I’ve been there in past. I can actually understand what you’re going through.
You need to understand these online girls etc also come under ■■■■ itself, any kind of intentionally watched erotic/arousing content comes under peeking (not including accidental triggers in movies/series), we need to avoid all this altogether when we are on a serious streak and rather focus on ourselves, our goals, on people around us. What to do in moments of weakness? You would actually know all this yourself because you’ve been on good streaks but what works best is to cut out sexual thoughts as soon as they appear, yeah immediately focus on something else maybe a breathing exercise and at that time don’t get involved in things that might lead you to that downward spiral.
I do experience this situation now. When we reach higher Streak , PMO no longer becomes a problem . Real people ( for me ) and other factors come into picture that have nearly the same effect as PMO itself.
We till now thought PMO is the biggest threat. Its still a threat but not entire threat. All we can do is we can see this as boss fight in a video game
Hmpf, you just reminded me of a certain clown. Even though Kakarot sometimes uses others strength, he still manages to use it wisely. We can remind you of your path but only you are able to cross it. This is your life not mine.
Struggling is acceptable but giving in at this rate is not. You’ve come a long way, it’s too damn late to look back. If you think it’s just a matter of days then don’t make me laugh. You quit PMO not for making that number grow but to make your life better, to claim your right to live, for your pride and all you are.
Don’t let a slip make you fall. Just forget about it and move on. Just like you did yesterday and always aim for a higher power. This rocky paths is your only way for power.
Yeah but if we struggle IRL and think of solace or a place to rest it can lead to downward spiral until we again go back to PMO. It’s at that fuckin moment we need to remind how far we have came that no way we can go to step 0.
Yeah that’s what I actually meant. The problems in real life. When we are PMO addicted , it was an escape from reality.
When we start to be away from PMO , reality hits us. Unless we don’t start to fight real world problems aka facing reality. We will go back to our old pathways.
I cannot answer that in direct manner since I don’t consider myself fully recovered. There are minor slip-ups in between.
But I can tell it in a different angle. I was heavy non vegetarian till 12th standard. Then I shifted to vegetarian. Now I am leading vegetarian lifestyle for 5 years. Still I do have temptation to eat chicken etc . If this is the case , I am sure the same will exist for PMO but you will be able to deal with it better ( Just telling this as an example , I don’t want vegetarian vs non vegetarian debate here )
I see man. So the only solution is if there’s a moment of slip up I need to make sure I get back to work as quickly as possible and don’t spiral down.
Because what I have experienced is that after a long streak you won’t relapse just like that. It needs downward spiral of some days that leads to that.
This is just my experience. When my 87 days streak got broken, I was peeking since last 4 days.