Be sure that no fap is a life style , isn’t limited by days , by relapse , by one peek for a pic or masturbation …
What will make you
like you said is :
You want to change this change have to be a faith that you will try to do your best … To move , to learn , to be gentle to yourself to be smart with yourslef , respect the nature and people your vesion about yourself will change if you move froward throw your goals …
Your question can be answered by you = your goals what is your new goals new challenges you will enjoy and I don’t mean in here even if you start with yourself ( what ever what will be comfort to you )
The decision to change you is what will move you until you commit to each new activity that you will try to acquire .
I suggest this post to you and it can be the only one here … by enjoying this forum you will know what
will your priorities be .
You will enjoy the benefits if you change habits .