Indeed she is just 28
Alright then. Let me see her. But DM.
Not sending yo, I ain’t letting you sin
When I said this , visualise as if u having a convo. I mean dont fantasize on that visalisation. Focus on the convo.
She called me she thinks of me as a little brother and a loser
Ok how would u react if someone call u that irl. Continue this convo. This might lead to some deeper thoughts that might lead to an argument. But thats good thing in a different way.
- You got rid of lust temporarily
- The girl who told u that is how u perceive yourself. That can help too for future .
Lol okay. But like I said, looks don’t play much of a factor
They do, but very little.
Emotional bonding >>>>>>>
Now obviously that doesn’t mean I’m going to like a middle aged or old woman(so you get what I mean). They’re not meant to be sexually attractive.
@OnlySRJ . This is my advice to you. I am 101 days of no fap rn and this mindset helped.
I will continue the convo and let it all out
You know my video will still help. It’s for everyone on here.
@The_Rising_One you remember you asked me why I did what I did (in terms of exercise)
You’ll get it too if you watch the video. I’m trying to become like him.
I watched it, it’s quite interesting
P O R N , video games , junk food and addictions has never been the main problem. They are symptoms of the main problems. The main problem is something thats underlying deep within you. Maybe how u perceive the world , or some self destructive thought process etc.
See u wont get into these things when u are truly happy.
When u visalise a convo like this , u are kinda challenging yourself. Like when u say " I dont feel right " , Then u will ask questions like why u dont feel right which infact lead to deeper convo with yourself.
How is visaualising a women can help. Talking to yourself , in a way visalising another person who look exactly like u feels cringe. You can also visualise people u love in genral if u want.
When I say this , I have not mastered this thing. Shits happen frequently but I am learning.
I’ll watch it right now
And what if you know you can’t change the thing.
Like it’s not about P O R N but you know the thing that is affecting you, you can never change it.
I also encountered these situations during my visualisation process. In these situation , I say sorry to the corn girl ( Its corn girl that is asking me questions ) and tell her I’ll move on and make better decisions.
And sometimes I ask her what can be the better solutions I can some up rn. And guess what corn girl is my well wisher now .
Never try to fight the mind. Fighting the mind is like fighting a girl. So I think visualising a girl when these thoughts come feels apt.
So tell me how did it go?
Thanks @The_Rising_One , I really owe you
First of all , I appreciate his bravery and will. Hats off for that.
But I would like to bring up few points. First of all , he is doing all this in a war. People are trained to deal with severe pain and suffering.
And yet many people died. Also war is something that happens rarely ( by God’s grace ) , like u either endure harsh situations and win or u die.
But when it comes to your situation , Doing Suryanamaskar is not that kind of a thing. It should be a daily practice. Not any one time war. I hope u get it.
You can do 100 - 200 if u wish. But I would say to be consistent with 50s and then increase it.
Soldiers are trained that way. Imagine a random villager trying to do that. Irrespective of willpower , we need to train ourselves first.
No mention
Out of likes ( Tahers regular ban curse )
Me too
Bro beefing with the Final Boss again