Still 87d great result. You decrease frequency of using โ โ โ โ so itโs a win
Day 0
Iโm starting over again. I really regret relapsing. I definitely shouldnโt have done it. Thereโs never a single real reason to relapse, I just found an excuse. I need to work on myself more. I need to 1) become more disciplined, 2) learn to not let bad thoughts control me, and 3) finally find a good hobby that I will enjoy devoting my time to.
Brother returning to day 0 is a tough moment. I have talked with others about the depression and refall syndrom all we have when we encounter the 0 or low numbers in the clock. We put in common and had an idea: If you have arrived high numbers (+10) in past tries and now you collapse again and again, then in the next try if you encounter dificulties, like nightmares, abstinence syndrom and even if you hold some days but you relapse because of the accumulation of sperm we will NOT counter that fail, Iโll explain, the biology of the abstinence syndrom is a traitor and can spoil your progression. The decision to not take care of that fail only applies ONE TIME EVER and only if you have failed respecting all conditions and only because of biology and psychologic nature. This has helped to reach high numbers more determinated and It have made that relapses were reduces drastically that is what all want. 'cause we want to get over the addiction, but if we constantly when we fall and watch the 0 in the clock relapse, and relapse because of the guilt we can not advance. So if the next try you resist but the syndrom overcome you, do this " one forgiveness" but only one and if you fail after that you havenโt got other ever. It is a decission, not an obligation after all. But I think this will help not only to reach high numbers, but relapse much less. What do you think?
Itโs what I call, the mercy of the addict, one forgiveness and never do it again.
Checking in @ Day 5 now :)))
โThe secret of change is to focus all of your energy, not on fighting the old but on building the new.โ -Dan Millman
Reporting day 1.
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Sup people? Long time no see. Having some pressure for last 10/11 days.
Ok, This is my 0th day to become an xtraordinary gentleman. CS: 4 days.
Hope to surpass the previous streak of 40 days with the help of thia group. The previous one by @someBody13 helped me achieve that.
This time lets see how many days I can complete with @CoffeeMan 's one.
Welcome back, brother. Itโs the same callenge with a new energy. I am starting from 0 now too. If we make it to november (12 Days from now) we will have more strength and control to complete NNN. I have been struggling since youโve been gone but I still believe it is possible. Lets do this!
Reporting Day 1โ
Current streak:-20 days
Sharing Code:- aiqe7g
Hey @CoffeeMan โฆhow you doin manโฆI would like to report my day 1 please
Daily check-in. Day 2
Daily check in โDay 2 in 4 hours
Welcome back, @Cleansing1999 and @lost90 . I hope youโre doing great.
Itโs the same challenge guys. I just created this one to make the leaderboards wiki so we can all update our progress even in the absence of a moderator.
Day 2 and 3 check in
Reporting Day 1
Okay, count me in
Sharing code: drdng5
Day 5 and reboot. Although i started with not so good results at the beginning of the month, the result is not too shabby. It could have been way worse. So overall i am satisfied with my progress. Not exactly as i planned non pmo days for this month, but it is close to it. So cheers to that:
The chaser has been worse this time but I think Iโm out of it. More motivation to not return to it. It seems to me that most of the shame and guilt comes from not having control over my actions. Itโs the weakness in myself that is the worst of it. The content is shameful, sure, but itโs grip on me even more so. Still reporting day 0 as I relapsed earlier today, but I will reach 1 day and begin again.
Remember, if you fail again one more time consider the one forgiveness I talked about in previous topics. Donโt fall in the trap of infinite doom that is the first week of streak.