Should I Erase her Memories?

I have a IG video of my crush that I saved in my phone before I left social media, I also have a photo of her. I watch those whenever her memories bother me😔
I haven’t seen her since 1 year, and this photo is the only thing I have to remember how she looks. I really love her and never thought of any sexual fantasies while seeing her picture.
Should I delete these? Does it consider as peeking?

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Bro, I am also in same situation as you are. I used to really love a girl a year ago, then we fought and I finally blocked her on WhatsApp, Instagram. Now, I can see her photo in my WhatsApp block list. I’m in huge confusion whether to unblock her so that I could not see her photo, but if I do that, I also remember her phone number very clearly 🤦‍♂ so I might type her number and save it and see her photo again.

I’m also in same problem. What I do is, I simply wish all the best to her in my mind whenever I get a thought of her, though we fought in past, I still have respect for her because she thought me so many valuable lessons which made me a better person. I’m also in confusion what to reply you, to delete it or not.

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Erase her memories. Now there is no chance that she will come back to you. Sacrifice her picture now and she will come after you do something great.

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I feel that bro, though this girl was not my friend but still I love her and whatever I’m doing is only so that I can get chance to meet her. :slightly_smiling_face:

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There’s no reason to do that, and I won’t be able to make up my mind until I have a strong reason for it.

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Don’t make any other person your goal brother. It will make you suffer even more because you would given the key of your happiness to someone else. I understand your feelings completely brother as we both are in similar situation.

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That’s also true, behind every successful man there is a woman.

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That’s an old quote. The updates version is “behind every successful man APPEARS a woman” :joy:
Don’t get offended. Just saying what happens in most cases.

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That’s funny :joy: I didn’t knew you did jokes too :joy:
But jokes apart, here give this a read

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Bro this is so me. I’ve been obsessed over some girl for so long. And honestly, I had thought that if no women existed in the world, I do not think I would be so motivated for success as I am right now.
I will get into more detail later.

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With all due respect to you brother, I highly disagree with these people who wrote this book. A woman can be a boss only for a weak man, who can be easily manipulated by sexual desires. A man who is not a simp, who’s not a slave to his sexual desires is a dangerous man. Such a man can never be inferior to any women.

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It’s not about inferiority, and what you said is right that some men tend to be manipulated by women’s sexual desires and are weak. And that’s most of what are left.

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Same , I think everyone is motivated towards a goal coz at the end everyone wants a happy family with a women

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It’s most men brother that’s why we nofappers are in such a small percentage of world population, rest of the men in world are slaves to their sexual desires, otherwise they would be trying to do nofap, isn’t it?

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The book doesn’t point out sexual activities but it’s about how whatever a man does is so that his woman can be happy. Sex addiction is a different thing

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Oh I see. I understand. But I’m not looking for a family life. I will stay single for life.

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I also had a crush on girl so badly. I was so obsessed to her. It’s almost a year since I have seen her in real. She was the reason of my highest streak of 18 days in my lifetime in last january of 2020.
I didn’t know why I made so much feeling for her. But I can say one thing for sure . She also had some or little feelings for me. She always looked at me in different way.

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You’ve written that on your status.
“Brahmacharya For Life” :+1:

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Yeah , after her. I also don’t want any1 else in my life. If possible , I will also stay virgin and single my whole life

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We guys are Sharing stories about the girls in our respective lives :joy: brothers don’t feel bad, let it go. We think that our crush is special, but actually she is not special as we think. Our crush is just like any other girl. Don’t obsess guys. Be thankful for her and move on. :innocent::+1:

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