@Brahmachari_17 you are doing a great job on this thread buddy. Thanks. Keep doing this.
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Hereâs a success story of a guy who is currently at 129th day. The interesting thing about his success story is that, he keeps updating it. He adds the benefits and experiences as soon as he got one. Read it. Itâs not too long.
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This thread is really great man⌠The content you post here is incredible⌠each post is sufficient to keep motivation for 2âŚ3âŚdays for me.
Thanks brother @Brahmachari_17
Great jobâŚ
What I feel⌠Daily Reading , learning and motivating yourself is so important to continue in nofap journey.
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Yes bro I know the struggle, thatâs why I created this thread. The one of the reason that I reached to 39 days in my first attempt of Nofap was constant motivation.
Thanks everyone for appreciating my efforts.
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Monks and a Girl
This is the story of two monks. There was a monastery deep in the Tibet which was surrounded by beautiful snow-capped peaks and crystal clear flowing water. The head monk was a self-realized soul who was very kind and gentle and he had many disciples.
Some of the disciples were senior and had been with the Monk for a long time and some were junior and were just beginning their training. All of the disciples followed strict discipline in the monastery including celibacy.
The head monk used to send his disciples to different villages to spread his teaching. Once he sent a senior disciple and a junior disciple together to a nearby village to give discourses.
On their way back to the monastery they came to a river that they had to cross. The river was flowing with waist deep water from the mountain.
They were about to enter the water to cross when they heard a sweet voice. When they looked they saw a very beautiful young woman. She requested that they help her cross the river because she couldnât swim and was scared of water. The junior disciple remembered his head monkâs strict order to be celibate all the time. But the senior disciple, without wasting a moment said âSure why notâ and helped her climb onto his shoulders. He then he carried her across the river, put her down on the other side and carried on towards the monastery.
The young disciple was very surprised and couldnât believe that the senior disciple was actually carrying a girl on his shoulders. The young disciple was very quiet the rest of the journey back to the ashram and he could not get rid of this senior carrying the girl on his shoulders. When they arrived back at the monastery and reported to their head monk about the village. The senior disciple gave a report of their discourse, took the blessings of his head monk and went away. The young disciple, however, stayed behind because he wanted to tell his master what had happened at the river. He told that the senior disciple had broken the discipline of celibacy.
To this, the head monk smiled and said âOh my dear child, the senior disciple left the girl on the bank of the rive.lt is you that are still carrying her in your mind.â
Celibacy is the attitude and the discipline of your mind. It is the purity of your thoughts and emotions and the control you have over these mental expressions. The mind is a very powerful part of our body, those who know how to use it properly can rule the world.
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The best advice Iâve heard on urge control
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Yesterdayâs struggle.
yesterday at night I was getting this urge, I couldnât sleep and it was a very severe urge, hard to resist. I constantly slow,hold my breath, I kept remembering my why, and I just lying on my bed, wanting some sleep, the urge kept coming and going on and on and on. I was constantly thinking about my goal, my companions, bout you guys and I finally got tired of breath holding and slept. The struggle lasted for 1.5hrs. All I wanna say is if I can do it then you can too.
Now the beast in me has gotten stronger
#BeastMode
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Yes, that is a great motivator. I was also thinking of Rewire Companions during last massive urge. I did not want to disappoint my companions here like many times in past. I want them to see me succeed.
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Thanksomuch for sharing this, people like you are really helpful for starters like us. Hoping more motivation and messages,advcies for you to keep me stick with my goal.
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@Caan i have just avoided Instagram hot girl photos 9 days ago I was fully indulged in that
Now listen my challenge is you for 2 days
Rules are very simple
First look accidently on sexy photo is fine
If you seen the sexy photo fro more than 3 seconds intentially it will considered a failure
Now you have to complete my challenge starting from 16 may to 18may âŚbe a man of words and give me a response after that
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My real enemy is just browser bro when i start using i have this kind of urge to visit the porn website that i always visits, honestly saying i am addicted to it and still i am. See here i am 4 hours back took the decision to quit completely from it.
And this forum is really great. I can meet people in the prblm and I can share what I feel n all about my journey.
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@Caan what you think I was not indulge into the same problem of going to sites but after having such support from all of us tell me isnât next time you will feel shame talking to me ⌠only 2 days challenge you canât do it ?
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After may failures of quiting pmo, now i am certain with all of your and this community help and support i can achieve this indeed.
And i just wish if there is one guy a starter who need a company to share his journey and wnna together fight it.
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Great job brother . Thats how you become stronger . People who give up when they get urges become more weak. Feel the pain. Real men, donât have fear to face their pain. Life is filled with pain and happiness. You cannot avoid that. Only through your struggles you become greater.
#BEASTMODE 
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Hi, im new here and i really appreciate this list. I have just completed watching podcast of sarva yogi guy and its very motivational. This is a genuine forum and Iâll try to be honest here .
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It is a educational and informative video⌠this will help you to understand yourself.
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âThe question is what is your priority in life? If your priority is to make this life rise to a higher possibility, then you must be consciousâ.
Though provoking video bro.
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Engineering Hostel
Rehaan was very shy kind of boy. He was a student of engineering in college. It was his first year of engineering degree course. He was a bright and intelligent student.
He stayed at college hostel. Mostly two students stayed in one room in the hostel but Rehaan stayed alone because there was no other student available to stay with him.
