13/11/21 23:09
Woke up at 7 am, took some times to get off bed, had breakfast fast around 9:00, at 10 had some work to do until 13:00, then had lunch, 15:00-17:30 had prepare things for work, at 18-22 had practice with a chorus, accompany them on piano.
Had no urges today, headache, knee and back pain, now my day is over I feel alone.
Got alot of work I need to do, on computer tone of work, plus the concerts coming soon for Christmas, I’m full, and starting another job at 28/11
I’m full I’m very stressed because of the concerts, it’s too much, but it’s only for November and December, hopefully I can take a break later.
If I think about it, I freak out. I’m out of my comfort zone.
Then my 2 main goals for the next few months, are pushed to the back of the list, I’m wasting my time.
I feel like I’m ignoring my problems, things need fixing.
Negative emotions/thoughts
Warning
I don’t care about having sex with someone, but I want to have someone as close to accept each other and support each other, I’m terrible friend, wierd one,
I feel everyone around me is walking on thin ice, no one is honest, they sugar everything to make it look ok, while things are not, and they are not brave enough to ask questions or be honest to me, afraid this will break me or something, just fckn break me, and get done with it,
Or my father, he takes every constructive criticism as a personal attack, I’m tired of this fckn drama 24/7 for years, he’s great everything I think as disadvantage is actually giving him alot of advantages, but I’m angry at him and everyone.
When I take a decision my family doesn’t like, they keep pushing and nagging, until I have to kneel down so they get of my back or start a huge fight, they use every trick on the book to get you to do something, they they say, you did this decision alone. What a great respect I’m getting from all my friends and family. I’m missed up wierdo, freak, shit, etc… Why no one is being brutally honest, I’m the one that have to keep trying to open up and get closer to people, hopping someone do the same. I feel weak, like I don’t deserve anything I have, or any apportunity I’m getting, if I tell my family I have disadvantage at this erea, I’m bad at something or at least not enough, they fight me for it, I’m always wrong what ever I feel, instead of helping or guiding me so I feel I got better at something, they have one sided discussion with me to yell ‘you’re good, you’re wrong you’re …’ , stop fckn sugaring me, if I feel weak at something help me get better, ask me what I’m missing, what can we do about, not just disagree with me and keep nagging until I don’t bring up the subject anymore. I feel I’m at disadvantage, trust my judgment, try to understand my point of view. I’m not God, I quit trying to be as whole, I’m not supposed to be peiand all strong. They all assume I’m better than what I’m really am. I understand their perspective, try to be kind and supportive, idk, I need help to be better, not be left alone and all I’m getting is someone tell me you can do it then vanish and leave me all alone.
All I want from this life is not to be alone, everyome busy rushing chasing phantom, fck this life, what a life
Something I wrote above maybe wrong, stupid or childish, but nothing wrong about stupid feeling popping up, life is hard and full of chalanges, until you do the impossible to make it better.