The Hero's 90 Day Challenge! šŸ‘‘

DAY :four:

  • One affirmation - This is my last streak.
  • One thing Iā€™m thankful for in my life - Being alive and well in the new year.
  • Progress for the day - Free and clean day.
  • Number of urges defeated/practices completed - I had a few urges and practised 8x.

Yesterday I was conflicted about the role of fantasizing in my reboot process, whether it is necessary part of my humanity, or itā€™s just another way to trick my brain into going back to PMO. My subconscious self is resisting the truth that I need to cut it out because it has directly led to some of my relapses.

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Yes I agree to the rules of the challenge.
My reasons for quitting PMO:

  1. To have a stronger spiritual relationship with God.
  2. To have a good health.
  3. Now I have realized PMO is not beneficial for me.
  4. To finish social anxiety.
  5. To have healthy relationships.
  6. To not feel the guilt and shame which i used to feel in PMO.
    Thatā€™s all:)
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Day 65

  • Affirmation - I am a believer. I believe I can change.
  • One thing I am thankful about is my courage to change and take a stand.
  • Urges - 0
  • Report of the day - quite productive. Today finished writing a whole episode of 30 pages.
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:arrow_right:Day 9
:arrow_right:Positive affirmation: I am good at handling sexual desires.
:arrow_right:I am thankful for every thing and every one I have in my life.
:arrow_right:Yup! I had Another clean and a great day!
:arrow_right:I had no urges today.

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:golf: Todayā€™s Report: :golf:

:two_hearts: Sharing Code : 2sov9d

:yellow_circle: Current Streak : 95 Happy days WITH GODā€™S HELP
:green_circle: Previous Highest Streak : 90+ Days

:pushpin: Affirmations:
:muscle: I am Very intelligent beyond the human capability

:pushpin: Things youā€™re thankful for in your life:
:gift_heart: I am thankful for god for giving me the intelligence which is humanly not possible

:pushpin: Report your progress for the day
:tulip: Clean day

:pushpin: Report the number of urges defeated/practices completed
:white_check_mark: 0 Urges 0 Practices

:paintbrush: Diary:
A Good day with zero urges

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Reporting day 5

One affirmation - Success and goals feel more achievable.

I am thankful for - Knowledge and patience.

Progress - clean day

Urges 2 / Practice 3

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@Forerunner
Brother, I have blocked vimeo. I want to unblock it to watch some videos sent by my accountability software team. I cannot do so with my account. It can be done only by guardian accounts. Please do this:
Sign in to My Account => Manage members => Alegend Filtering => Custom block list.
This list consists of potentially threatful sites like facebook, insta etc. From that list please remove vimeo.
I can block but I cannot unblock. Please inform me after doing this. :slightly_smiling_face:

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@HappySoul Iā€™ve unblocked Vimeo.

Donā€™t forget that any videos you watch on Vimeo will still appear in the report :wink:

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Thanks brother. I will also ask you to unblock youtube after finishing my current watch later set on whatsapp (maybe in Feb). But I will block it again within some minutes.

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:gem: Affirmation - I am a hero. I am a winner. I am successful. I am physically, mentally, emotionally and spiritually healthy.
:gem: I am thankful for - Iā€™m thankful for the help and mercy I receive from God and friends.
:gem: Progress - Clean day! :smiley:
:gem: Benefits/Mood/Productivity - :slightly_smiling_face:
:gem: Number of mini urges defeated, practices completed - 2, 10

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Welcome, hero @Consecrator! Youā€™ve joined the fight against the dragons of PMO as an apprentice!

Well done in surpassing your highest streak! Letā€™s move forward together in 2020!

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@Tuku Awesome work today brother!


Check-in Day 23 (Day 203 hard mode with GODā€™s Help)
:white_check_mark: One affirmation: I am in good health.
:pray:t5: One thing Iā€™m thankful for in my life: I am thankful for comfort in difficult times.
:shower: Progress for the day: Another day free and clean!
:exploding_head: Number of urges: 0
:person_fencing: Number of practices: 10


New video - The Number 1 Reason Why We Continue to Relapse!

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@Forerunner thanks a lot bro, your words are very motivating. And yea 2019 will be the last year we have ever did that foolishness (PMO). Letā€™s move stronger :fire:

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Avoiding Thoughts about about girls will helpā€¦ Blocking this will help to some extendā€¦ But unless and until u maintain mental purity, no-fap is 100% impossibleā€¦
NEVER LET THE MIND TO THINK ABOUT GIRLS, IF YOU ALLOW IT, BLOCKING THIS WILL NOT HELPā€¦

Last night i got a x-ual dream, fortunately its just a dream , not a wet dream :wink:

It happened even i am maintaining 98% mental purityā€¦

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DAY :five:

  • One affirmation - I have the power to choose in every situation.
  • One thing Iā€™m thankful for in my life - Being alive and well in the new year.
  • Progress for the day - Free and clean day.
  • Number of urges defeated/practices completed - I had 0 urges and practised 5x.
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Yes @Wyatt
Avoiding g related thoughts is very important. Whenever any such thought comes, I block it using my strategy. If it takes more than about a minute to vanish, I count it as a ā€˜minor urge defeatedā€™. I am trying my best to maintain mental purity.

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:golf: Todayā€™s Report: :golf:

:two_hearts: Sharing Code : 2sov9d

:yellow_circle: Current Streak : 96 Happy days WITH GODā€™S HELP
:green_circle: Previous Highest Streak : 90+ Days

:pushpin: Affirmations:
:muscle: I am Very intelligent beyond the human capability

:pushpin: Things youā€™re thankful for in your life:
:gift_heart: I am thankful for god for giving me the intelligence which is humanly not possible

:pushpin: Report your progress for the day
:tulip: Clean day

:pushpin: Report the number of urges defeated/practices completed
:white_check_mark: 0 Urges 0 Practices

:paintbrush: Diary:
A Good day with zero urges

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:gem: Affirmation - I am a hero. I am a winner. I am successful. I am physically, mentally, emotionally and spiritually healthy.
:gem: I am thankful for - Iā€™m thankful for the help and mercy I receive from God and friends.
:gem: Progress - Clean day! :smiley:
:gem: Benefits/Mood/Productivity - :neutral_face:
:gem: Number of mini urges defeated, practices completed - 1, 10

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Reporting day 6

One affirmation - Stopping a really bad urge is a powerful feeling.

I am thankful for - Having enough Willpower

Progress - clean day

Urges 1 / Practice 2

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It really is brother! When we defeat the terrible urges which would have toppled us in the past, we prove to ourselves that we really can succeed.


Check-in Day 24 (Day 204 hard mode with GODā€™s Help)
:white_check_mark: One affirmation: I am in control.
:pray:t5: One thing Iā€™m thankful for in my life: I am thankful for knowledge and understanding.
:shower: Progress for the day: Another day free and clean!
:exploding_head: Number of urges: 0
:person_fencing: Number of practices: 10+

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