Need Advise (Serious)

[prince_king]

@Usman10891

ignoring her

Damn. Do you plan on confessing btw?

[Usman10891]

Depends​:joy:I have made up my mind.I am gonna ignore her fully like she did to me .If she really cares she would apologize and realize her mistake.Otherwise I am leaving her(Atleast stop talking to her for now).The only hurdle is If she weeps,I would shatter​:sob:.If she starts crying i will melt immediately

[prince_king]

@Usman10891

If she starts crying i will melt immediately

That’s the issue with us boys.

Women use tears to manipulate men.

[Usman10891]

Literally she has done it before too😭 I was clearly winning an argument and she just broke into tears and in the end i was the won who apologized.But i ll make sure this doesnt happen this time…If she doesnt care,i also dont care .Even if my heart breaks, i am not gonna bow down or let her take over.

[prince_king]

@Usman10891

Even if my heart breaks, i am not gonna bow down or let her take over.

That’s the spirit my boy. Don’t hurt her, but also don’t let her hurt you

[gaurav91]

Bhai you are an adult now so stop behaving like a kid, I I’m sure your EQ must be less than 4.
To conclude after reading whole thread I can say that you are a confused insecure simp with a deficit mindset , who do not have much options with girls. I’m sorry for using harsh words but ‘truth must be told’ even if it hurts you, realisation is important here. Sorry, not sorry.
Pardon my language but I’m gonna use raw language to make you understand, londo ko pyar mohabbat se baat samajh ni aati toh dhang se samjhana padega.
Bhai trko khud ni pata ki trko uske sath rehna hai ya ni. Aur koi pyar wyar wali baat ni bus insecurity hai trko ki wo chali jaegi toh mai kisse baatein share karunga.
Mai khud bhi relationship mei ni rahunga aur bandi ko bhi kisi aur ke sath relationship jaane ni dunga.toxic trait.Kabir Singh hai tu? Par Kabir Singh ko toh sath rehna tha but tera alag he chlra.
Bhai bandi ke sath scene aage badhana padta hai when you are more than friends. Bandi bore ho jati jaldi , unfortunately unhe entertain karne ka responsibility hum londo ko he leni padti. Apna example deta hu mere 3 saal ke rship ke break up ke baad jab agli bandi se scene chal raha tha toh sirf 1 mahina baat ki phone pe next step seedha bol diya usse Milne ko valentine’s day pe. Aur mile bhi… Poocha nahi , seedha bola Milne ko… tabhi excitement rehti hai. Anyway ab next step mei expect karegi he bandi terse waha pe to resistance dikhaega toh ghanta piche padegi wo…agla dekhegi aage badhegi.

@Usman10891

If she chooses someone over me (unlikely but still 50% chance basis)

Bro are you serious? Usman hai tera naam Sharukh nahi hai. 50% ? Abbe bhai 99.99% chance hai ki wo kisi aur ko dekhegi aage. Naye college mei hai. Ladkiyo ko jada hawa lagti hai college mei ladko ke comparison mei…medical College ke 2nd 3rd 4th year saare seniors lagg jaate hain freshers bandio ke piche… tujhe nahi pata hai kya? Konsi duniya mei jee ra hai bhai? Bandi ke liye 50 ladke khade hote hain usse kandha Dene ko aur isliye usse jada farak bhi ni padta, gaand bande ki lagti hai.

@Usman10891

i dont give a shit to girls matters

Bhai gaand fatti hui hai par nawaabi ni jaari bilkul bhi

@Usman10891

She isnt trying to separate me from my parents ,She doesnt even know that I am trying to move

Bilkul isne kuch nahi kaha but kal ki ladki ke liye maa baap ke sathrehne ko bhi chhodne ke liye tyar hai.good.
Bhai wo ladki sirf aadat hai isliye fatt rahi teri.

@Usman10891

sudden change in behaviour is what made me worried and curious like why in the world would she do tha

Sudden nahi bhai 2 saal ho gaye hain …ab itna hold pe rakhega bandi ko jisse relationship mei rehna hai toh 2 saal bhi jada tik gayi wo.

@Usman10891

think long distance relations dont work thats why.

Koi 100% true nahi hai ye baat maine pehle bhi bola. Ek baar try karle regret mei kyu jeena… but yaha jealousy factor hai teri side se.

