I’m interested in how you think about this topic. Lately, I’ve noticed that when I read sometimes here that I can easily read about how someone just relapsed twice in one day and similar stuff. And that sometimes makes me think that I could too, because this person also did it so it won’t hurt me, i will be just fine. It seems to me that it would be much better if I had strong “friends” here, who have no weakness and therefore I cannot have it either so I would feel like there is no other option but to become the best, and that relapses are not tolerated here. Of course, on the other hand, I know that we have to write if we relapsed, because we can also help each other that way. That’s why I’m thinking if it’s useful in my case to use this forum, if it evokes such feelings in me. What are your thoughts on this?
‘Strong friends’ won’t necessarily make you stronger. Similarly, you might be happy leading a bunch of beginners who might feel inspired by your success. Breaking an addiction is not like breaking through some wall that you need more people or strong people. It is about having the group that best conditions your mind. If you feel like a timid beginner in a league of elites, who have been on the app for more than 5.years and have failed a hundred times, you might either think that it is impossible, or you are too weak for this or you will not accept your relapse out of shame. On the other hand, if you have honestly made it through, even though it is 15 or 16 days, some beginners will definitely look up to you and then you will have the motivation to go on.
It is entirely upto you, what suits you best. In my view choose a company of friends who are most like you because they will resonate your struggle, you will learn from their mistakes and success more easily than you will learn from an elite.
Thanks for your opinion. I appreciate it. You’re right, if I want to get rid of this habit or addiction, I need the support of others, as well as they mine. Since I joined the forum, I’m actually doing better because I’m taking more responsibility and trying to become a better version of myself. By ever reading something that can possible demotivate me, it can only make me stronger, because my willpower will be tested and after each victory it will become stronger.
Thanks for speaking the truth i feel everyword you said, i joined here 13 days ago and havent relapsed since. So if you want to feel like you have some competition ,HERE I AM. Im down for a friendly competition to see who relapses first and the person who makes it furthest becomes the best. If you think your going to become the best on this forum i guarantee you wont beat me in consistency and holding my word to never relapse on pron or masturbation again.
Im going to warn you im hungry for this i can guarantee you pmo addiction hasn’t damaged your life like mine. Ive been to hell and back 100 times.
Btw please dont take this personally i want you succeed as much as i do myself 
Sounds good. I am in. Let’s see who will win and become better, although I know for sure that I will not lose. You can’t do anything to me, I’ll grind you to dust 
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Btw what are the rules?
Well how many days have you been p0rn and masturbation free?
Rules should be
- Absolutely no p0rn or adult content of any kind including photos on social media (No serious looking or even thinking about anything in a sexual manner)
- No self pleasure,masturbation or anything with touching down there
- We can go semen retention now if you want but i believe sexual relations with women is fine but i wont be doing that anytime soon, but if you have a female partner you can go for it
I don’t know what else , Let us know what your thought’s or any rules you would like to work on?
Great, you can send me your sharing code, here is mine: g2gp88
I accept the rules, but of course let’s try to be as productive as possible and not focus too much on nofap in general.
Im working on being more productive myself , theirs nothing more i would like to forget about than nofap i want everything and anything accompanied with it gone out my life in the future
**Sharing Code:**um4z86
Brothers , i’m in too…
I lost today but not to ■■■■…
I will now try my best go escape chaser effect…
Plzz add me too…
I am in the challenge…
Challenge gives me some kick… Some energy
And i have to win this…!!
My sharing code is : ekn5ah
One thing i’ll say that everyone’s mind thinks differently…
When we see more and more relapses…
Our relapse chances increase too…
Because somewhere your mind accepts that its happening to others too…
But when you will see someone not relapsing for months and years…
Then u follow him and you want to be at that level…
I hope so that this type of positive challenge is something must needed… . we should go for it
Should we just continue to chat and discuss on this post, or make a new one with everyone striving to be the best in there. Like i said im new here and don’t really know the whole sharing code deal and shit. All i know is motivated to be the guy with the most days pmo free and on my purpose out of everyone in here.Would love to help people struggling is a big part of it
We may remain here… And also can make a new topic etc
I think we need more men in here with long streaks to prove that it is possible for sure, come join me and be consistent (EVERYDAY) on giving advice,stories,experiences and motivation. I am aiming for 90 days first as everyone does. But the real goal is forever. Dont think i will ever forget about my addiction and my past so i can see myself always hating the p0rn industry and striving to help others in this addiction
I’m with you too…
Day 0
25th April 2023
Lets see , how far who goes
Im expecting you to be accountable everyday in your diary where i will be interacting with you and hopefully like wise with myself. I see you have been here for 2years on and off it looks like today is the day we both quit and be consistent
Weakness is a part of human nature you gotta accept it although you are correct to some extent with respect to the forum. Too much relapsed stories and cringe content I saw around a few months.
Sure man…
I’ll be there everyday In Shaa Allah
Okay, so I saw @RenegadeAu when I added you that you are on day 2, even though you said otherwise before, so I don’t think it’s correct there… We can stay here, I’ll change the topic and we will write here every day what our thoughts are, urges, or whatever to keep us connected. If one of us relapses first, he is out of the competition, there are only two left, but that doesn’t mean you can no longer motivate and write here. And thank you to everyone who answered my first question in this topic.
Do you guys agree or want to change anything? Let me now.
Ready for challenge…
Go ahead
Yeah i mainly use on my laptop, and only was able to download app on phone when updated 2 days ago. I joined on the 13th and have written daily in diary.
And yes staying here we can hopefully make each other great and pmo free. Let us all become the high performers of this forum.
Lets create history 
