What should I do? 😔

@TheSeeker you are doing almost all the practices right, so keep it up. But you’re giving in to your inner bitch voice. That’s telling you do go easy.
You don’t cold shower cause you don’t like cold water? You think people start cold showering because they like cold water? I get that in winter at times, but you don’t have to shower at night.
You don’t meditate cause it’s annoying and you don’t have storage space on your phone? It takes time to get into meditation, you’re going to like it as soon as you begin. Besides, apps help but you don’t even need an app. Even a 5 minute timer is enough.

Basically you’re almost doing it right, but you’re being too easy on yourself. Letting yourself slip up in small ways because you reason that it’s a small thing that won’t affect you. It’s a lie, it will.
Man up man. You’re listening to your mind asking you to take things easy.

Never reason with the inner bitch. Because if you do, you will end up killing the beast inside you

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Thank you very much. Good points.
I will work harder

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Ong brother , you are very right

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Nowadays I cannot reach more than 4 days. My relapse days : 3,4,12,14
Today I relapsed. (I only saw soft porn.) Today I had a busy day but I relapsed. In the moment of the relapse I don’t mind anything.
I don’t know what to do. I tried everything.

Hmm, this addiction is very hard to break. Everyone here gave their tips and they are really great and awesome. You tried everything but you failed.
IDK if this will help, but let me tell you how I am overcoming my urges.

  1. I don’t use my mobile or laptop much anymore. I am only using the laptop to study accounts.
  2. I blast music at high volume whenever I get urges
  3. Exercising helps you get rid of urges.
  4. Since my exams are coming, I only study these days. Now my max limit of studying for 1 day is 5 hours.
  5. Always observe your RC companion users’ streak on mobile. Target the highest streak guy in your app and chase him. Decide and say to yourself “I will beat this guy”.
  6. Use notion. Notion is a productivity tool that is advanced and powerful. I use the notion to track my daily progress.
  7. Everyday, track your progress buddy. Let me show you an example of my notion daily tracking.

So this helps me keep my journey in progress.

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See my screen time. I spent 7 hours on youtube. Those hours I spent on accounts study videos and tutorials.

I would say, the best way to get rid of this addiction is to not think about PMO and NO-FAP. If you keep on thinking about it, you will get obsessed.

If a depressed guy watches more and more depression videos, within the next 20 minutes he will suicide because he got heavily depressed by these videos.

If a cancer patient watches more cancer videos, he will get scared and his cancer will grow.

If you believe in yourself, you will do it.

What you believe grows

If you think you are losing your belief, remember NARUTO. Naruto is an example of a true failure to a successful guy.
The whole village saw him as an outcast. Even Sakura, Sasuke and his friends saw him as an outcast. But Hinata, Kakashi, Jiraiya, and all the teachers believed him. But the best part was “he believed in himself”.
Finally, the villagers resected him when he became a Hokage.

So whenever you wanna fap, remember Naruto

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Remember these legendary quote"

“SOMEBODY TOLD ME I’M A FAILURE, I’LL PROVE THEM WRONG.” – NARUTO

“WHEN PEOPLE GET HURT, THEY LEARN TO HATE… WHEN PEOPLE HURT OTHERS, THEY BECOME HATED AND RACKED WITH GUILT. BUT KNOWING THAT PAIN ALLOWS PEOPLE TO BE KIND. PAIN ALLOWS PEOPLE TO GROW… AND HOW YOU GROW IS UP TO YOU.” – JIRAIYA

“PEOPLE WHO CONTINUE TO PUT THEIR LIVES ON THE LINE TO DEFEND THEIR FAITH BECOME HEROES AND CONTINUE TO EXIST ON IN LEGEND.” – NARUTO

“FAILING DOESN’T GIVE YOU A REASON TO GIVE UP, AS LONG AS YOU BELIEVE.” – NARUTO

“GROWTH OCCURS WHEN ONE GOES BEYOND ONE’S LIMITS. REALIZING THAT IS ALSO PART OF TRAINING.” –

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So, stay strong and show your parents and the people around you that you are an alpha and sigma male and your balls are made of steel.

Gotta go and study for exams. Good luck towards your journey.

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Amazing quotes man I agree

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''What I have is not a dream because I will make it a reality.” -sasuke uchiha

“Regardless of our limitations, we can always be of some use. Our power may seem insignificant… but it may just prove to be useful in the grand scheme of things. Stay focused. Never avert your eyes, because if an opening arises, even our insignificant power may be enough to determine the fate of the world. Which is why everyone must stay alert and ready to strike at any moment!” -shikamaru nara

The body ages, but the mind is immortal. – Orochimaru

“Embrace The Fear” -Nagato

“If you want to be free from your suffering, make up your mind. If you give up on your dream, you will suffer more.” -Might guy.

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“If you believe in your dreams, I will prove to you, that you can achieve your dreams just by working hard.” -Rock lee

“Rather Than Rule The World Through Pain… I Wish You Moved Past The Pain And Harnessed Your Power To Bring About Peace In A Positive Way.” -Jiraya

“FAILING DOESN’T GIVE YOU A REASON TO GIVE UP, AS LONG AS YOU BELIEVE.” – NARUTO

“The concept of hope is nothing more than giving up. A word that holds no true meaning.” – Madara Uchiha

I’m going to keep all these quotes and yours to help me in my journey hope this helps.

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Good bro, these quotes really light up a person.

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Sharing quotes are we?

“That Means…Today Is…Bargain Day At The Supermarket!! SATURDAY ONLY!!! GIGANTIC SALE!” - SAITAMA

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Thank you my friend. It will help

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Naruto is a good example. He did it

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  1. If heroes run and hide who will stay and fight? ~Saitama

  2. I’ll leave tomorrow’s problem to tomorrow’s me. ~Saitama

  3. Human beings are strong because we can change ourselves! ~Saitama

  4. Instead of sitting here frustrated, it’s better to keep moving forward. ~Saitama

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:joy_cat: :joy_cat: :joy_cat: Damm, if he gets angry, he will lose his supermarket and all will die except him. But since he went to the moon once, he will survive.

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Yes it’s sharing time. Only place im talking by the way for a while :rofl:

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