Random thoughts in my head

I will definitely ask tips for skin care one day. Thanks :grinning:

Recommend me a book that can actually distract me from phone :books: ?

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Atomic Habits , The Art of Being Alone

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Two years ago, I had a lot of hopes and dreams. I was super confident to achieve them. Good career, great looks and awesome personality. But now when I realise that I have became even worse than before, my heart shatter into pieces :broken_heart:.
I used to be happy and satisfied in life.
My life got wrecked in just a year. All because of loneliness and comfort zone.

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2 years ago :x:
2 years from now :white_check_mark:
When you turn back at your life, you will be proud of your achievements and will appreciate yourself for fighting pmo addiction and making it surrender and also would have excelled in confidence boosting, personality enrichment, skin tone, clarity in mind etc

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I really needed to hear this today. Thanks big bro :slightly_smiling_face::heart:. I will try my best to create a proud past for my future self.

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I resonate with the loneliness
I have people around me but it wonā€™t stop the feeling
Anxiety also sends me spiralling
I donā€™t know how to deal with the anxiety

Iā€™m not incapacitated but Iā€™m going to end up in a path of self destruction

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Nature is your solution. Make loneliness your strength. Have a vacation from life.

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What to do if u like someone but she has a boyfriend :thinking:
(How can I get her, btw asking for a friend :slightly_smiling_face:)
@robinbe_friend @Prayer_Warrior @Covertxomic1 @Awaken_one @nina @ejuile
@SwatiV @The_EnlightenedOne
@any_love_guru

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Itā€™s never good to cheat on somebody but if you like her better to tell her directly regardless of the circumstances.

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depends on various factors.
however its never really nice approaching a girl who already has a bf.
If she leaves her bf just because you are better than her bf, she will leave you once she finds someone better than you.

Not saying she should not choose the best for herself, but personally for you, it will be a waste of time and effort.

If you wonā€™t get hurt and just want to have her still, then go for it. Fear nothing, since rejection is never bad, irrelevance is.
If you stay irrelevant to her by ignoring and avoiding interaction, you will only feel bad about yourself.

Just go talk to her and all, if she ignores, consider it as a sign you need to work on yourself. approach other girls instead and work on your own self.
Donā€™t stop interacting with other girls, even when working. When the right time hits, if she is available and single, ask her out.

She deserves better, be better for her.

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Since you pinged me ;
I wouldnā€™t even care who is with me and who talks with whom etc
I mind my business and life
I Donā€™t care a damn about others

So I canā€™t offer you advice on this aspect

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Iā€™m a girl but if I liked a guy and he has a gf I will not take a step to be closer to him except if I know and I liked him before his gf , if I like him and I know him and he was already with her girlfriend I will not take a step to him. If his girlfriend is my friend I will never even think about how to separate them even if I like him

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I think respecting her relationship is really important. You could pray about itšŸ¤·šŸ¾ā€ā™€ļø, if you guys are meant to be, at some point itā€™ll definitely happen but taking actual steps to get her for yourself might be unfair

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Move on and focus on your life bro. All these kinds of love dramas are a waste of time.
Make money so that you can buy anything.

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Hey guys I really appreciate ur thoughts about that. Thanks for suggestions. Yeah I will not interfere in someoneā€™s relationship.

Now I will forget her :smiling_face_with_tear:

My bro always drops the hardest sh_t :100:

Tbh, I really liked ur mindset, I am somewhere like u. But I feel lonely sometime, when there is no any trusted person in my life.

Yeah I wanted to know the thoughts of other side :face_with_monocle::sweat_smile:

Hmm I got thisā€¦ thanks guys :smiling_face:

I have experienced it once still my heart is a noobie :slightly_smiling_face:

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Hello everyone. You are right bro. Thatā€™s what I couldnā€™t understand under the influence of this addiction and depression, and lost a good friend. I regret doing that every single dayšŸ˜­

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Ohhā€¦u proposed ur friends gf ? :flushed:

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No, bro, I proposed to my female friend, who was committed. So, because I broke her trust and had a crush on her, she stopped talking to me. But this addiction, the regret and depression of the situation made me message her more, and it all went worse. Her angry but justified messages still scare me. I will destroy this addiction for the pain it has caused me, her and all of us. :angry: :sob:

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It happens bro, donā€™t hold on to this incident. Just let it go. Mistakes are a part of life. Itā€™s really great that u have realised ur fault, because many people donā€™t. U have learnt a lesson as well. So forgive urself and try to develop the personality u admire :smile:

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