Please help me 😭

Indeed she is just 28

Alright then. Let me see her. But DM.

Not sending yo, I ain’t letting you sin :pensive:

When I said this , visualise as if u having a convo. I mean dont fantasize on that visalisation. Focus on the convo.

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She called me she thinks of me as a little brother and a loser

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Ok how would u react if someone call u that irl. Continue this convo. This might lead to some deeper thoughts that might lead to an argument. But thats good thing in a different way.

  1. You got rid of lust temporarily
  2. The girl who told u that is how u perceive yourself. That can help too for future .
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Lol okay. But like I said, looks don’t play much of a factor :person_shrugging:
They do, but very little.

Emotional bonding >>>>>>>

Now obviously that doesn’t mean I’m going to like a middle aged or old woman(so you get what I mean). They’re not meant to be sexually attractive.

:skull:

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@OnlySRJ . This is my advice to you. I am 101 days of no fap rn and this mindset helped.

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I will continue the convo and let it all out

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You know my video will still help. It’s for everyone on here.

@The_Rising_One you remember you asked me why I did what I did (in terms of exercise)

You’ll get it too if you watch the video. I’m trying to become like him.

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I watched it, it’s quite interesting

P O R N , video games , junk food and addictions has never been the main problem. They are symptoms of the main problems. The main problem is something thats underlying deep within you. Maybe how u perceive the world , or some self destructive thought process etc.

See u wont get into these things when u are truly happy.

When u visalise a convo like this , u are kinda challenging yourself. Like when u say " I dont feel right " , Then u will ask questions like why u dont feel right which infact lead to deeper convo with yourself.

How is visaualising a women can help. Talking to yourself , in a way visalising another person who look exactly like u feels cringe. You can also visualise people u love in genral if u want.

When I say this , I have not mastered this thing. Shits happen frequently but I am learning.

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I’ll watch it right now

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And what if you know you can’t change the thing.

Like it’s not about P O R N but you know the thing that is affecting you, you can never change it.

I also encountered these situations during my visualisation process. In these situation , I say sorry to the corn girl ( Its corn girl that is asking me questions ) and tell her I’ll move on and make better decisions.

And sometimes I ask her what can be the better solutions I can some up rn. And guess what corn girl is my well wisher now .

Never try to fight the mind. Fighting the mind is like fighting a girl. So I think visualising a girl when these thoughts come feels apt.

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So tell me how did it go?

Thanks @The_Rising_One , I really owe you

First of all , I appreciate his bravery and will. Hats off for that.

But I would like to bring up few points. First of all , he is doing all this in a war. People are trained to deal with severe pain and suffering.

And yet many people died. Also war is something that happens rarely ( by God’s grace ) , like u either endure harsh situations and win or u die.

But when it comes to your situation , Doing Suryanamaskar is not that kind of a thing. It should be a daily practice. Not any one time war. I hope u get it.

You can do 100 - 200 if u wish. But I would say to be consistent with 50s and then increase it.

Soldiers are trained that way. Imagine a random villager trying to do that. Irrespective of willpower , we need to train ourselves first.

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No mention :v:

Out of likes ( Tahers regular ban curse )

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Me too :joy:

Bro beefing with the Final Boss again :skull: