Thanks, bro. It means a lot. Things have started to become normal between us, let’s see 
. Btw, are you Indian?
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Yes I’m
(20 character)
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Which state? (20 character)
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Bihar (remove this 20 character rule 
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And u ??
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When you have an ambition and when you are motivated enough to accomplish a goal, all other things fall in line
Be motivated to run after goals 
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Maharashtra se hu bhai
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U r 100% right brother. Everything gets on their place when we chase our dreams. It’s like universe is helping 
. I’m willing to bring big changes soon, life will be much better then.
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It would be better if one slowly start maintaining a distance and if things feel out of control then simply just walk away from the situation/person .
It will be much better for one’s peace of mind and self respect .
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In my opinion, just try to be friends with her and forget the love. This way, you can atleast be with her. The liking makes things worse.
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Thanks guys for all the demotivation. Nah I’m just kidding 
. Love you all 
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Your welcome bro. Just don’t do the same mistakes I did:sweat_smile:
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The most underrated and ignored statement is “you are gonna die one day”.
People display that they are getting humbled after listening this but they don’t.
Others try to feel motivated after listening it, like “I will live my only life to the fullest, will do something great for earth before leaving”. But then they just forget about it and remain stucked in comfort zone.
Some even think…that’s the only life man, have fun as much as u can, keep doing the stupid things.
Only few people are able to comprehend such deep lines…
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Sometimes I realise that I overshare with my friends. I mean I regret after yapping too much, like I should not have said that. And it disturbs me for some hours.
I want to be someone who talks less and only open his mouth in required situation, like the main character of masculine movies. But at the same time I get afraid of becoming an introvert eventually. Then I won’t be able to have chit chat and some funny talks with them. What should I do ? Is there any other way of thinking that I’m unable to figure out.
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It’s like you’re trying to strike a balance between being expressive and being in control of your words—something a lot of people struggle with. Regret after oversharing is common, especially when you value privacy or feel vulnerable afterward. Wanting to be more composed, like the strong silent types in movies, makes sense—those characters often seem powerful because they speak with purpose.
But being reserved doesn’t mean you have to shut down your personality or humor. It’s not about swinging between extremes (oversharing vs. becoming silent); it’s about learning to pause and filter before speaking. Ask yourself in the moment: “Is this something I’ll feel good about having shared later?” That tiny pause builds awareness without killing the vibe.
Also, being introverted isn’t a negative outcome—it just means your energy might be more internal. You can still be funny, engaging, and lighthearted, just more selectively. In fact, people often appreciate those who are a bit quieter but still drop in with thoughtful, witty or meaningful input. That kind of presence can be even more magnetic.
The mindset shift might be this: Instead of thinking “I overshare and regret it,” think, “I’m learning to communicate with more intention.” It’s a skill, not a flaw.
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Thanks for your response big brother. I liked the method of analysing before speaking. I just overshare because the person next to me is less talkative than me. I try to don’t make the call awkward and start yapping. But I guess I need to develop the habit to hang up in situations where nothing important is left to talk about.
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