The Rewire Mentor Program is a structured peer-mentoring system designed specifically for members of the NoFap and Rebooting community. This initiative aims to connect those who have made significant progress (30+ days) with individuals who are still struggling to reach their first 30-day milestone.
By fostering a supportive, confidential, and judgment-free environment, the Rewire Mentor Program creates meaningful mentorship relationships that accelerate recovery, reinforce accountability, and build long-term community resilience.
Program Structure
Eligibility Criteria
Mentors:
Must have completed 30 or more consecutive days in their NoFap/Reboot streak.
Must commit to being open to receiving and replying to messages from struggling members.
Should exhibit empathy, consistency, and confidentiality.
Mentees:
Anyone who struggles to make it past 30 days of abstinence.
Must be actively trying to reboot and willing to communicate honestly.
Must respect boundaries and time commitments of mentors.
How It Works
Registration & Pairing
Participants fill out a confidential sign-up form.
Mentees are paired with mentors based on time zones, language preference, and shared challenges or goals (e.g., addiction type, age group, spiritual views).
One mentor can mentor up to 3 mentees max to maintain quality.
Rewire Messaging Protocol
Mentees are encouraged to send “Rewire Messages”—short personal messages about cravings, relapse urges, success stories, or emotional challenges.
Mentors reply with encouragement, coping tools, strategies, or simply a listening ear.
Weekly Check-ins
Mentors commit to checking in once a week proactively, even if the mentee is silent.
A lightweight progress template can be used: [Mood / Cravings / Triggers / Strategies Tried / Success Today].
Daily Check-ins
Mentees are required to checking in daily with there nofap streak.
A lightweight progress template can be used: [Mood / Cravings / Triggers / Strategies Tried / Success Today].
Confidentiality & Trust
All communications are to remain strictly private between mentor and mentee.
No screenshots, copying of messages, or public disclosure without consent.
Violations lead to removal from the program.
Core Program Rules
Rule
Description
Minimum Entry
Mentors: 30+ days
Mentees: Below 30 days
Confidentiality
Private messaging only. No public shaming or exposure.
Respect
No unsolicited advice. No abuse.
Commitment
Mentors: Weekly check-ins. Mentees: Honesty and effort.
Relapse Respect
No judgment in case of relapse—support, don’t shame.
Opt-out
Participants can opt-out anytime, no questions asked.
Benefits of the Rewire Mentor Program
For Mentors:
Reinforces your own streak and values.
Gives deeper meaning to your journey.
Builds leadership, compassion, and listening skills.
Keeps you humble and aware of relapse risks.
For Mentees:
Reduces loneliness, shame, and secrecy.
Offers a relatable guide who’s “been there.”
Encourages consistency through accountability.
Makes the first 7 days less intimidating.
Example Workflow
Mentor John (45 days in) gets matched with Mentee Alex (3-day streaks).
Alex sends a message: “Hey John, it’s day 2. I’m getting cravings after work again, and I feel like giving in tonight.”
John replies: “That’s when it usually hits hardest. One trick I used was going for a 20-minute walk before I went home. Disrupts the trigger loop. Can you try that tonight? You’ve already made it through the worst yesterday.”
Closing Philosophy
The Rewire Mentor Program is built on the belief that no one should walk the path of transformation alone. We’re not just counting days—we’re reclaiming lives. By mentoring others, we reinforce our own growth, and by being mentored, we realize we are not broken—just rewiring.
#### For *Mentors*
### 👤 **Basic Information**
1. **Username / Forum Name:**
*\[Your forum username or alias]\**
2. **Current Location**
*\[Open text box]\**
3. **Age Group:**
*\[ ] Under 18*
*\[ ] 18–24*
*\[ ] 25–34*
*\[ ] 35–44*
*\[ ] 45+*
4. **Time Zone:**
*\[Your time zone, e.g., GMT+1 / EST / IST]\**
5. **Languages You’re Comfortable With:**
*\[ ] English*
*\[ ] Spanish*
*\[ ] Hindi*
*\[ ] French*
\_\[ ] Other: \_\_\_\_\_\_\_
6. **Current NoFap Streak (in days):**
*\[Must be 30 or more]\**
7. **Why do you want to become a mentor?**
*\[Open text box]\**
8. **How many mentees are you willing to guide?**
* [ ] 1
* [ ] 2
* [ ] 3 (max allowed)
9. **Have you mentored anyone before (formally or informally)?**
* [ ] Yes
* [ ] No
10. **Are you comfortable receiving messages when someone is struggling with urges or relapse?**
* [ ] Yes
* [ ] No
### 🔒 **Confidentiality & Commitment**
Please read and agree to the following statements:
* [ ] I understand that all conversations will remain confidential between mentor and mentee.
