Nofap as a 25 yo kissless virgin is so haard

Couldn’t agree more. It’s becomes some guys part of personality to lie about things. Which I have also been the victim of sometimes. It’s natural for us to exaggerate things about ourselves around women. We should be cautious of such behavior. But I guess that’s why nerds have problem getting laid in younger age because it’s hard for them to lie about things. But that’s exactly we need in life to get ahead. Pure honesty.

Paul Graham has a nice essay about it.
http://www.paulgraham.com/nerds.html

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We gonna get out of this shit together brodha!!

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Really nice said. I hope one day I will stop being a desperate loner and be happy with what I have

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Great discussion guys , GL all

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Bro never think you r ugly. You are creation of Great lord. If you think like that way,you are insulting his creation. A person may find you beautiful while other may find you in attractive,and it doesn’t matter because at the end of the day,u r son of God. Wait for the right person,my friend. Trust God,pray to him if you feeling so desperate to get a partner. He will surely listen to his son’s voice. I’m 24 years old,never had a genuine romantic relationship. I.loved one girl during school days,and then when she went to college,she ditched me off when she found her new bf. Does it hurt me ? Yes of course it does,and it was hell lots of pain. I worked hard, focused on studies,and got job offer from top notch research organisation as a Scientist. After hearing this news,she came back to me and asked me if we can patch up again. I didn’t pay much attention to her. I politely respected denied her request. She was happy,so am I. She wants to be friend, which I agreed. Even I too have difficulty in finding girlfriend but ever since I have joined this community,I have changed a lot. I was only good in academics till then,but to survive in this harsh world,you need life skills. You need to be hurted, rejected and fail to realise the taste of being successful.

The day when you will find your special one,you will love her with all your heart :sparkling_heart::sparkling_heart: ,not just as some sort of sex object.

Even I pray to God for helping me to the right girl,I have given up the nasty habit of masturbation. It’s literally nothing

May God bless you :pray::pray: my friend

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I love your comment on his post bro @Roads_to_purity
Awesome bro… :ok_hand:

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Yes You should continue on nofap, if you want to improve your life in every way and even with girls, NoFap is forever if you want progress, now if you abandon Nofap your problems will get worse, You should continue on Nofap (Congratulations on your Strength for to be able to stay that long, it shows you are strong, not weak) and you should read self-help books or books on how to get to know women’s minds so that you can be successful and try to grow in all areas of life, do physical activity, take care of your health, of your life in all aspects, read Self-Help books, I recommend this one , for self help:

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True love begin with loving yourself … Just stay the way you are … Everyday celebrate for yourself , your only 1 out billions of people on Earth … And if you are looking for gf to pleasure yourself , plz don’t do that .
Getting a gf is not only for s** , she should be the one that could help you in tough times and stand by you …

Everything will be alright . Idk how’s the western culture over there , but I would suggest you to talk with your parents and family as to fight depression alone is pretty huge task .

God helps everyone . Just stay strong

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Dont waste your time pursuing these girls, theae pretty girls will marry once you have a Good job.

No BS, get a career
-Tell parents you’re ready/want to get married
-They’ll set up a Good partner
-Become a Good Husband
It’s a win win.
Don’t get carried away with the Western narrative of American dream, it’s not real. Listen to your parents do nofap, get married

What will you do with GF bro, stressed life with no security of when she or he would just leave thereby hurting partner.

Very important note: Losing Virginity doesn’t define success, in reality it is on the contrary. Moreover, if you’re religious, you’re gonna feel like sh*t once your done in the wrong way.

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@krishvamsi30 Completely agree with you brother. Americans society seems to be in downfall mode. They have 50 % of divorce rate. Promiscuity level is super high. Children are raised by single parents. An average american youth dream is becoming a successful youtuber. While A Chinese youth dream is to become an Astronaut. People interested in Math, Science has been labeled as nerds and geeks. While personality like Cardi B is being revered. I don’t think Asians should try to copy the American culture anymore. It’s the recipe for disaster.

Dating is a new term. You really don’t need to date anyone. People think dating multiple people will bring suitable partner. But exactly opposite happens. Get Married directly that will bring more mental peace and the stable relationship.

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You are very right bro … I think Western songs have become a lot vulgar these days . Well music has a very powerful impact on a child’s growing and children who get exposed to these type of vulgar songs are definitely in a big trouble …

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Yeah man that’s true. Most of the big American startups are founded by Immigrants. Yeah I have seen many posts where Americans don’t want to live in America. Recently a big Angel Investor moved to Singapore. There are lot of issues in American culture right now. And it’s getting worse day by day. Homosexuality has increased so much there it doesn’t need to. I guess the actual percentage of Homosexual are very less. Most of them are just pretending.

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Well that’s true . And that YouTuber thing you said is so much true , as most of Americans are interested in becoming Youtubers, and no one is interested in discussing new scientific ideas or inventions.

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:point_up: This guy gets it. I’m happy for you man. However the youth or the kids just falling for the failed system when we had a running one kept aside. Bro it seems you’re India, we have now so much better here.

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It is just us ( mostly). Because we lack confidence and magnetism. Other guys; even unbelievable guys they have gfs :grinning_face_with_smiling_eyes:

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No bro… The thing is I remember when I used to do less of PMO, i had so many people close to me. I had this confidence and i could impress even the seniors :sweat_smile::sweat_smile::sweat_smile:… Ive to regain that… Theres hopes bois​:rofl::rofl:

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:joy::rofl::grin:
no words…Hope you regain that.

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I believe people who succeed at this are meant to have great partners… I truly believe that

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Don’t listen to negative comments . Try to keep on positive side always :blush:.
And focus on what you love doing that could help you

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Yes bro. Now I realize why religions are necessary to keep the society stable. Most people aren’t intelligent enough to be an atheist. When that happens society become degenerate. Moral values collapses.

Yes i guess it will be difficult for youth and kids to turn around now. Wìth all new mediums instagram, tinder and al most of the youth will keep going iñ the degeneracy. Only few will realize the overall game.

Yeah bro i am from India and live in Germany currently. I like your some of the posts you wrote here. Are you also from India ?

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