Why is transition state so painful?
I probably have got the answer
It is painful because it wants you to go away from it. It doesn’t want you to stay there. That’s why it’s transition state lol. Now it’s upto you where do you want to go away from here. Either it can be towards your goal or it can be towards your comfort. Both are rewarding but wait - comfort that comes easy?? Do I really want it?? Probably yes. I’d enjoy it for sure, for a while. But can I enjoy this forever?? Nope I can’t. There are again 2 things which can happen. First one is - My mind will not be satisfied with this comfort, it will ask for more. See the pattern here?? This is exactly what happens when people fap. Second thing - my conscience will mock me because I didn’t face my fears. Because I couldn’t be strong enough. I became a puppy due to that comfort. That regret will suck more than anything sucks now.
Coming to the other thing I can move towards. My goal. Nothing can be more wonderful than that. I’m yet to taste it. So I can’t speak much. One thing is for sure. If I get it no easy comfort will be ever able to match it. Even if it is the greatest kind of sensual pleasure in the world. Even if I get a mate that’s into me so bad. Even if I get a thousand of such mates. Nothing will come close to the happiness when I will destroy my fears and achieve my goal