Haha I voted yes, it’s very common to develop such behaviours if someone had been a porn user for a very long time. But it is in the past now I am on a 43 days streak and never going back, my brain is going to be completely rewired normally in a few days (already is though). That’s why I find this word triggering and don’t wanna get into details .
𝐘𝐞𝐬, 𝐀𝐬 𝐃𝐚𝐲𝐬 𝐰𝐢𝐥𝐥 𝐩𝐚𝐬𝐬 𝐛𝐲 & 𝐘𝐨𝐮 𝐚𝐫𝐞 𝐧𝐨𝐭 𝐭𝐡𝐢𝐧𝐤𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐚𝐛𝐨𝐮𝐭 𝐚𝐥𝐥 𝐭𝐡𝐚𝐭 𝐬𝐭𝐮𝐟𝐟, 𝐲𝐨𝐮 𝐰𝐢𝐥𝐥 𝐧𝐨𝐭 𝐟𝐢𝐧𝐝 𝐭𝐡𝐚𝐭 𝐭𝐫𝐢𝐠𝐠𝐞𝐫** 𝐚𝐧𝐲 𝐦𝐨𝐫𝐞.
𝐅𝐢𝐫𝐬𝐭 𝐨𝐟 𝐀𝐥𝐥 𝐖𝐚𝐢𝐭𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐅𝐨𝐫 𝐘𝐨𝐮𝐫 𝐇𝐚𝐥𝐟-𝐜𝐞𝐧𝐭𝐮𝐫𝐲 𝐬𝐭𝐫𝐞𝐚𝐤.
𝐉𝐮𝐬𝐭 7 𝐝𝐚𝐲𝐬 𝐭𝐨 𝐠𝐨. @Samaranjay
𝐁𝐲 𝐭𝐡𝐢𝐬 𝐌𝐞𝐬𝐬𝐚𝐠𝐞 𝐖𝐞 𝐆𝐨𝐭 𝐨𝐮𝐫 𝐀𝐧𝐨𝐭𝐡𝐞𝐫 𝐆𝐨𝐥𝐝𝐞𝐧 𝐓𝐢𝐩.
𝐀𝐬 𝐖𝐞 𝐊𝐧𝐨𝐰 𝐅𝐨𝐫 𝐖𝐞𝐢𝐠𝐡𝐭 𝐠𝐚𝐢𝐧 𝐖𝐡𝐚𝐭 𝐢𝐬 𝐓𝐡𝐞 𝐑𝐨𝐥𝐞 𝐎𝐟 𝐏𝐫𝐨𝐠𝐫𝐞𝐬𝐬𝐢𝐯𝐞 𝐎𝐯𝐞𝐫𝐥𝐨𝐚𝐝𝐢𝐧𝐠.𝐈𝐦𝐩𝐫𝐨𝐯𝐞 𝐲𝐨𝐮𝐫 𝐬𝐭𝐫𝐞𝐚𝐤 𝐀𝐥𝐬𝐨 𝐥𝐢𝐤𝐞 𝐭𝐡𝐢𝐬.
43- 𝐬𝐨 7 𝐝𝐚𝐲𝐬 𝐟𝐨𝐫 𝐇𝐚𝐥𝐟 𝐂𝐞𝐧𝐭𝐮𝐫𝐲
50- 𝐬𝐨 𝐣𝐮𝐬𝐭 10 𝐝𝐚𝐲𝐬 𝐟𝐨𝐫 2 𝐦𝐨𝐧𝐭𝐡𝐬.
𝐋𝐢𝐤𝐞 𝐭𝐡𝐢𝐬 𝐂𝐫𝐞𝐚𝐭𝐞 𝐒𝐦𝐚𝐥𝐥 𝐬𝐦𝐚𝐥𝐥 𝐰𝐢𝐧 𝐰𝐢𝐧 𝐬𝐢𝐭𝐮𝐚𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧.
