The moment you beat her academically, you think you will loose interest? That shows a lot about your relationship with her bro, donât get me wrong please. I had similar things before, I used to have crush on a girl who was academically superior until I have far surpassed her and all others. You know, I am lucky someone helped me find out the difference of genuine love and love of kind like these.
I met someone 2 years back whoâs academic does not matter to me at all. I donât know why, I donât even want to compete with her, itâs truly mesmerizing. I just love her out of the personality that she has & literally she is the best motivation for me, and she does not even realise it.
To be very honest, a good personality goes a long way. Right now your way is not our of affection but your love comes out of competition. Sorry, might you be loving her more than you have told here, but if itâs only out of academics, i would suggest my friend, explore more.
See PewDiePie, he got such a nice partner, I am literally jealous of him. She is so sweet, one of the perfect woman I have come across the internet.
And I seek a similar kind in my future partner.
Brother, thatâs kinda lust what youâre saying. If youâre seeing not about her empowered, developed and strong self then youâre looking at just her physical appearance. Though, the words used might be different to describe her in various ways
I get it. I never got a gf in my life. So I always equate this crush feeling with some competition. Idk exactly about this unconditional love and all. I always find that cringe because I was brought up that way
Ah yes, the unconditional ones are indeed cringe. But when your conditions match perfectly, itâs the perfect kind of funny, teasing and re-assuring love. It has no insecurities whatsoever. The mature kind of love I would say.
Damn, this would turn into a personal one, but I really miss her. Well, I still remember once she went to her cousins and they drank alcohol. I was with her on text while she was drinking and suddenly she video called me telling me how much she loved me all drunk in front of them.
I really miss. Late night emotional burst well fuck.
Thank you @Awaken_one bro for the reply. I generally dont talk about these here. This is something I need to let myself out. Otherwise my mindset will get toxic.
I need to come up with a proper plan ( Proper mindset , more suited word ) to come back on track. Iâm really pissed of when I hear the words associated with studies these days. That should change .
I think its better we refrain this topic for now. Ik Bino is chill , But I still I think its manners to refrain for now.
@Binocular , Upto which date the scores will be counted before declaring the results of this month ? Is it upto 31st of August or 28th of August like you did for earlier month ?
Ill probably for going off for sometime now . I have to challenge myself and do things on my own . My mindset was always faulty , but I have started to get to the end of understanding now . I need to go get in asap or will be just like last year for me .
Do what you think is best, brother, but when you feel down, donât hesitate to check in here or ask for advice. After all, we will all need external help in our lives at some point. Just remember to always be happy, strong, and resilient.
