The_Enlightened_One 's Piece of Enlightenment

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So here as promised I am starting this piece on my birthday. So here’s something about me.
I have principles in my life which I wish to protect at all cost

  1. Sacrifice
  2. Detachment
  3. Self Control
  4. Selflessness
  5. Courage
    These are like my 5 spouses. I have got married to them and have promised to protect them and practice them for life
    So yes i have got :five: wives :gem::gem::gem::gem::gem: I’ll carry them in my head

Then I have got one Child till now
Whose name is MATURITY
I will protect and nurture him with all my life

Even as an individual, I am run by three Elements:
The Legislature, Judiciary and Executive
The following are the bills passed by Koushese legislature and Approved by the President dated and signed under his hand ( in chronological order)

:heart_on_fire: 5 orders :heart_on_fire:

:heart_on_fire:Order dated 1/1/2022 : Life-time Ban on all relatives.
:heart_on_fire:Order dated 19/9/2023 : Life-time Ban on all friends
:heart_on_fire: Order dated 20/8/2024 : Life-time Ban on 5 Social Media applications ( Youtube, Facebook, Twitter, Instagram and WhatsApp)
:heart_on_fire:Order dated 5/9/2024 : Life - time ban on all ■■■■ websites, Pornographic images, Sexting, Obscene content, Casual Sexism, peeking or edging over Obscene content, vulgar songs :musical_note: and all other matters incidental or ancillary to the ■■■■.
:heart_on_fire: Order dated 11/9/2024 : Life-time ban on using cuss words, bad words, vulgar words etc.

And then I have 5 resolves which forms the basis of purpose of my life( I have resolved over Agni Dev, The fire god):

:fire: Abstinence over Food Addiction and Food Slavery. Overcoming the slave mentality of food cravings and eating whats good for me physically and mentally ( SADHVIK FOOD)
:fire: Overcoming the greatest disease of Human Race : Lust and destroying the inbuilt Lust within me and not just becoming divine but also seeing the divinity present in others
:fire: Controlling the most powerful poison of human life which is Anger and Overcoming it to find peace both internally and externally
:fire: Overcoming Laziness and using every single second of my life usefully and productively in such a way, that when the day starts I live like a newly born one and when the day is going to end, I live like this is the last day of my life
:fire: Controlling the persistent weakness of human beings : Sleep. Using sleep period effectively. Controlling sleep timings and to wake up in the Brahma Muhurt Time ( before sunrise ) to be healthy, wealthy and wise.

And then there are miscellaneous rules and regulations passed by Koushese Executives which relates to day-to day affairs
:boom: Not to lock the door alone except for bathing/dressing up( to prevent edging)
:boom: Not to take phone/laptop/any electronic gadget to first floor ( where i usually edge and relapse)
:boom: Switching off internet when not required
:boom: Not to web surf/ doom scroll
:boom: Not to sleep during the day ( enacted to prevent staying awake late at night since major relapses occur at night)

Koushese Judiciary decides and settles inner conflicts , confusions and issues which arises incidentally each day. It rules based on the values and morals given by god in Ramayan, Mahabarat, Bhagavad Geeta, Upanishads etc.

So these are all that I have with me
I will be sharing my experience and advice too
Stay tuned to get motivated and useful insights and hard hitting advice about life and things

Thank ya all
Love you!!
Vasudhaiva Kutumbakam ( Whole World :earth_americas: is One Family :family_man_woman_girl_girl:)

Koushik
[ 21M]

PS: I seriously don’t know my nofap streak count because I have stopped counting days long back
I don’t get urges now and honestly don’t care a damn :person_shrugging: about cringy ■■■■ or masturbation
These things don’t trouble me anymore
But I know the fight against them is for a long duration and till the end of my life

So cheers :beers: :clap: :v:

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you forgot to add ban , brother :skull:

btw W resolve , you really are gonna attain that enlightenment with this
the 5 spouses thing is creative and hilarious at the same time :joy:

bro has 5 red flags :skull:

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Oh god :skull:
Did I forget to add ban ?
:joy::joy::joy:
Thank god you corrected me :pray:

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:joy:
I am a married man you know.

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Let them fight each other or else u will have head ache

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No friends??? what kind of fantasy is this?

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bro only makes brothers now
hes fed up of friesnds :dove:

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This is exactly what i think
Literally you spoke exactly what I thought
Take this :crown:

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thanks
happy belated birthday bro :joy:

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I literally read “bed” there :skull:

Easiest way would be replacing those cuss words with something non vulgar words which sounds similar.

