Sex Transmutation and Manifestation
My partner Jon recently got me the book Think and Grow Rich . Jon went through the book and highlighted any text that talked about my particular area of expertise (you know, starts with s and ends with x- SEX. According to the author, Napoleon Hill, this powerful energy can help you to manifest your greatest desires. Could sex actually help you create more abundance in your life? Could the thing that we have been told is incredibly taboo actually be the true secret to manifesting your dreams?
Iāve discovered that for me this has been true, but I want to challenge myself to something big, a frontier for me to surrender into. I invite you to try this.
STEP ONE: ASK FOR WHAT YOU WANT
Sometimes when you ask for something big in the world you really have to strip away old shit and release big fears in order to discipline your mind so that you can create what you are asking for. Recently I decided that I wanted to create the feeling of massive amounts of wealth, financial freedom and security. I notice how I instantly feel the need to erase that last sentence as I type. Why? Because in declaring this desire shame comes up for me. Shame that people might judge me as only wanting money. Shame that I havenāt gotten there. I strive to help others release shame around sex. Here I see shame in another area of my life. Iāve released sexual shame, but without releasing shame around abundance, wealth and money. And I have to let go of the fears and the old stuff Iāve come to believeā¦ so I type this here, for everyone to see! I am no longer ashamed! I am free from this shame of desiring to create such abundance for myself, just like I am free from the shame I created in regards to my sexuality. I am asking for what I want.
STEP TWO: DISCIPLINE YOUR THOUGHTS
I highly recommend picking up every book that you can get about how you change your thoughts to change your current reality. Iām talking about something deeper than just positive thinking. Iām talking about creating new pathways of thought and emotion by making the conscious choice to think differently. Stop focusing on what is and invite in feelings to abundance, love, health, whatever it is that you so desire. When you change your thought you change you current state. When you change your state transformation can happen. All it takes is an instant. A choice.
STEP THREE: MASTER SEX TRANSMUTATION
There are so many books out there on the subject of THE LAW OF ATTRACTION, from The Secret to Ask and It Is Given and so on. But very few, with the exception of Think and Grow Rich actually talk about Sex as a powerful means to manifest your dreams. I believe that this is the missing key. Napoleon Hill says that Sex Transmutation is the number one way to stimulate the mind to awaken creative genius. What does that mean? It simply means that you can take sexual energy, desire and attraction and move it through you. I was taught how to do this at a very young age and I was able to manifest and unbelievable life through these techniques. (Iām sitting by the ocean right now, swam with dolphins earlier today, have the best job ever with multiple books and DVDs, I have great love in my life I could go on!) How do you transmute sexual energy/sensation? My favorite tool is breath. I like to use breath and visualization to draw the energy through my body and up into my brain. This lights my brain on fire! Iām going to use this powerful sexual energy to help awaken my brain to new creative ideas and vibrations that will shift the level of wealth that I have in my life.
STEP FOUR: RELAX and RECEIVE
In order to have a deep, expanded orgasm you must fully relax and surrender into the pleasure. Can you just let go? Stop trying to climb uphill or swim upstream. Can you just float on the river and let it take you? You have to allow that which you are manifesting to actually come to you.
How do I put all of this together?
First I had to really define what it was that I desired and to pick one thing to really focus on. I choose financial freedom and security. Then I began to visualize that coming into my life. I began to turn my thoughts there for as long as I could and to intensify those thoughts with emotion and intense desire. Then comes the arousal. I build my sexual energy and let it rise higher and higher and just before orgasm I will use breath to move the sexual energy into my brain. I go back to focusing on my desire. I build the sexual energy again. I transmute the energy into my brain. I keep doing this for a number of rounds before rolling over into an orgasm, which I pull up into my brain as well. Then I surrender. I let go and just relax knowing that my desire is coming to me. I donāt know how or when and that is not important.
You are going to see more about this from me as I continue to play with these ideas and manifest some magnificent, extraordinary things into my life!