masturbate anymore!
I am strong.
I can do this.
I will conquer the world!

But As soon as dopamine starts leaving you when you stop PMO, your fear comes out:

“this is so hard”, you say.
I will struggle and keep going.
I will not let this addiction win etc.

Then as some days go, or any stress or difficulty comes in your life, you go into self falsehood of:
I need dopamine.
Just a peek.
I won’t masturbate.
Just a peek will mean nothing.
This is not the right time to stop faping.
I need this to handle stress etc…

The above thought process is sub consciously.

You are doing it all wrong.

Then after you relapse, you feel guilty.
You get into depression.
And then again you relapse after some days. And the cycle go on.

You are fighting the battle incorrectly buddy.

Let’s face it. What is PMO? It’s an addiction. A filthy, disgusting poison which will slowly kill you. And we know that.
But we still relapse and do it.

Why?

Brainwashing. Yup. They are brainwashing us. Even those who have a streak of like 200days, even they relapse.

Why?
Because there is still a small brainwashing remains in their mind and as soon as something wrong happen in their life or trigger happen, they take a peek, they relapse.

They lose.

So, fight the right battle with right mindset and tools.

I won’t give you advise. I want everyone of you to see what’s wrong and why you are relapsing so many times every time you start.

Most of forum members go and start the battle with this addiction without any preparation.

What sort of battle you fight without any tools and weapons and strategies?

You are fighting the battle naked.

Buddy, where is your blocker? You need 3-4 blockers.

Where is your accoutable partner?

Have you written down WHY you are leaving PMO and what all the benefits you will get if you eliminate the addiction? Written on a paper and reading it daily to reaffirm your beliefs?

No? You will lose again then.

Let me put it bluntly. Don’t Kid yourself and others. You are not fighting. You are doing time pass.

I don’t feel bad saying things bluntly. You need to understand the facts. Don’t just go and say “this time I will not relapse”. Oh common dude.

You are not on a challenge where you do it for 30 days and expect a reward. You want to leave it for good. Forever’.

This is addiction. A drug. Poison. You will stop on the first day because you don’t eat poison.

As soon as you close that last porn tab, you will feel relaxed on first day.

You feel joyful and awesome because you are free from prison.

You dance that you are have leaved this filth for good.

But what you are doing? You are saying yourself: One last time. Just one peek. I am in stress I want it. Blah blah blah…

Will you get the girl who rejected you if you PMO? No it will become worse. She will reject.

Will you get job if you PMO? Nope.

Will your stress go away if you PMO? No, it increases.

Will that void and emptiness go away if you PMO? No dude. That PMO is the reason of that emptiness.

Escape from porn is easy.

Don’t make it so hard.

Rid of the brainwashing and you will feel joyful from day 2.

Feel bad about my words. But not about yourself.

Do it the right way.

Go and read “Easypeasy way hackbook” book. Available free online.

Let me know if you have any questions. I will try to help.

Sayonara.

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I am glad that you are my companion.

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“Leaving porn is easy. Dont take the worst of both world”
Give satisfaction and relief to my heart

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Thanks buddy. I am also glad.

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Zafer, you can message me anytime you are stressed or you wanna share some valuable thoughts.

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Hi thank you, it was very helpful. And thank you for the easypeasy way book!

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I am sure to msg you.

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It’s a great book. Read atleast 2 times

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From now on I am just gonna point everyone to this thread.

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Why buddy? :grinning:
Is this helpful?

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Send me your code friend

Here it is buddy: c28jiv

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It really is helpful… And I guess, I’v explained this to fair no. of ppl…

Tired of explaining this to ppl all over again…

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Yeah. So many streak diary here on this forum and they are just doing whatever they feel. Most of them are just hurting themselves. Just like the title of this post, they are taking the worst of both the world by trying to leave PMO but always relapse.

Most of them our working with will power but that’s not the right way. They need to remove that brainwashing monster first, then next 3-4 weeks of withdrawal period, they will be able to remove the little monster which is addiction.

In just 3 weeks, they will be completely free from the addiction and never come back, why? Because they have defeated the big monster which is brainwashing.
99% is brainwashing,1% addiction.

Just think, how we should do it now.

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Added you. You can find mine in my introduction post. I

You have the right mindset, was worth reading compared to the other diary’s

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So true. Leaving porn is actually easy.
How? Get a fucking life and get to improving where you lack.
I don’t lack in anything? Do you have any goal for life. If yes then work on it if not then there’s where you lack.

You keep watching insta all day or you sleep late then there you’re lacking get a good sleep cycle.

What I hate about so many stupid people here is that most of them are thinking if I sleep less and just do do do I will get rid of this. What stupid thing, you watch porn to escape from an emotional stance that you’re not able to sustain. Learn how to relax and do essential things or maybe do things that in your free time you’ll love to do.

Most of the people are after leaving porn and not making a life they will be comfortable in.

Ie if you(70kg) person fights a 130 kg fighter you’ll obviously loose but if you’re just a bit uncomfortable ie fight a 80kg person there is some chance you’ll win and you’ll enjoy it too. So take it easy and be better everyday and cut yourself some slack and don’t underestimate the power of a year , ie you don’t have to do everything in a day relax a bit people.

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Great that it was worth your time. I don’t have diary. I feel that having a diary is good but you should first have a clear mindset, goals, and tools.

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Bro, I am reading this book and it is really helping me and I found it quite interesting because whatever is written in it is something different from the rest of the world about what they say on PMO

I think the real truth is written in this book because today I managed to say no to porn more than 3 times, I knew that it’s only the brainwashing that takes me there most of the times and the little monster in my head and fear but I know that I have nothing to lose so I don’t fear

This book is really helping me.

BTW I’m on Chapter 9

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