The Hero's 90 Day Challenge! šŸ‘‘

@Wyatt Iā€™ll keep reading about this topic brother.

@Bytewar So glad to see you back, my friend! Yes, you can practice all 10 at the same time; thatā€™s what I do. Make sure you believe the words youā€™re saying, and that you picture your vision in your mind each time. With time it will become a habit and you will remember it when urges come. Save a copy of it on your phone as a photo or in the Notes app and put it up when you need it.


Check-in Day 29 (Day 209 hard mode with GODā€™s Help)
:white_check_mark: One affirmation: I am happy.
:pray:t5: One thing Iā€™m thankful for in my life: I am thankful for good health.
:shower: Progress for the day: Another day free and clean!
:exploding_head: Number of urges: 0
:person_fencing: Number of practices: 10


New video - New Temptations and Urges?!

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Reporting day 11

One affirmation - Where thee is a will, there is a way.

I am thankful for - Good stamina and health

Progress - clean day

Urges 0 / Practice 5

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Now i know that itā€™s hard ,
Brothers , i lost it
I relapsed :pensive:

I donā€™t know why I do this but itā€™s really hard
and afterwards the only thing left is to regret with guilt .:wilted_flower:

Can i restart the challenge brother ? :slightly_frowning_face:

:purple_heart:

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The key to mastering habits is to understand how difficult it is to simply will them away.
If you want to cultivate good habits, you can diminish the friction for the new behavior.
When cues change, it becomes easier to switch up your habits and routines.

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By replacing them with another habit :raised_hands: @Bytewar

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DAY 72
DRAGONSLAYER

Tell me how weak you are to see yourself fall.
Tell me how much have you endured
Tell me how many times you have faked happiness.
Tell me how many excuses have you made

Itā€™s the past that we learn something from. Do you really wanna move forward in life , then take a fuckin stand . You will become one of the rare ones and people will look upto you and you gonna guide them .

My question to everyone participating in this challenge , are you just tagging alone just to fail or are you gonna make it this time?

BE A CHAMPION , BE A KING , MAKE YOUR LIFE A VALUABLE ONE. YOU CAN DEFEAT THEM ALL WITH A SMILE IF YOU DECIDE TO !! SHOW THOSE URGES YOU ARE BETTER THAN THEM.

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DAILY CHECK-IN
:sunny:Days Completed - 15
:beginner:Affirmation - Iā€™m powerful
:pray:Iā€™m thankful for everything
:ballot_box_with_check: Progress - Another busy and clean day
:dizzy_face:Number of urges - 0
:weight_lifting_man:Number of practice - 1

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:golf: Todayā€™s Report: :golf:

:two_hearts: Sharing Code : 2sov9d

:yellow_circle: Current Streak : 102 Happy days WITH GODā€™S HELP
:green_circle: Previous Highest Streak : 90+ Days

:pushpin: Affirmations:
:muscle: I am Very intelligent beyond the human capability

:pushpin: Things youā€™re thankful for in your life:
:gift_heart: I am thankful for god for giving me the intelligence which is humanly not possible

:pushpin: Report your progress for the day
:tulip: Clean day

:pushpin: Report the number of urges defeated/practices completed
:white_check_mark: 0 Urges 0 Practices

:paintbrush: Diary:
A Good day with zero urges

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Check-in Day 2

One affirmation: Love will prevail.
One thing Iā€™m thankful for in my life: My drive for life.
Progress for the day: Clean day.
Number of urges: 3
Number of practices: 10

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Current Streak: 19 days
Highest Streak: 68 I believe on reddit Nofap to the best of my memory
Age: 25
Gender: M
Country: Canada
Sharing Code: y6icl2

I have read the rules and can accept them and am committed from the bottom of my heart, core, brain, self and so on.

5 strong reasons why I want to quit.

  1. To have sex more often
  2. To have better luck with erections
  3. Raise my self-esteem
  4. Feel a similar sense of accomplishment compared to that of graduating my millwright college course.
  5. To be able to use social media confidently
  6. Itā€™s embarrassing

5 ways the addiction has negatively impacted my life

  1. I lost my only good job I ever had
  2. Less sex
  3. Ruined hunnies self esteem from negative porn corrupted thoughts turned into statements I truly donā€™t mean.
  4. Feel embarrassed
  5. Wasted money

5 strong reasons why I want to be free and clean

  1. Better hygiene/feel nice & clean physically & mentally
  2. Will feel more empowered from walking & encouraged to do more
  3. Will appreciate nature more with my mind emptied of stress, negatively & unrealistic imagery
  4. Hunny will be proud of me & weā€™ll eventually be able to joke about it
  5. Better personal finance as Iā€™m sure itā€™s related as my dopamine levels will be more stable

5 ways your life will improve as a result of quitting that would not be possible otherwise.