All the best bhai , we will always be with you :heart: :hugs: ! Happy birthday one last time for this year ! Best wises and always be happy :people_hugging: !

Best decision , you eliminated major issues with this one :speaking_head: :fire: !

Sorry bhai I am a minor :new_moon_with_face: :joy: :heart: :heart:

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Bhai voh pitchers me apple juice hai, tum kya samjhe

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the emoji is literally named “beers” :skull:

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Ah shit :rofl::rofl::rofl::rofl::rofl::rofl::rofl::rofl::rofl: …
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Yesterday something terrible happened.
So Yesterday I was active in this forum with my mobile chatting in this forum
Moreover my exams got over on 17th and I have taken some break from everything
My exam preparation was so hard and took a toll on mental health too
So Yesterday was compulsory rest for me from damn studies.
I was looking at my mobile constantly and texting to people here.
So my mother was intrigued and peeked to my mobile phone to check what was I fixated at for so long
I told her that this is an online forum among my age group ( I obviously can’t explain her about PMO and Nofap stuff right?)
So I didn’t explain much about this website

Immediately she began to rebuke me and said
" Stop this online forum and all. These days I am reading a lot in newspapers about it. Financial frauds are happening a lot online. Honey trapping and blackmailing is happening in online
Don’t get into these things.
Or else you will get into some trouble “”

I am explaining her again
"Mom, this is not what you think!!
This website is different.
It’s meant for motivation and self development.
Even then I have come to the age where I am cautious and well aware things which might go wrong and I will take necessary precautions . So stop worrying "

She goes again like:
" You don’t know anything. Someone might deceive you. If we parents tell something, it will have a meaning. We will tell something to you only for your concern and well being. So stop it now or regret later"

I am again explaining her
“Mom please. I have come to age where I will look out for things myself. And let me handle my life myself please. I am bold.”

And then father too joined in
It led to huge argument yesterday mid night.
I didn’t even speak with them afterwards.

Sad isn’t it??

Hmm
They don’t even realize that I am already living such a closeted life. This forum is the only place for me to open up.
If I cut that too, I will literally be living a boxed life.

And I know I am a pampered child
My parents are always petting me since childhood. My parents have never left me do anything independently or go for an outstation independently or even go to a movie/party solo
I know they are extremely concerned about my safety and well-being

And i am not even a child anymore.
I am 21 year old fucking adult.
I have beard.
I have got into PMO stuff etc. And now trying to overcome it.
And I am capable to handle everything in my life my own independently and do more things independently
I know there are lot of crimes in this world and one needs to be cautious
But I know that
I am not that dumb. I know what happens in outside world and capable of protecting myself

God convince my parents :pray:

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Classic fear mongering :neutral_face::face_with_diagonal_mouth::face_with_diagonal_mouth:
I know they love me so much and this fear in their minds about my safety comes from their boundless love and care towards me.
But this fear mongering since childhood has totally destroyed my sef confidence in building good relationship with any damn outsider in this world.
And look at where I am.
I have actually started accepting myself as a loner and isolated :face_with_diagonal_mouth::face_with_diagonal_mouth:.

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Same happened with me when I chat here, my mother thinks I am wasting time with the wrong people and they will ruin my life and deceive me , she doesn’t want me to talk to people online :skull:. I explained her and said @The_integrous_one is my mentor and these are my friends then she said ask something related to study if he is really that good , then I told her I do talk about everything important with them, just sometimes we talk about different things to lighten up my mood , “just like you talk to mausiji about everything to lighten up your mood” :skull: and this line was enough :dove:. Just show that study challenge thread you will be saved :joy:.

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:saluting_face: :saluting_face: :fire: :fire:

I literally have rc on my home page and they often see me texting also :skull: , never asked what this forum was ( its been 2 years now)
idk why , but they dont seem to care at all

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Their concern is valid sholt.
Because Nowadays Suicides due to online honey trapping and blackmailing are increasing.
I won’t blame them for being concerned .
But this platform is something different
Not even our name is displayed here
I don’t even know all your names
So what could even possibly go wrong.?
The thing is we can’t even explain them about this forum Because its about nofap, Overcoming PMO etc.
So we can’t do that as well
Hence we are in a catch 22 situation

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My name has become infamous in this forum :skull:

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Aadi is not your actual name right?
It could be aditya
Even aditya is very common name
Almost 1 in 10 people are aditya in India
So you don’t have to worry