I feel that I am deliberately Isolated in this forum by people for reasons I am not aware.
Although I am kind and generous to everyone in this forum, people in this forum keep ignoring me . It could my over reaction too.
But I have been facing this problem of deliberate isolation and ignoring since my childhood
Due to this, I have acquired serious trauma and anxiety about this issue. Maybe people in this forum don’t intend to do it
But as I have said, It looks to me like you people are doing it intentionally because of my childhood trauma. It is bringing back some bad memories and wierd fear. As a result, it is annoying me and having a toll on my mental health
So I have taken the difficult decision to leave this forum. This forum has been so wonderful and amazing to say the least. It is just top notch
Kudos to the founders for having created such a great forum for everyone suffering from this issue
But now I have to leave
Thank you everyone
Thank you for everything
Just one small request from my side before leaving. Hereafter atleast don’t indulge in GROUPSIM and engage only with your group
Be open minded and engage with everyone and talk with everyone. Don’t ignore anyone . It hurts
So remember this to make this forum even brighter
Ok bye
I have requested the admins to delete my account permanently
Hope they’ll honor it
I am sorry if you feel that way. I understand why you are feeling this way but don’t leave the forum. I was in this forum for 3+ years, did not engage with anyone much for 2+ years because of my own self. I never initiated convo, felt like there was groupism initially but the moment I socialised everyone was welcoming.
May be in your case, respecting your past, your issues are multiplied. To tackle that, try to be the part of group(and sometimes the center).
In any sense, wherever you go, even if you leave the forum or stay, do understand, once you become part of someone’s cause they will become part of yours. By which I mean, you should engage in others posts and concerns and they would eventually be interested in yours. I’m not blaming anyone, it’s just how things work with socialisation.
Ye apki misunderstanding h bhai.
Or wese bhi Sabhi se expectations rakhna mtlb dukh. Duniya ka naam hi Dukhalay h.
Focus on what is good. Bahut se log acche se yaha jo motivate bhi karte h or support bhi. Mujhe yaha join kiye 6 month hua h aajtak koi nahi mila jo misbehave kiya.
Nowadays people ignore good people. If you are dharmik, if you behave good, if you don’t smoke or drink, if you are simple, if you are a good student, then people will ignore you but not all people. You haven’t met with the right people yet.
Keep patience. Cheap people ignore expensive things.
Yes.
I agree
People find us boring if we talk about these things
They want to talk us about girl friends, sex, love, movies, celebrities, junk foods etc
Won’t say you to change yourself. You’ll find your people but do find some hobbies. Indeed digital socialisation is not much healthy but it’s good to be updated on things, it leads to a common ground for discussion.
I think many new users think this way when they see people talking here and they get intrigued and start to have fear in their mind that people will ignore them even if they try . But trust me people here are very welcoming and personally I haven’t seen you active here since I joined back . So I will suggest you to join the convos you will love it , it will lighten up your mood , don’t let your past affect the connections you can make here . I myself have made many friends here and they are like my brothers and family and touchwood I will always be in contact with them. Connections made here are much better than so called blood relation .
Most of the people here are introverts including me , lgta nhi hoon wo alg baat hai
And people here are so versatile you can talk about anything and no one crosses their boundary . Talking about movies songs anime is not wrong until they cross boundaries and no one crosses it , bhai, it just lighten ups the mood .
Bro what do u mean by groupism? It is wrong to make a group and making fun and encourage each other. If u want to join in a convo in digitally or in reality, u should accept ignorance, criticism also bro… Not everyone will be nice to u in everytime. U see many topics here with supporting posts to encourage them “u will do nxt time better”. If u expect this things u also be the one who should be supportive to everyone. When i joined this forum. I thought everyone is from northie. A lot of hindi post. Its their wish to speak with anyone in their regional language. Bcoz regional language is something we r comfortable with… Read many topics here from a to z and find someonrme with vibe… Support them and encourage them… U will get it in return.
No no I won’t mind Tiger.
I don’t mind if people can correct me because thats how i learn about that portion of myself which I am not aware.
So yes.
As far as your advice goes, yes i will learn about people’s challenges and their approach in tackling this addiction which helps me improve myself
Thank you for spending your time and wisdom in advising me
Much appreciated
My intention was not to hurt anyone.
As I have already said this is little to do with RC alone and more to do with a repeat, re- run and rumination of childhood trauma
I accept that these are the realities of the present world and people should accept both appreciation, criticism and ignorance as well.
I am trying hard to accept but mental health is deteriorating and affecting day to day activities
Never mind. I will improve
Thanks for the advice
Re-read the post i made some changes.
Most ppl here having mental health issues… Find the one and grow each other. U can join challenges also study challenge, morning ritual challenge, etc…
Your perspective needs some change
I guess that is your habit.
You are so occupied in mind that you are not ready to understand what others are trying to say
And last its always you is responsible whatever the hell or good is happening with you
No one can makes you sad and happy.
Thank you so much buddy @Binocular
Honestly you are always the one to motivate me and push me upwards in this forum .
You are such a great soul I have ever met in recent times
If I had a companion like you in my real life apart from forum, one and ATLEAST ONE🥹, it would have been the best gift I would have ever got
I long to have friends like you
Thank you for always supporting me
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