𝐋𝐢𝐤𝐞 𝐭𝐡𝐚𝐭, 𝐈𝐭 𝐰𝐢𝐥𝐥 𝐠𝐢𝐯𝐞 𝐲𝐨𝐮𝐫 𝐮𝐩𝐜𝐨𝐦𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐬𝐭𝐫𝐞𝐚𝐤 𝐚 𝐁𝐨𝐨𝐬𝐭.
ℭ𝔞𝔲𝔱𝔦𝔬𝔫:- Do not 𝐎𝐯𝐞𝐫𝐭𝐡𝐢𝐧𝐤 about your streak, just take it as a motivation and move forward.
Weird thread. I found that Im more attracted to beauty now, not to sexuality.
cool that me and samra get to answer the same question, considering that we got to our streak together in a challenge
I voted yes and I do have I guess fetishes, but thats so irrelevant to me you know, like I dont deny or explore it, I simply dont care about it. Its just an unhealthy branch that grew in me because I went in a twisted direction but its nothing worth much.
I dont find it triggering but its approaching at the topic in a really wrong way. It invites fantasizing about your fetishes, while in reality thats not gonna get you anywhere, haha.
Also your streak based thinking is not helping at all! You make porn something valuable by doing that. You say to yourself - “if only I can get through those 7 days, then I ll finally be able to go back” -
implying that porn is valuable
implying that you need it.
You dont need it. Its not valueable. There is nothing you are missing out on when you dont fap. Its a bliss to be free. Your approach locks you in a mental trap, thats why its so hard to escape it.
no I dont think its rare at all, haha. I believe many people are led down rabitholes by watching more and more extreme things to get their dopamine hit, eventually getting into weird stuff.
did you read theEasyPeasyMethod?
what a ratched existence, in which having your phone in your room means being reckless.
I am very happy that we both are free now , thanks to easy peasy.
Streak is one of the methods to measure progress. People in early stages have to focus on streak. Its natural. So it is not bad if @AmanJain told someone to look forward to day 50.
@AmanJain has read that book and does not counts his own streak. He is a pro.
Dont worry @NukePizza bro.
How can you say someone early in recovery to be of wretched existence for being reckless for having phone in room?
If a person has not enough will power and keep his phone away, then he is not of wretched existence… But he is a wise person who knows his own limits and weaknesses.
You need to understand that the tips given here are not for same level people…Different people are in different stages of recovery… Some people can use social media safely, some cannot. Please read deeply before commenting.
P.S. My message is from logic point of view without the intention of personal attack. I respect people’s opinions. I hope we can always argue like civilized people without fighting. Not that you are fighting. But im just clearing my intentions.
Going Back Is Not The Option, I Have Already stated That Our Past Was Dark and Our Future Will become Golden By Going Forward On NoFap Journey…It means @NukePizza You Have not Read My Earlier Posts, Just Commenting & Criticizing Anyone Without Any Logical Reason.
Thanks @NeverGiveup420 for Understanding Me and Supporting me As A Shield.
We will continue To Provide Each & Everyone With Tips That Finally They will Come Out From PMO.
Mention not brother.
Yes… Our main goal here is to provide the best tips with the best of our imperfect abilities.
I am Generally Online between 6-7 pm.
And in Between Seeing this forum For Short Spans.
I am a Brahmachari: Kalam
Indian President A.P.J. Abdul Kalam, a bachelor, pleaded celibacy when he suggested children that one reason why people become corrupt in public life..
The noted Muslim space scientist said: “I am innocent. I am a Brahmachari,” reports the Press Trust of India. Brahmachari is Hindu reference to a celibate.
Kalam’s reply came when Kashmir’s Police Chief Ashok Bhan asked the 75-year-old head of state for his views on the notion that people become corrupt because they want to create more assets for their children and grandchildren.
After saying he is a "Brahmachari," the president added “and hence this does not apply to me at least.” The audience reportedly responded with applause.
Kalam said corruption linked to the creation of assets depended on the conscience of an individual. He said that children could play a pivotal role in creating a corruption-free society by telling their parents to refrain from corrupt practices.
Whats your streak 420?
We are close to 100th post.
I request everyone to provide any Tips, Experiences, you have you are not able to share with anyone but you can share here freely we will have a discussion on it.
My streak is 66 days currently