No, never, don’t, she is your gf only
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i know and i only wanted to be true with her
Exposing your vulnerability to be true.
I dont see any benefit. Keep it to yourself. You have yourself, thats enough. Tatakae, embrace it!
She should tell you her vulnerability, not you
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but this is one of main reasons of our misunderstood, fights, having no sex etc
why should i lie and telling her some fairy tales
She will leave you, honestly. She may embrace you for a while, but not for long. Instead make changes yourself, have your me time more, self rely on this issue. Make her experience your entertaining life, not make her your entertaining life. Have a life of your own that she can enter into, not make her your life.
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Alll the best @mamacitabla
I know some of the comments have called you weak, simp etc. They have been deleted.
While its important to be strong and a man, a real man never puts another down. Ever.
All the best overcoming this common battle we face.
And dont worry, true strength comes out only when you’re open to being vulnerable. There is no strength as evident as the ability to be vulnerable.
Keep getting better every day.
And lets build each other up, iron sharpens iron guys. Dont call each other weak etc. Harsh words are good. Strong reproof is needed. Dont ever go easy.
But dont put others down or call them names. How would that help?
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let it be
im grown man i can handle it
i can support her in any topic i hope that honesty is getting us stronger as a relationship
baceuse everytime i was true with her or she w me our relation was getting better
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You can be true on most of the parts, but this is a topic where she may doubt your whole character and personality eventually. Girls psychology is different dude. She may embrace you but also look into your vulnerability and Overthink her decision of being with you. Whether she can spend life with a porn addict, what will happen to the kids etc.
Else if u are strong enough to handle it.! Tatakae
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thanks bro
i also think that true strenght comes from realizing that you are sensitive and being honest w yourself
this is begining of rising
bless you man
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im strong enough
im addicted and im not afraid of it
i just know it
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Whats your age dude and how long have you been in relationship + do u live with her?
28
we are more than 2 years together
yes we are living together
why?
I asked cuz many of the relationships end because of lack of direct support due to people living apart.
U live together, that’s nice. Direct support will help alot.
All the best
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it depends who you are
some people like it
ive always preferd “the kind way”
cause trying hard makes me too perfectionistic and than im feeling exhausted, anxiety etc
ive learned to threat myself good (but for sure i like to learn, practice etc)
people can need help on addiction buddy. does not make it wrong.
harsh reality, and probably a blessing in disguise.
you did the right thing, sooner or later it had to happen anyway. Observe and move ahead now. You can pull this off.
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thanks for support
bless you
In case you need help, I can try to talk in private. Let me know.
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Hey @mamacitabla here sharing some music with you. As I believe you are going through a tough time as you didn’t expected the outcome of the confession but really you did the right thing man. May this ease your mind. 
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well thank you @LL667788 i appreciate it really…
im trying to recover by meditation, music, yoga abd diary
plus tommorow im starting my sport practice we will see how it will goes
bless
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