@Usman10891

…I decided in my head that instead of going in a relationship and being cheated (which she wouldnt tell me if we are in a relationship)I should sit back and watch if she likes some other guy or not [I am being irrational and unfair here,I know]…5th point is the most complex one​:skull:

Wahh mere bhai…taaliyaan tune khud se he decide kar liya ki wo cheat karegi aur trko bategi bhi ni agar karegi toh. Tu future kaise dekh leta hai bhai? Hum sabka bhi bata de? Tu baith ke dekhega ki wo kisi aur ko like karegi ya ni …kya chutiyape wali baat karta hai bhai… tu ha ni bolega toh aage badhegi Naa , agle ladke ke sath baat aage badhaegi, tere he bharose baithi rahegi?
Bhai jealous tab hone ka hak hai Tera jab tu uska kuch hai aise trko bhi koi haq ni , hota reh jealous.

@Usman10891

She asked if i am angry with her .I ignored her question on purpose but she kept asking Which i replied"Nope I am not" and then i left the chat

Karte raho bhai ye nibba nibbi waale dramme , karte rahe complex cheezon ko aur fir daalo yaha confession.

@Usman10891

Confess what😂.I am satisfying my ego by ignoring her

Bhai ab dramme bandd kar. Ego satisfy kar koi baat ni fir waha se wo karegi fir tu jealous hoga, fategi fir.
Khelte raho ye revenge game.

@Usman10891

The only hurdle is If she weeps,I would shatter​:sob:.If she starts crying i will melt immediately

Bro I think you need s*x. I’m not even kidding.

@Usman10891

Literally she has done it before too😭 I was clearly winning an argument and she just broke into tears and in the end i was the won who apologized.But i ll make sure this doesnt happen this time…If she doesnt care,i also dont care .Even if my heart breaks, i am not gonna bow down or let her take over.

Bhai ye nibba nibbi ka drama chal raha hai aur kuch ni.im telling you.wo roegi toh mai bhi ro dunga. Wo care ni karegi mai bhi ni karunga.
Bhai be a man . Kinn chutiyappo mei pada hai bahar nikal bhai. Bhot badi duniya hai, aankhe khol. Jaha ego , jealousy hai waha pyar mohabbat nahi. You are only feeding your ego and nothing else. Why to make your life complex. Iske sath nahi chalega toh dusri ke sath chal jaega. Atleast try toh kar . Aur ni karna toh ye sab dramme band sidha. Be clear with your thoughts. Pehle bhi bola tha. Focus on your career, goals and all. Relationship mei aana hai toh aa ni toh mat aa…simple. but don’t make things complex for yourself and for her. Anyway uska toh kahir ghanta kuch ni ab aise he tumhare scene chalte rehenge toh ladki ka bhi Mann kharab ho jaega. Uska experience tere sath kharab hoga. Trse baat krne mei jab usk mood off hoga toh wo q he karegi baat… Londo pe responsibility jada hai bhai iss baat ko samajh. Ye chote mote drammo se hum apna dimag kharab rakhenge toh no girl would want to live with us. Apni value badha, body pe dhyan de. Abundance wala mindset rakh ki iske sath ni banegi toh kisi aur ke sath bann jaegi… Zindagi chhoti hai bhot, bus relise ni hota.
Meri dp dekh.Agar aise behave karega, kamjor rahega toh trse jada worthy Banda trko ni rehne dega fir chahe bandi ho ya zindagi.
Bura lage kisi baat ka toh maafi. But I want you to come out in real world instead of wasting your life in fantasy world.
I hope trko Hindi aati ho ni toh meri gaand lagg jaegi jo itni der se itni badi kahani likh di yaha…itna toh maine kabhi apni bandiyo ko ni likh ke bheja. Kal mock interview hai mera toh value my time also jo itna samjhaane ko likha trko.
MAKE YOUR LIFE WORTH IT AND MAKE YOUR PARENTS PROUD

[Usman10891]

too brutal but 150% honest.Really respect your advice.and BTW thanks for your time tooo

[Usman10891]

Thanks brother for clearing my thoughts.I am dedicating myself for studies fully and have cut the ties(hope so permanently)
How was your mock interview?
(Thanks Again💕)

[prince_king]

@Usman10891

cut the ties(hope so permanently)

Did you part ways or something?

[Usman10891]

Yup parted ways for better future …

I have done much already for my future but still i have to grow futher…

[prince_king]

@Usman10891

Yup parted ways for better future …

You should do what’s better for you. Girls will come, many fish in the sea.

[Usman10891]

Yes i am doing MBBS💕.Gonna do some research work as well so that it would help to make my CV(resume) strong

[gaurav91]

You look positive man. Great ! Whole point was not to get stuck on one woman. Not to lose your mental peace for a woman. So the secret here is to talk to many girls so that if you don’t get to talk with a particular girl your mental peace remains same.Get out of your comfort zone. Having many options will create abundance mindset.Talk , explore, fall in love. At the same time focus on your goals , you are still young and have whole life ahead. All the best