Be strong, brother! Pain makes us stronger and more mature. Itβs not the lack of fear and anxiety that makes us endure, but rather the judgement that something else is more important than fear and anxiety.
You have the power. You can do it! You will be better when you reach the other side!
Yes I did participate in the league of gentlemen. I donβt remember how far I got but I do remember a lot of those active participants were a good bunch. I still have a lot of them friended and their streaks are going strong. I hope that means theyβre still in the fight.
Check in for today as well, merry Christmas to all you celebrating. Happy holidays for the others.
Stay strong brothers.
Day 43 done easily
No urges
Waiting to crush my highest streak (77 days)
I think i am getting close
No i will even exceed this streak
I wonβt stop until i become a legend
I know this maybe looking silly to you
But yeah this is my goal
I will be a living example of NOT GIVING UP
see you on the next day
It was the name of a forum topic just like this. It was a challenge. Some reached 120+ days streak there. I also managed to have a 99 day long streak with them. It was a really good community. It was active for more then a year I think. The founder was a nice guy but I think he overdid, tried to maintain more challenges at that time and ha also had a few bad streaks so h left. The group went on for months, but slowly faded then went fully innactive. I was there for a few good months and get to know some really good guys. It was nice.
Stay strong ! My hardest days so far were days 27 and 32, i had to open the app and start reading posts and then went to the media section. I then did double time meditation, what i found out was eventually a Shift in my conciousness happened where my mind went out of the sexual beast hot mode and into a mode of the deep important things in life. The urges went away after the shift and i felt i could live happy without sex.
Thanks be to God.
God give your blessings to those who may be struggling.
Godβs Love is immediate and perfect.
I am not a good and righteous person,
but God still blesses me.
There are two fires ~
A consuming fire and the fire that does not consume.
Itβs been a lovely evening. By night, and after watching some movies that had nudity much to my dislike, I struggled with temptation and eventually caved in to that consuming fire. Thanks be to God, I was saved and graced with having facetime with my overseas partner. We could talk, share, reflect and extend that lovely evening pondering on Godβs Grace through Christβs example, teachings and parables.
It is through dialogue and sharing that we enter into communion with God and with each other.
We do not need to lust and sin, but be in healthy loving relationships with each other -
Friends, Partners or Family.
The more you donβt fap the more the body tells you to do so. That even the things that donβt make you have urges will. Letβs keep going. The urges here are strong but not stronger than me close to 7 days .
Itβs the last day of Christmas and one of the last days of the year. Everything comes to an end? Does it? NO Your streak doesnβt have to. Whoever made it this far in this month, donβt you dare loose your strenght and fail. 30 day is closer than you think. You are not responsible to me, but to yourself. Face yourself. Was I better today than yesterday? I have my streak going, so damn yes I was and I can be even better tomorrow. Were you honest this whole time with your streak? Than you have nothing to be ashamed of. Be strong, learn to be satisfied with your results and not your fap. Keep going.
Relapsed today morning.
WTF! I was minding my own business looking for a certain book to download and boom! Porn pictures came right Infront of me after clicking the download bouton. I couldnβt resist and fapped.
I know a big part of this was my fault cause I could have simply avoided looking at them. However whatβs passed is passed. Today, I will not do so again. You are right @Duran we mustnβt wait till 2023 to start cause when you wait for life, life passes.
What? No itβs not ok and it shouldnβt happen. Donβt be so forgiving with the sin. Support the man but donβt get so easily over the sin. The sin must go, the sin has consequences. The man/woman is the one that should be saved and encouraged not the sin. Failure is a lesson to learn from.
@Binocular to be honest, I aimed my comment for those who still on the go with this month. Ofc anyone can take it to heart, Iβm glad if some can. But I wanβt to be frank with you. Get your shit together! I wanβt you to be better than Vegita. Prove that you can.