DAY 3.
LET’S GOOOOO
GOOD NIGHT WARRIORS ![]()
Kindly update the scoreboard everyone.
Evry failure is a step towards success
DAY 3.
LET’S GOOOOO
GOOD NIGHT WARRIORS ![]()
Kindly update the scoreboard everyone.
Evry failure is a step towards success
It’s been 3 days clean and today is 4th day.
Looking to join this group to have some accountability in my life regarding PMO. I am currently 3 days clean, my longest streak is 13 days I believe.
Welcome @ej.b to this Community. Please answer these questions to join this accountability group.
No peeking for all these days ![]()
I would like to thank Mr. Forerunner for running this challenge smoothly. It would never have been possible without you ![]()
His memes are funny and at the same time, teaches us a lesson.
Guys I think I’m doomed, I’m having tremendous urges triggered due to stress.
I don’t know how long I can hold on. I’ll do my best though.
Hold the line soldier, the enemy is ready to drag you to hell if you let him.
But you won’t give up. You’ll never give in. Unleash that beast inside you. If the enemy strikes you 10 times, hit him back with 100. Let him be sorry for ever crossing you.
Show no mercy. He’s a murderer, a low life, pure scum. A quick death would be too good for him. Take the fight to him and make him scream.
I consider peeking viewing any sexuakly provocative material via ■■■■ websites, social media, or fantasizing.
I currently have timers set on my social media apps where when I open them, they can only stay open for 10 minutes at a time. This will prevent me from going down the hole of peeking at anything and i am going to do the same but for a shorter period of time on my internet browsers so i can stop myself before i even get a chance at anything.
My catch phrase will be “Trash in, trash out” refering to the content being consumed.
Read my diary, “self acceptance”
I’ve been looking at your struggles for quite some time and relating to them very well
Maybe my steps can help you to be peaceful with your urges and struggles
I have set the alarm on bookmark for 3 days, but since my last streak was 5 days, i think I’d extend this experiment 2 days more
Truly speaking, i am at soo much ease by not avoiding it😌
I was not planning to post anything today but @Nep_12 's struggle motivated me to share this
Its feels like the urge has not even emerged for last 2 days, theres no friction
And even if it arises, I’m going to meditate on that
But i am not coming to any conclusions right away. I’ll post again about this after cross 5 days
I had an extremely close call. But I’ve practiced quite a lot to resist. It worked.
The sequence of me relapsing is as follows
install browser → search → watch → relapse → uninstall browser
I installed the browser and that’s where I stopped. I didn’t search anything, I didn’t know what to search because I had forgotten what kind of fantasy I’ve got. My streak is 33 days but for the double amount of that time I haven’t allowed my mind to think about sexual stuff. And the relapse before 33 days was in my sleepy, semi conscious state. I forgot what was there, what I liked.
I was stressed about something and my mind while got triggered, another part said that relapsing won’t be helping me out. It will only make things worse since I’ll have added guilt, nothing else.
Clean day ![]()
I have had enough.
I have been given enough.
I am enough.
Enough is enough.
My pleasure bro ![]()
@ej.b You’ve been added to the challenge my friend. Best of success, let’s crack 2 weeks. Trash in, trash out.
The practice has paid off
Well done ![]()
Always the same story, we know where that road ends. Let’s travel down a road we’ve never walked before and experience real adventure.
Can someone tell me if “IRL” peek exists?
Sometimes when I see a hot girl, I sometimes look at her for more than 3 seconds.
I wonder how many days this is going to stay like this. Maybe just 2 days more. Maybe this whole week. Hopefully I get the control back.
Yes, this is called staring, ogling or leering at women. If we do this, it generates many of the same bodily responses as peeking at models on Instagram, and leads to more urges and a weakened desire to stay PMO free.
It’s best to cut out this behaviour. Look at women as human beings rather than an assortment of body parts. It is difficult at first but with practice it will become second nature, and you’ll find the NoPMO journey much easier as a result.
It’s not like I don’t have this knowledge. But with certain women with certain proportions, it looks like for few seconds my thoughts goes for a toss.
Then I think, it’s just a clump of cells structurally arranged in a pattern and nothing else. And I know they have much more to offer than just their body.
One positive thing tho, I don’t get nervous around them and second is (I hate to admit) previously when I was new to no fap, I used to get erections when I was too close to these type of women and I had to hide that shit somehow. But now it doesn’t happen
Idk if other brothers here had this issue or still have.
Had this issue when I was in college and not really fapping that bad. The smell was really triggering when they came close, especially true for some pretty teacher. In our chemistry department there was one teacher like that.
Since I was in mechanical engineering where we don’t have many girls ![]()
Looking forward to having others in this with me ![]()