25th January day 25 check in
What do you mean by that?
25th January day 25 check in
What do you mean by that?
Day 25 check in
25/1/23
NOFAP STREAK:87๐ฟ
โKING ALREADY RISEDโ
Date : 21/1/2023
Check in day 1
โKEEP YOUR FACE ALWAYS TOWARD THE SUNSHINE, AND SHADOWS WILL FALL BEHIND YOU.โ
Means after 90 days Iโll find the right bullet to shoot it deadly, hopefully
Bro what does 90 days have to do with it.
Do it right now . Make a strong mindset against it from the very beginning.
You canโt do it right now, nobody does, if we could we wouldnโt be here, it takes time like everything else. If you want to be a champion, you canโt be right now, you need to put some work time in it, more likely some years.
Again, you canโt make a strong mindset from the beginning, you too weak to do that now your mindset gets stronger every day, each day the more days stay away from PMO, the stronger you get, until you get to a certain strong mindset to give the fatal blow.
Well ofcourse our mindset improves everyday, but if we donโt start from a strong mindset from the beginning then whatโs the point of hoping that weโd be free someday?
Whenever Iโve been on a good streak I knew from day 1 that itโs gonna last, no difference between day 1 or day 90 in terms of mindset, difference occurs in terms of clarity of mind, focus and other benefits.
25/1/2023
Check-in
โThere is never a challenge in the forest.TIGER IS THE KING OF THE FOREST.โ
You proved my point, these are signs of a strong mindset, ability to focus, clarity of mind, etc.
You canโt have those after you relapse nor in the first 20 days after a relapse all you get is flat line and confusions so how you going to have a strong mindset, you only have the desire to push it further but not a solid mindset.
And based on desire only, you donโt go to far, as it proved. Between 40-60 days mind start to take shape of good solid mindset and maybe at 90 when they say you are rebooted, maybe then you can say Iโm out of it but personally I believe you need around 400 days to be completely out of it and to be strong enough to never go back.
Day 4 of no Fap
January 25th
Woke up with some regret about last night but no urges just checking in๐
I reseted it. I saw pictures where were almost naked girls.
Bruh , you were saying about shooting โ โ โ โ at 90 days not about other things. We can have a strong mindset against โ โ โ โ from day one rather than waiting for 90 days, thatโs all I wanted to say.
All the best anyway
I said hopefully, hopefully Iโll shoot it at 90. Anyway you want to stick to your opinion despite solid arguments, and itโs okay, but I cannot agree with your opinion.
Wish you the best as well
Have you read the book easy way to leave porn?
Itโs the book which the owner of this challenge has recommended in the first post.
The book says you are free the moment you decide youโve had your last pmo session, no need to wait for a particular number to be free, you can start living as a free guy from day 1
I know for a fact that you havenโt but please know thart I wasnโt challenging your opinions or viewpoints, everyone has their own beliefs and strategies, I was just putting forward my beliefs and what that book has taught me. And the same belief has helped me cross 100 days multiple times .
I havenโt read that book and now that I know the author says you free from day one Iโll definitely not read it.
If you free from the day one why coming back after 100 days, proves me you not free at all.
To think you passed 3 months and you have a strong mindset set itโs doubtful, but to say you free from day 1 itโs a foolish thing to say. Thereโs no proof of that.
If a guy comes in day one and tells Iโm free of fappin and another guy tells same thing in his 400 who do you think everyone will believe
25 January check-in
Day 74
Some urges
Didnโt do much in this day
Just some exercise
The whole day i was busy in another things
If you keep waiting to shoot porn after 90 days youโll be utterly disappointed. Nothing changes in that aspect. It stays almost entirely the same.
You can ask anyone who has ever crossed 90 days, mark.
Btw I am just stupid trying to explain my points unnecessarily.
Once you cross 90 days youโll understand yourself what I am trying to say. Even if you donโt understand it wouldnโt bother me because I am clear about my thought process and my strategies.
As I said everyone has their own mindset and strategies, not everything works for everyone and not everyone gets everything.
Btw just to let you know I totally understand your viewpoint as well, Iโve been there myself.
And I sincerely hope whatever strategy and mindset you have adopted works for you
Of course Iโll be stronger at 90, and definitely Iโm stronger now compare to first day when I felt totally lost and shattered in bits and pieces . Take care bro
Thereโs a difference between your mentality against porn and your physical and mental health.
But never mind. I am done arguing.