Everywhere we go these days, we are being taught to never be satisfied with the things we have. “He has a Samsung Galaxy!” “He has an iphone?!” “OMG! She has a gold plated iphone with diamond screen!?!!” Madness has reached upto the extent that people are selling their body parts to have these things, which they don’t really need. A couple of years ago, a 15 yo Dutch girl killed herself because her parents merely bought her an iphone X instead of iphone X S .
Similarly, we have begun to behave that way everywhere in our lives. Some prominent new wave feminists are telling women to “never settle with one man”. Men have been brainwashed for years with propagandas like " you should bang as many women as you can" …
And these things ultimately cause the brainwashing that leads us becoming addict to porn. How and why? Because we are not settling. Our mind is getting the feeling that its fucking a new sexier and hotter partner every time. Every time we have a new hotter person waiting for us to get banged by our imaginations. This very small aspect of our nature of never settling is forcing us into the trap of addiction of PMO and destroying our lives.
Hence, this becomes more important than ever to be satisfied with the things that we have. Identify the difference between our needs and our wants. And most importantly, we must learn to settle and find happiness in small things. Or, we all can very well bring the end to not only our own lives, but to this very human civilization.
P.S. My post was mistakenly posted before I was finished writing.
Take care.
That’s why many relationship end up in failure nowadays. We never get satisfied and grateful for what we have rather complaint and compare usually
Actually, that was why I wrote this. An old acquaintance’s gf left him for one of my classmates because apparently he was “more handsome” in her eyes and she didn’t deserve to settle with this “inferior looking” acquaintance.
yeah bro, you hit the right topic!
greed, lust all these are enemies of a man.
now a days satisfaction has a different meaning.
This journey of searching for best in never ends and she never be happy fully, it’s a loop. He is lucky she left him , he deserve better. This early he able to identify her behavior is luck
What is worse is nowadays everywhere we go, such things are promoted. Why settle for this? Even when you go to a simple shopping site like Amazon, you’ll find phones on top with their screens saying “never settle”, as if that new phone will directly take person from New Delhi to New York unlike that old inferior phone which can only make the people in 2 places talk with each other.
We need to be grateful for things we have and be proud with what we have bro, even if we have Nokia 1100. Yes there is new iPhone 12 pro is best but that doesn’t mean Nokia 1100 is worst. Nokia 1100 is unique and in making to become it’s own version. Actually its confusing to me to explain between phone and people 
. How can I do that. Phone have no feelings but people has , she should not do that to her boyfriend, it’s not acceptable. We need to learn to live happily with what we have. And she also have right to shift from place to place 
. So your friend should search for some better girl which matches his character and values
No, I mean they can do whatever I want. I was just using phone as an example about how human wants can never be fulfilled, but their needs can be. Actually this same behaviour of not finding happiness with the fulfillment of needs and sorrow over not getting what we want, makes us an addict to anything. PMO has its roots in that too. We are being brainwashed into believing that sex and orgasm are the absolute necessity of human life and we can’t be happy without them. We are being brainwashed knto believing that settling for one partner is boring when you can fuck a new hotter person every other day. Thats how we get addicted to porn. “Just this actress/model/singer/pornstar” to “just these pornstars” to “every person available on internet”; it all happenes pretty quickly and we pretty quickly become addicted to things.
And fuck that acquaintance and her gf, whatever happens to them. If he cries over that female, thats his problem of being a weak beta faggot and idgaf about that, same for that woman.
We can’t stop this ,its human nature.
21st century people are just jealous and want to down grade who ever is rising in his life . They always want to compete , instead not focus on talking with the person , getting tips from him how he is rising . They are just jealous of everything that the rising person is doing . They want same expensive phone , car or anything that the person is having . And when they don’t get it simply suicide.
Jealousy is the problem that prevails in weak and low will power people .
But its nature bro. We usually see things like that. If we need to overcome it fully we need to be monks. So The idea is to be between monk and normal human. Every husband think and get stimulated by other hot girls if they saw, we usually want better phone but we need to think is it right or wrong? and is that phone necessary or we need that simply for show off. It lies there. Yes as you said it also causing certain roots as an addict but it’s not that only, there are soo many. We cannot particularly specify this alone.
I am not saying that people should not get tempted, that’s the basic human nature as you pointed out. But giving into those temptations is problematic and one of the major reasons for decreasing morality and increasing PMO addiction. With internet porn, people are able to get (their mind tricks them into believing it) a new hotter person every other day, and this wanting of more and more and more is the root cause of PMO addiction. Try this, can you feel the same level of satisfaction if you get to see the same video featuring same actor everyday. You’ll not even feel interested after a few days, let alone being addicted. This brainwashing is killing our lives bro, and makimg us the addict that we don’t want to be.
Yess I agree brother. We should not give in temptations. If we allow they become strongly rooted and fuck our brain,life even more
Jealousy is a problem bro. But it has alway been there since the heydays of human civilisation. But this braimwashing, everywhere people being told to “never settle” is problematic. Not only is it not being condemned, it is rather being promoted as something “great” in the new world connected via internet and digital, visual and print media (most often by influential people).
I really like your idea of taking the small portions of book and communicating with people like this. It helps in some level and gives us clear understanding about things
Yeah, its even more fascinating when you see such things happening in lives of people around you and sometimes even yourself. Thats why I feel such things should be communicated here as well and people can learn about their own basic problems which is causing their attraction to pornography.
I appreciate that 
Thoda shanti se kaam lo bhai
If he had feelings he’s definitely going to feel sad.
Sab k saath hota hai
Ha wo ladki ne kuch jyada hi kharab kar diya but still
I do think never settle can be applied somewhere we can actually use it
For example, why settle on 10 days of nofap? Aim for more
Why settle for limited productivity? Try to achieve new heights
And so on
I also thought on this topic. When I first saw this quote "never settle " , I thought why ?
Do we have to always aim for more and more . Then I realised that I only thought about one side of this quote. This quote was on something else.
Let me tell you something. In animal kingdom(eg-monkeys) one who reaches the top becomes king. He settles there and his ego goes to peak.
In humans also one who masters a work or thing starts to have ego. If he settles there and think no one is better than him he would never grow more.and can also never allow or see anyone surpassing him.
If you are a Hindu ,you can relate to it very much since many stories are based on this.
You have to think every thing in many angles to completely understand .