Thats the good part
I am not aditya
just Aadi 
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Yeah ik bhai, but this forum is completely opposite of those things. That’s why I told my mom that sentence and I said it politely and she understood too after I showed her chats of related to study, not sure but that might happen again that she will again scold me 
, but atleast I have proved her I am not doing anything wrong here 
Along with the suraname
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Going down that road, even my name Koushik is public.
Because when I joined here first in my previous account, I was novice and gave my full name as user id.
Now thankfully changed it
People may only know Koushik.
And not my surname.
Thats what okays me.
Because in 1.4 Billion population, the name Koushik is common too.
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meanwhile integrous one 
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I think his insta id is public too.
So i guess it wouldn’t be much of a problem
I googled his actual name Sumit ( name changed) and his occupation in google
And it gave me his exact insta id
Although i don’t want to reveal his insta id or other personal information here
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one hell of a unique name
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I guess he shouldn’t have revealed the name of the organization he is working with
That makes it obvious.
His name is already unique.
He could have limited himself to the extent that he is an executive in a government organization
But then it’s his choice
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I think I’ve got the best parents. They believe in me. Since I have earned money from online application so they trust me that our son is never gonna lose a single rupee.
I’m very Kanjus type person.
When I used to talk to girls online ( while singing in live broadcast not privately 
) They joined my conversation and enjoy talking to them. They are open minded. And I’m very happy for that.
Khair… bahut jyada bol diya mene.
Ab apni journey par focus kro.
Shri Hari bless
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I know I will have to work hard and focus more at the right time to succeed. But the thing is I am thinking in these lines only when sufficient time has already elapsed to make a parallel run of what could have been in the sense like : " It would have been better I was working hard from day 1"
Then I fail.
Then I retry.
While retrying all my wisdom disappears and I become lethargic
After sufficient time elapses, again I think as mentioned above " It would have been better had I worked from day 1 with focus and determination "
Then I fail
Then I retry again
And the cycle Continues
I now realizing that I am in stale mate in my life
Not even able to move an inch forward
I don’t know something is fundamentally wrong with me
I need to initiate significant reforms in my actions
I will identify where I am lacking and prepare a draft bill of reforms and try to enact it in the next Koushese Parliament Session.
Koushese Parliament is a single party legislature.
So passing the bill is merely a formality.
But if the bill details are improper/ ambiguous/ contravenes any existing principle/ order, Koushese Apex Court will take suo moto cognizance and strike down the bill.
I need to draft the bill properly to avoid this.
Hmm
That’s all for today
B4N 
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My insta account is private dude
People who are close to me already know that I’ve used online forums for self development and others don’t matter much so I won’t even mind if someone got to know something from here.
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…
I don’t care
I was speaking of something else
Then I spoke about you because Ambitious One mentioned you in my diary.
So I had the right to respond to him.
Otherwise I wouldn’t even care
I was speaking with him
Neither tagged you or anything
Even then I have clearly mentioned above "its your choice "
I don’t have to do anything about it
When your insta id appeared first in the search result,
I didn’t even view your insta profile because I can’t even use Instagram as mentioned in the first post above
So i left it there only
I don’t know why this should become an issue.
Then why are you here ??
Judging someone’s personal experience and personal decision as fantasy and stuff. Isn’t that disrespectful?
He didn’t mean to hurt you bhai, and he wasn’t talking about you, he just meant even if someone will find his ids name in future , it won’t affect him , even his closed ones IRL knows that he uses self improvement forum. Not to mention that he changed to integrous one for his privacy , even his IRL acquaintances find him here he won’t mind tho.
Actually he is giving my reference we had in the chats , as no friends is kinda uncommon for everyone so he called it fantasy in a playful manner not to hurt you bhai.
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See brother
You too have had fun with me
I didn’t mind it at all.
Not even one percent.
Infact, I was laughing so hard at your funny comments.
And I have given you both full right to make fun of me because I know you both by now. I see you as my brothers. I have made fun too about you both both in your respective diaries
So I don’t even take it to heart
I enjoy it rather
I am happy that I have you both as my brothers 
in this forum. I am forever grateful to see you two @The_Ambitious_One @Sholt_Tenkerrot 
But when someone thinks that a person doesn’t belong to their friends circle/ doesn’t even know them personally, then the former has no right whatsoever to comment on the latter
Because we meet so many people in our world
We don’t have the right to judge someone we don’t even know.
Although we can make funny comments/ joke/ tease/ mock/ judge/correct our friends because thats perfectly okay 
PS : Even in his diary, when I called him Shrest, it was a respectful gesture. Not even one percent disrespect. I compared him with Shree Krishna/Bhishma pitamah etc. So it is a respectful way of joking others. But calling someone’s experience as fantasy just breaks their heart after all that they have experienced in their life 
Chill down brother
Dont overjudge anyone’s words
Take everyone here as your brothers
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I cleared it above bhai he didn’t mean to hurt you, he wasn’t talking about you when he said someone.
See he also considered you as his friend ,bhai, he wished you on your birthday and he doesn’t know about your past experience because he wasn’t active that time , so he just said it casually , just like you were calling him shreshtha. Don’t overhink about it bhai 
. Now try to connect the dots and understand what I said. . You misunderstood and that triggered your past trauma, don’t let it affect the connections that you can make here. And @The_integrous_one isn’t like that who will make fun of someone’s past and dishearten new friends, you misunderstood it .
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Oh okay
Then I apologise
My over reaction is also responsible for this
Hmm
Lets forget please
And I am sorry to everyone for over reacting (if his message wasn’t intended to hurt)
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Ok no issues, Sorry for my rude comment, I’ll take care not to comment on your posts.
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Look bhai , how understanding he is , that’s why we all were trying to clear the misunderstandings , we know him well, you misunderstood his intent .