19 February 2022
Yesterday i.e., 18 feb was one of the saddest for me and my family. He was ill for 2-3 days and yesterday he was vomiting , his stomach was paining and he fainted,we were looking for driver ,which wasted our 15 minutes. As soon as one of my brother came ,I took him in my arms , my uncle & my brother also helped me, we were rushing towards the car . And after my grandfather, grandmother and uncle reached the hospital, we came to know that we lost him. I lost my grandfater , dadaji. And after hearing the doctorโs statement, we came to know that he might took his last breath in my arms . He had an accident 7-8 years ago, and almost 4 years ago , a moron dog bit him, he was a fighter , but yesterday , he left us. He was a magician ,whenever i used to lose my stuffs in childhood, within 30 minutes used to find that stuff. Well i still remember, when he wasnโt able to find my toy, i became very angry and he tried to uplift my mood, he talked to me in short mujhe manaane aate the . He used to teach me counting numbers, alphabets (hindi and english), because i spent most of my time with him and no one was able to handle me except him, because of him i learnt the basics, and came on the top of my class till class 1 , then after i skipped class 2 and jumped to class 3 . He used to drop me to the school with my dadi mummy(grandma) and even in class 8 (after that lockdown) he used to come with her to drop me to the bus, and whenever i used to get late, they both managed to stop the bus until i got on the bus. He used to take me in his lap and i always slept beside him (jab bhi main maa ke room me so jata tha toh jaise hi meri aankh khulti aur main dada ji ke pass jake so jata tha) , but after he had an accident i used to sleep alone , because i used to throw my hands and legs, so that i canโt hurt him more i tried to sleep alone, but after sometime i started to sleep with him again, but then i again started to sleep alone, id remember why. But whenever i felt thirsty during midnight he used to get out of the bed and give me a glass of water , once i asked, why you donโt let me get water myself and he replied โjab bade hojaiyega tab aap humko de dijiyegaaโ. But after i got into pmo stuff i spent most of my time in bathroom and all, instead of spending time with him. I cry after remembering his cute gesture while asking for water, i feel like he is saying that " Beta tv on kr dijiye" Or " Channel change kr dijye, kuch aur acha lagaiye" . I wish I had given him time instead of PMO . But unlike others he always offered me to watch tv first , like he used to said " Aapko jo dekhna hai dekhiye ", and few days ago i was lying beside him and we both were watching pokemon together .
I lost my first mentor, first friend, first love, my dada ji. I canโt stop crying, it feels like he will come to my room like before , itโs hard to accept that he is no more. I saw his body lying on the bed of woods and then his body turned into ash , in front of my eyes . While doing the rituals i promised him, that i will never ever do PMO, i will improve and will get good marks , i will be successful. While he was wrapped in the flames, i was looking at the sky and smiling, i thought that i have overcame the grief, but no , his memories start to come in my mind ,again and again and i canโt stop my tears, i tried my best to hold my tears in front of my family members, but the tears came out of my eyes after i saw his clothes lying on his bed . It was like he was sleeping and everyone was waiting for him to wake up.
My whole family is in sorrow , my grandmother stopped crying after 24 hours, her eyes are swollen. My both sisters eyes are red and my father is still hiding his sadness inside him.
My grandfather wanted me to be a topper, i will try my best. So to keep my promise i studied for almost 3 hours today, i also cried while studying. Many people are coming, but my pre boards are from 28th feb, my family told me to study and said โjab kaam pdega toh bula lengeโ. Well thereโs a hindi quote Waqt rehte sudhar jaao, nhi toh waqt tumhe sudharne laga toh tumhe taqleef hogi". . I canโt express my grief anymore. And i did MO yesterday at 2 am , mujhe waisa nhi krna chahiye tha. So i might be unable to update my diary, but if i will get time i will update it. I love you so much and i will miss you a lot dada ji.
I love you so much dada ji and i miss you a lot. May your soul rest in peace.
I will improve for you and will never do pmo. I will keep the promises.