  1. Better hygiene
  2. Calmer mind allowing me to be more mindful & in the present moment
  3. More & better sex eventually after affects sink in, in time, after I decide to show hunny my streak
  4. Better self-esteem
  5. Just feel more pure, clean, genuinly true & honest about myself and how I think my hunny views me or what I aim to have her think because of it being true

In the next 60-90 days my life will be transformed into calm mindedness & improved self-esteem. I will be able to appreciate the littler things in life while kicking ass in/on my business. Hopefully start to have sex more often with much stronger erections. Walk in nature more often being one with nature and the universe. Iā€™ll feel so much fucking confidence as well because of having better hygiene which could lead to me showering more working towards ending the catch 22 of not showering enough due to depression/not liking to be wet. I Anon commit to this 90 day challenge to the fullest extent and believe in myself knowing I can do this shit!

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Hi Brothers, i got a new job and i am not allowed to mobile phones. The usage of internet is also very restricted in my work placeā€¦ I am not sure how far i will be able to update my status. I will try to update my status but i canā€™t update it regularly. Thanks a lot for @Forerunner and others. I will definitely come back in our group continuing my brahmacharya.

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@Wyatt You can simply check - in in your free time. And congratulations for your new job :clinking_glasses:

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Great to hear your reasons and your visions . Welcome to this challenge @EmeraldArcher . And yes nofap will really improve your sexual energy and your focus. You have taken the right path, now itā€™s time to win this addiction once and for all. All the best warrior. You are now an apprentice and you will have to go through all the way upto the heroā€™s zone.

And make sure to practice this method atleast 10 times a day :blush:

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Welcome, hero @EmeraldArcher! Your apprenticeship begins today!

Many reasons to break free, brother! When we truly want to be free, we will. Great show of commitment there. Follow @tukuā€™s advice :slightly_smiling_face:

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@Wyatt Congratulations on your new job brother! Fantastic work!

@tuku Powerful motivation man!

@Bytewar Youā€™ve come back strong bro!

@Spirituals11 Sad to see you fell again, brother. The challenge is always here for you, you can get back up again. Remind yourself how painful relapsing is and decide that youā€™re not going back there again.


Check-in Day 30 (Day 210 hard mode with GODā€™s Help)
:white_check_mark: One affirmation: I am happy.
:pray:t5: One thing Iā€™m thankful for in my life: I am thankful for good health.
:shower: Progress for the day: Another day free and clean!
:exploding_head: Number of urges: 0
:person_fencing: Number of practices: 10+

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I commit to the rules and promise myself to be focused

My goals and ambition to be completed in next
60-90 days -

  • To pass my 2020 boards examinations with 95%
  • To look after my physique and fitness, to work on my excess body weight
  • To be disciplined, more focused and work for personality development
  • TO BE CLEAN,pure and healthy

I am fully committed and dedicated to pull this off

I CAN AND I WILL :v:

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I started tearing up at first 3 reads. At first it was like, I felt I was actually in a negative mindset, like I let myself down even though I didnā€™t relapse, just the fact that I had to partake this journey. Mid way I was like, well duh, of course I have a choice. And towards the end of my 10 read throughs, I felt a glimmer of confidence & that what I was saying was already true.

Thankfully Iā€™ve already been working on mindfulness on & off for 9 years, but solid for past 2. Also have some visualization experience too : ).

Peace!

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Thank you for accepting me, glad my account is marked safe for suspicious activity for some reasonā€¦ Maybe cause I have 2 phones & access to different internet connections.

Anyways, extremely excited & proud. Happy to be in this community of Brothers & sisters.

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Is sex not allowed? I thought PMO meant porn that lead to masterbation that leads to orgasmā€¦or is it I canā€™t do any of those? If I canā€™t do masterbation (images of spiritual wife in my head & actual existing photos) or orgasm (from sex & the ladder), Iā€™ll sadly have to do different challenges. I just have different philosophical views. @Sahas @Forerunner

If this is not allowed, is there some way I can unofficially do the challenge with getting calculated points or something but be placed in a null catagory or something. Iā€™d just be really sad if I canā€™t officially participate because of philosophical differences if thatā€™s the case with the true definition of PMO. I just love this concept so much and it would hurt my motivation a moderate amount sadly.

Anyways, look forward to hearing back.

Thank you!

Thanks a lot brother

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