* [ ] I will respect the time, privacy, and boundaries of the person I’m paired with.
* [ ] I may leave the program at any time by notifying the admins.
**Signature (Type your username to confirm):**
*\[Your Forum Username]\**
**Date:**
*\[MM/DD/YYYY]*
Template for Mentees
#### For *Mentees*
### 👤 **Basic Information**
1. **Username / Forum Name:**
*\[Your forum username or alias]\**
2. **Current Location**
*\[Open text box]\**
3. **Age Group:**
*\[ ] Under 18*
*\[ ] 18–24*
*\[ ] 25–34*
*\[ ] 35–44*
*\[ ] 45+*
4. **Time Zone:**
*\[Your time zone, e.g., GMT+1 / EST / IST]\**
5. **Languages You’re Comfortable With:**
*\[ ] English*
*\[ ] Spanish*
*\[ ] Hindi*
*\[ ] French*
\_\[ ] Other: \_\_\_\_\_\_\_
6. **How many days do you usually relapse at?**
*\[ ] 1–2 days*
*\[ ] 3–4 days*
*\[ ] 5–6 days*
*\[ ] 6–7 days*
7. **What triggers do you struggle with the most?**
* [ ] Boredom
* [ ] Stress
* [ ] Social Media
* [ ] Loneliness
* [ ] Other: \_\_\_\_\_\_\_
8. **What kind of mentor would you feel most comfortable with?**
* [ ] Older than me
* [ ] Similar age
* [ ] Doesn’t matter
9. **Would you be willing to check in at least once a week with your mentor?**
* [ ] Yes
* [ ] No
* [ ] Unsure
10. **Why do you want a mentor?**
*\[Open text box]\**
### 🔒 **Confidentiality & Commitment**
Please read and agree to the following statements:
* [ ] I understand that all conversations will remain confidential between mentor and mentee.
* [ ] I will respect the time, privacy, and boundaries of the person I’m paired with.
* [ ] I may leave the program at any time by notifying the admins.
**Signature (Type your username to confirm):**
*\[Your Forum Username]\**
**Date:**
*\[MM/DD/YYYY]*
Message @FaithfulWalker (Admin) these sign up forms please. Thank you.
Mood: okay Cravings: low Triggers: stress and boredom
What I Did to Cope: i didn’t think of those things Small Win Today: did some necessary works for a better Tommorow Biggest Struggle: fake promise of fun through pmo
Encouragement to Mentor: thanks Samuel sir, I promise to reach a month someday
Mood: Good Cravings: Low Triggers: Urges & Imagination
What I Did to Cope: Stayed with family Small Win Today: being more happy Biggest Struggle: sleep schedule
Encouragement to Mentor: bless the person of God who helps the helpless. Thank you for helping @TonyTheChristian ! Never made it to second day this easily.
@The_Rising_One or @Ironwill1000 please message each other for confidentiality purposes. No talking to each other here. Thank you for your support and God bless.
Eligibility Criteria
Minimum Entry
Confidentiality
Respect
Commitment
Relapse Respect
Opt-out
For Mentors:
For Mentees:
Rewire Mentor Program – Sign-Up Form
Self-Assessment Questions
Daily Check-In (For Mentees)
Weekly Check-In (For Mentors)
Basic Information
Date: 4 July 2025
Day of Streak: 4
Mood: okay
Cravings: low
Triggers: stress and boredom
What I Did to Cope: i didn’t think of those things
Small Win Today: did some necessary works for a better Tommorow
Biggest Struggle: fake promise of fun through pmo
Encouragement to Mentor: thanks Samuel sir, I promise to reach a month someday 