Keep at it, just keep a note of what bested you this time and try to understand it deeply. Next time you find yourself in a similar situation, hopefully your new found understanding of the trigger will help you to stay clean.
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Wtf ruffyā¦you relapsed again???
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Yesā¦ it hurtsā¦ shame on me ā¦ 7 days for nuts. But the show must go on. 
No shame broā¦but try to maintain yaarā¦youll do goodā¦best of luck brotherā¦
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Youāre right. Thank you for your trust.
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Add meā¦we will fight together
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Doneā¦ I add you, my account name is DaWo. We will fight for a better life.
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You mean by forum profile?
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Yes bossā¦like an option of sending req by clicking on profile of forum
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9 day update guys. I peeked and I can already feel something different in me. Itās going to be so hard these next few days to fix and prevent further damage. What made me stop was the fact that I didnāt want to completely erase 9 days worth of work, though some say a peek is a relapse. All I can do is keep clean at this point
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Keep clean and keep yourself busy. Get things done that youāve been postponingā¦ Spend that nofap energy on something, donāt stagnate. I find this helps me by not having time to let the temptations / thoughts take over.
Day 3 for me now. Slowly getting back on track.
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Itās difficult. In my opinion, it is not a relapse. But if you decide you for the same thing, be sure. Donāt let your mind doubt that it may be a relapse, otherwise it is only a matter of time before you really fail. Try to not peek again. Continue your series. Be strong. 
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Thanks for the responses. Though Iām utterly annoyed with myself to have to say I relapsed. Itās amazing that I know what my triggers are, how I should be rationally thinking and how my motives alone should be enough to get me beyond 90 days.
Yet I still peek. I planted the seed that only takes a few hours to sprout. Itās the most dangerous thing Iām telling you. Iāve mentioned it a lot on here for a reason. And as you can see, even I keep running into the same trap.
Maybe Iāll make a rule for myself where Iāll just reset the counter if I seek and peek.
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Thatās not possible since the design of the forum is not handled by me.
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Ok no probs bossā¦
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Happy new year everyone! letās hope all the lessons learned from 2019 turns into wisdom in 2020.
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I Hoped it ā¦ but I had a relapseā¦
364 days left, get back at it and realise that the benefits to being fap-free far outweigh any momentary pleasures. When life itself becomes orgasmic, fapping becomes a stupid idea
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May I join you fellas? I started of 2020 in my wrong foot, yet trying to fix it.
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