Everything was going fine. Rehaanâs routine was very simple. He woke up at 6 AM, daily went to class, after coming back from class he studied for three hours and then go to sleep.
After three months one student left from hostel due to health reason, so his partner left alone in that room. His name was Onir. So management of college decided to shift Onir with Rehaan.
Onir was not a good student. He often bunk class. He was lazy.
Next two months was good. Now quarterly exams came. Onir and Rehaan both gave exams.
After 10 days result was announced for quarterly exams. Rehaan passed with good marks but Onir did not get good marks.
After the exam result, Onirâs behavior changed too much. He was jealous of Rehaan.
Now Onir always tried to disturb Rehaan whenever he tried to focus on the study. He tried to show him movies and video games in his mobile and laptop so he can break his concentration towards study but Rehaan always got back to his study after see his games.
One day the internet was not working on Rehaanâs laptop and he needed some study material for the college assignment. So he asked Onir to download it and gave to him via flash drive.
When Rehaan got the flash drive, in that flash drive there were many files which were related to his study but there was also a video file which was put by Onier intentionally.
Rehaan played that video file because of curiosity. He was very surprised by watching that video. It was a â â â â video and Rehaan never saw a â â â â in his life so it was kind of surprising for him.
After that incident, two days passed but that video was still playing in Rehaanâs mind. As a curious boy, he wanted to explore more about â â â â . So next day he asked Onir for more videos like that.
In college, all â â â â sites were blocked but Onir has few friends outside of college who usually transferred these kinds of videos to him.
Next day Onir gave more videos through flash drive to Rehaan. Rehaan was kind of hooked to those videos. He started to watch those videos in the night. Sometimes he watched those videos whole night and because of that, he started to bunk classes. After few days Rehaan started to try masturbation which he learned from those videos. He started doing masturbation a few times every day in the bathroom by watching â â â â on his mobile. Few days passed like that and within few days Rehaan got addicted to masturbation and â â â â . Now he did not study daily as he used to.
After a few days, he started masturbation three to four times every day. He bought a new sim card with internet connection so he can watch more â â â â videos on the internet.
Rehaanâs addiction kept increasing day by day and because of this addiction his health was getting affected badly. He was losing his weight day by day. He cheeks and eyes sunk inside. He was not able to focus on anything.
He did not bath daily and did not change his undergarments daily because of laziness.
His addiction was so bad that if he started to watch â â â â in the night then not able to stop himself and kept continuously watching â â â â till morning.
Few months after quarterly exams came. Onir and Rehaan both gave exams.
After few days when the result came, Onir passed the exam with average marks as he usually does but Rehaan failed in every subject. It was like doomsday for Rehaan. After came back from college to the hostel, Rehaan locked himself in the bathroom. He cried that whole night. He realized that he went on the wrong path.
After two days Rehaan went to his hometown for one month long holidays. His father understood his whole situation and did not ask him anything. His father gave him some time alone and send him to his village to meet grandparents.
Rehaan went to his village from his hometown and left his mobile phone at home in hometown because he wanted to spend some time alone.
In the village, he woke up early every day, did his daily morning routine then went to a nearby lake and sat there for hours and kept watching green fields, birds.
There were two sparrow birds, who used to live on that tree. Rehaan brought wheat grains for them every day. Within a few days, those birds get friendly with Rehaan. Those birds have a little child in the nest. When Rehaan gave wheat grains to bird they eat few and brought few to his child. Whenever one bird left the tree in search of food another stay there to look after the child.
After watching them Rehaan realized that nature designed a system. He realized that all creatures have sex organs to keep their generation alive. But human is the only creature on earth who exploit this system and misuse their sex organs for two- minute temporary pleasure.
Nature gives a power to every creature to bring new life into the universe but great powers come with great responsibilities. He realized that child is a kind of responsibility but human use these powers without taking these responsibilities and suffering from adverse effects by misuse of this power. He realized that he went the wrong path during living in the hostel.
After completion of one month holidays, Rehaan went back to the hostel. Now he had to study for the semester again in which he failed and it was a loss of 6 months for Rehaan but he learned a lot of lessons from this failure.
Rehaan requested to change the room to hostel management because he doesnât want to live with Onir anymore. Management accepted his request and changed his room.
Now Rehaan changed his lifestyle completely. He started to eat healthy food and also started to do workout daily. He started to do meditation daily. He started to wake up early and sleep at the right time in the night. And within one month, his health was started to recover. He gained weight and his concentration level also increased.
After completing his graduation, Rehaan started a website which helps students in colleges and spread awareness about â â â â addiction.
Learning from story:
- Always make good friends.
- Always take action in the early stage when any
problem occurs before itâs too late. - â â â â addiction destroys your life.
- Help other people.
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Awesome story brother.
I saw a video on youtube named ESCAPING FROM PORN( Eli Nash) in TEDx .
He told that⌠from a survey an organisation gives data of 2018 that⌠NEARLY 5 million porn videos uploaded in 2018 that is on an average 1 video in every 60 secondâŚthis means that if one guy started watching from first video today then he would never come back to that particular video in 115 years and MOST IMPORTANT PART HERE IS⌠THIS IS FOR ONLY 1 WEBSITE.
Now you can understand clearly how much dangerous it is actually⌠you will never get exhausted. Porn should be banned in every country.
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