Nofap Motivation for Beginners by Legends

@Deadpoolgupta , @neo_150 @anon15901281, @Rezboy247 thanks brothers. One of the most important thing that keeps me going after coming in this app is growing together with you guys. Now I understand, the power of serious accountability partners. People with strong and powerful attitude, especially @Deadpoolgupta, @neo_150.
My brother @Deadpoolgupta nothing can stop the growth of a man with beastmode attitude like yours. Keep this mindset forever. Put this into practice in whatever you do. And remember you are getting stronger and stronger everyday.

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Searching for girls while rebooting is a bad idea. But that writer said that girls are chasing him without him doing any effort. I was fascinated by his experiences. I need to know the real reason of that attraction.

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Yeah @Brahmachari_17, I never thought it would become this dangerous. I read the article. Woman attraction in nofap is simple, I believe, when we are in nofap we are not wasting the most driving, powerful force within us that is sexual energy. Maybe woman could feel that. And we are improving our character everyday. We are working on our body, exercising there is complete positivity and masculinity all around us which naturally attracts any woman.

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Yeah, I just want to know how this is possible. How can they feel that energy. I hope I will get to know about it later in this life.

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Iā€™ll remember your words mate.
Good to have you

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THE 20 SECONDS RULE: We have 20 seconds to respond to any situation. Let us try this rule of observing instead of instantly reacting or getting lost in thoughts spirals.

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A trip to Disney Land: How to remain clean amidst hundreds of attractive women?

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After hearing this almost till the end, I paused it and reported my current (at that time) soft p peeking thoughts in the forum. And now, I am feeling better.

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THE STORY OF MY FRIEND. (This is a real story. This happened in front of my eyes. No made up bullshit. This is the truth)

I had a friend from class 6th to 12th. And his story is a perfect example for how porn fucks up your entire life if you continue with it.
Lets call him Sam. He came to my school when I was in 6th std. He was an avid reader (that was our common interest) and used to write poems as well. He had great dreams to become a cardio doctor, travel the world etc at that small age. He used to bring books to my class and made my friends read too. I used to look up to him with awe and respect. Once he called in my telephone and talked with my parents for 30-40 minutes and they loved him and told me become friend with this boy. He is a role model.
As time went on, he was shifted from my class to another division but we were friends whatsoever. But, when we reached 10th std etc I noticed something was happening to him. He became less chearful, he never makes eye contact with anyone, always hiding behind someone in class, not even facing any girls etc. I was the only one with whom he talks. I asked him, bro what happened. You have suddenly become silent. You donā€™t read that much. Your marks are very less now. You are failing in a lot of exams, teachers are always angry with you. What really happened? He didnā€™t respond to this. And went away whenever I asked this. But one day when we were talking about masturbation and porn accidentally he told me about this habit. He has become an addict and he doesnā€™t accept that. Most of the time he was alone in his home, so he used to read a lot when he was young but as high speed internet came, he went to porn. He told me he used to masturbate for 8-10 times on holidays. He stopped reading and writing poems entirely. He became miserable. He had no friends except me, no good memories from school days, very less marks to get admission into a good university when he completed +2. And this is not the end of the story, hear me out brothers, Sam who wanted to become a doctor gave up that dream saying it is very sad and started studying for engineering. He went to a parallel college and became demotivated and stopped that as well. Now he is sitting in his home. I call him and talk to him about his dream. I tell him to follow it. But he is almost in the verge of depression now. His parents are so angry with him that they donā€™t even allow him to make calls. BROTHERS, HIS LIFE IS A LESSON FOR US. IAM SURE HEā€™LL MAKE A COME BACK. But the time and opportunities wasted will never come back. So Please stop the fucking porn right now. This is our life. Donā€™t waste it.

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I think this was about me. :joy::cry::cry:

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I understand you brother @drago . Its ok. Past is past and it has nothing to do with your life from now on. What you choose to do now is everything. Now is your chance to regain everything. Achieve everything that youā€™ve always wanted to achieve. Iam with you. Weā€™ll do this together.

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I found it in another group. It has some good information.

https://www.reddit.com/r/NoFap/comments/2umfts/a_guide_how_to_quit_pmo/?utm_source=amp&utm_medium=&utm_content=post_body

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We all can relate to this article.

The final paragraph contains:
In my foggiest moment I will naturally be drawn to the memory of the pots of meat. But God feeds me with the heavenly manna. He has given me a taste for milk and honey. And He has given me traveling companions that constantly remind me that we are on our way home.

Here, the memory of pots of meat signifies the p temptations. The manna and the taste of milk and honey signifies the higher taste given by Godā€™s grace in the form of limitless benefits. The travelling companions signify the accountability groups! :grinning:

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I am sharing a informative video(IN HINDI) hereā€¦ he did not use masturbation or Sex term directly( use only once) but he give very useful information and explained main theme behind addiction ina short video.

Bdwā€¦ we already know these thifs he told in video but still this may be useful for some guys and also you can to revise the information you have. :smiling_face:

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One of my favourites, Fittuber! with Salil! :grinning:

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Mine tooā€¦!:blush:
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