Do you accept the challenge?
Yes iam in
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Cool sis , we are going to start from 6:30 pm and we have to study atleast 3.5 hours(no prior study hours will be included. ) , don’t back off or @Imaginator will flag your old posts 
. Likerupt so take this 
. All the best . Use the ypt timer @PlanRed or any other timer for proof.
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Hyy sry sholt i am not in.
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I dont have stable mind now… At one voice it is ok to watch it once and another in my deep heart dont do it . I cant focus on studies now. Iam playing games to divert my mind. I really dont want to. 
but things seem more critic. Its really tough. I never felt like this. I can get ur concern thnk u so much. Sholt 
but try to get me literally sicking.
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Hmm, no worries , I have to finish some assignments so see ya 
. Utilise your time .
I never felt this bad anytime. I think it would be great tom we can have a challenge for 8+ hrs. Iam crying
I too wanted to study badly but i cant focus…
For now. I think its better to do nofap for now. As i relapsed yesterday this same time that is what making it more critic.
Calm down, take some deep breaths, it’s not something that you can’t fix , you are a strong girl , we all have seen your determination before . Even if you are not in challenge try to be productive, unproductivity gives guilt which can cause relapse. Ik it’s hard , but you are also determined! Remember you have to appear for an exam in November or December. Do your best for that exam Your brain might be foggy and you might get headache, take a nap. And start .
Thnks @Sholtro_Tenjerrot go and study. Lets have a challenge tom for 7 hrs. 
… Iam going to watch some motivational vids and self help books reading in video till i sleep. Ted talks would do better. Can i add that in timer for today challenge @Sholtro_Tenjerrot
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Great , now take a nap and start your productive work after waking up . All the best 
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This pfp suits you 
_ “I am having an urge”
_ “Why?”
_ “I don’t know it just came to me. It comes anytime”
_ “Does it come to you at the GYM?”
_ “… No actually… Well not while doing physical effort or talking to people no.”
_ "Ah well you see. When you’re in contact with the real world you are far away from getting an urge to fap. Urges don’t exist in reality. It’s a mental concept, an illusion you get when you’re far away with your thoughts. Haven’t you asked yourself, why it happens only when you’re alone and when you start to “think” "
_ “Oh well that’s very wise, thank you for making my problem worse. Now I know I can’t study alone anymore. Thanks a lot.”
_ “Who said that you can’t?”
_ "Wat?.. You did. It’s the only time when I’m alone and I start “thinking” "
_ “When you were 10 years old. You could do that easily.”
_ “Dah I didn’t knew about this addiction before. That’s the big difference!”
_ “How come others succeed then?”
_ “I don’t know, I guess they might be lucky with a tough work schedule or strong willpower”
_ “That’s an excuse. It’s not about luck or willpower. It’s about understanding the nature of your mind. The urge doesn’t control you, it’s you who gives it power.”
_ “So what should I do then? If it’s not willpower, how do I stop it?”
_ “By being present. The more you’re present in the moment, whether alone or with others, the less space there is for the urge. It thrives on distraction and disconnection from reality.”
_ “How can I be ‘present’? It sounds too abstract.”
_ “It’s simple, but it takes practice. When you’re alone and studying, focus fully on what you’re doing. If your mind starts to wander, notice it without judgment and bring your attention back to the task. It’s like training a muscle.”
_ “So you’re saying I need to be aware of my thoughts all the time?”
_ “Exactly. Awareness breaks the cycle. The moment you catch yourself drifting into those thoughts, you bring yourself back. The urge can’t grow if you don’t feed it.”
_ “But what if it’s really strong? Like I can’t stop thinking about it?”
_ “Then, shift your focus. Do something physical, even for just a minute, even while still thinking about what you were thinking. Stand up, walk around, do some stretches. Break the pattern. Over time, the urges lose their strength because you stop reinforcing them with attention.”
_ “Okay, but isn’t that still using willpower?”
_ “Not quite. Willpower feels like a struggle, like fighting against yourself. What I’m talking about is more like redirecting your attention effortlessly, without resistance. It’s not about battling urges, but about staying connected to reality, where urges don’t have power.”
_ “I think I get it now. It’s more about presence and focus, not fighting with myself.”
