Day 24 (177)
Affirmation: Love isnāt about finding the right person; it is BECOMING the right person. -Dr. David Tian
Progress: Wellā¦I love myself and should have bought myself a gift or something. But I am really overweight, so I threw the Ice cream and chips in the dumpster and ate strawberries. Lol, been in a sleepy haze with nyquil to combat the sickness. Feeling a little better. Not gonna lie, another Valentineās Day alone is a little depressing, but that is open to interpretation. Twas a great Holiday because I did not relapse. Mostly YouTube videos, PJW and Tucker Carlson, and redditing and personal work.
Urges beat: surprisingly none. Veeeeeery interesting.
Other notes:
Hope yall had a wonderful Valentineās Day, yall. Pat yourselves on the back, because many other people have fallen to the trap of Porn. Offers from everywhere to harm the minds of lonely and depressed people.
Just understand this, Kings and Queens: I donāt care whether you are alone and longing for someone, or in a happy relationship. You were, always is, and forever will be worthy of love, at the very least from yourself. Something my mentor, Dr. David Tian, emphasized a lot, as well as Dr. Eric Thomas, who emphasized āYou matterā. Seriously, hear these words: you are loved and matter. Dosenāt matter if you are longing for someone, doesnāt matter if you just got divorced or rejected or abandoned. Dosenāt matter if you were outcasted because of past decisions or current ones. You got to let this sink in; I sure as hell need to. No matter what, understand that while society or someone or a group may not give you the love you want, you deserve love, at the very least from yourself. If you cannot love, forgive and humanize yourself, then you never could really receive it from others.
And yes, I sound like some depressed recently single person whose ex broke up with them bitterly (its not, never had a relationship). But it needs to be said. I look at a lot of cynical stuff, I done arty said that. Yall saw my rants about how messed up society is among other things, but no one ever tells you these simple little things. We always go on about some Feminazi, MGTOW/incel stuff or Red Pill, Blue, Pill, White Pill, Black Pill, Pink Pill, Purple Pillā¦ What. The heck. EVER! And yet, No one ever decided to say this to everyone.
Sometimes, all it takes to stop a relapse is to actually sit down and realize that who you are is enough! If I may be a bit hypocritical in my rant again:
All of us here are trying to eliminate Porn and Masturbation and unpartnered Orgasm from our lives, even in the midst of freaking porn sites giving bonuses and free trials to promote the holiday, because they love you so much, unlike the big mean society who hates you. Pot calls kettle black, because they really do not love you. They love your revenue. They love taking advantage of you and your insecurity. They have for millenia. No one loves you or your natural fetishes, so come to us and we will make you feel better. We all know thats a lie.
I hope I am getting to someone here. Donāt let the holiday of Love make you feel like you arenāt enough because you donāt have the car, the six pack, the ideal love or the celebrity life. I dont care how many times you failed, you still matter and still are loved. The question is: do you love yourself enough to not settle for a lie like porn? Even if you have to suffer for a while? Even if you spend another Holiday alone, or outcasted for a lifestyle change? Even if it means seeing the reality of the world and still remaining Idealistic and optimistic?
Do you love yourself enough to stop living in this lie? Just remember that you are loved, and always will be, but PMO never will love you back; Porn is an unrequited love to a narcissistic noncommital whore. Kick em to the curb and and find someone who will love you unconditionally.
Much love, comrades and thank you for listening to the rants.