_ “Exactly. Once you start practicing this, you’ll notice that the urges come less frequently and with less intensity. The more you train your mind to stay present, the freer you become.”
_ “Thanks bro. I haven’t thought about it this way befo… Why are you looking at me like that?”
_ “Because I did something dangerous…
333 reply!”
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Freaking legend
In that quote, the speaker seems to be suggesting a deeper understanding of urges, particularly the urge to fap, and how they can be managed. They’re explaining that urges are not something that exist in the real world but are mental concepts, illusions that arise when the mind is distracted or disconnected from reality. The conversation focuses on the idea that being present and fully aware of the moment reduces the space for urges to grow. Instead of fighting the urge with willpower, they recommend refocusing attention on the present task or doing something physical to break the thought pattern.
The last part where they say, “Because I did something dangerous… 333 reply!” seems to imply that they might have triggered something or said something that could be perceived as dangerous or controversial. It could be a self-aware comment, acknowledging that challenging someone’s long-held beliefs about their addiction or suggesting a new perspective might feel risky or uncomfortable for the listener. The “333 reply” part could be a playful or inside reference, but it’s unclear without more context.
is this something related in math About Nikola Tesla’s Number? xD not sure thou
It seems like the person in the quote is referencing “333 reply” in a playful or cryptic manner. They might be connecting it to the concept of Nikola Tesla’s fascination with numbers like 3, 6, and 9, which Tesla believed had unique significance in the universe. The user, “Walnes,” is humorously suggesting that the number 333 might have some mathematical or symbolic connection to Tesla’s ideas.
However, it’s more likely that the “333 reply” is just a milestone post or a running joke in the conversation, not necessarily related to Tesla’s theories. The person might just be making a light-hearted comment or referencing something specific to the forum thread.
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Thnks a lot bino…But its not easy to have mind control everytime. Aft sometime it will make u to burn out. I will try my best.
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Most ah mood upset ah irukkum bothu than urges varum
Neenge inikki oru naal rest eduthutu ethavuthu movie threatre ko illa park ko illa engyavathu jolly ya poitu vanga
It will lighten up your mood
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I decided to delete my acc. Kindly delete my account @debellator . I cant accept some words here…i feel like i was disrespected only bcoz iam girl. I know this is a big word to tell but not with everyone. I have many frnds here. Really my frnds i promise. I cant even in a mood to do this. I feel very bad for leaving all of them… I come back when i become stronger to accept words. Iam literally confusing with real and reel… With my real life and daydreaming. With real ppl i see infront with this forum… i tagged all below…I am doing this deletion for not creating a scene. Its for many reasons. I know i was very playful with others. I have nothing and noone around me in real life . So i always using this app for get my mind free. But this went to be very addictive. Iam already having a lot of problems in my life that i didn’t tell in this forum. I cant assure i would succeed or not. But i learnt many things. I can also become zero after i left. Who knows. But i can take care of myself and my future self only by me. I was very playful these days. I know i had many frnds, ruined many diary, teased many, not encouraged even one. I didn’t sleep yesterday. Woke up after 2 hrs. And cried the whole night. I cant handle this. I think i even crossed my limits sometimes. As this forum is not having many girls, male dominated i should be in the limit for teasing others. U guys r doing great. U ppl are worrying abt your present and better future. Not everyone doing this . U will get what you crave for at some day… I dont want to be addictive to anything. Even i quit my every addictions except no fap. I just want to tag some ppl here. When we join at first we will very excited to do things. And i had a blabbering convo with ppl too. I wont forgot this. @Binocular @Sholtro_Tenjerrot @prince_king @bigdreamer99 @The_Ambitious_One The_Rising_One @nofapstar123 Nerbo ,kunal ,The_EnlightenedOne @Imaginator @rajameghanan @Ryomen_Sukuna … Iam sry if i missed anyone… I cant tag 10+ ppl here.
I will come back to tell u guys the good news when i achieve what i want . Until then if i hurted u sry. Had a great days with u for abt 6 months.
I think i dont have self control but when i deleted whatsapp, insta i started to reinstalling for some days. Then i didn’t use it for till now and Only for personal. But i cant do this things to this forum. I should have self control. But i dont have. I will build this soon. My mom afraid by seeing me crying the whole night for past events in my life. I should work for her any my family.
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