It started out great but what was really hopeful at the beginning is turning ugly now. Unfortunately few people have taken it to mean that my addiction will make me susceptible to sleep with them or blame me to be irreligious/immoral and I am afriad to say the negativity is getting to me. Not only they lack an understanding between masturbation and sex addiction, they have no regard of the pain suffered. I am not here to offer anyone advice as to what women like. It’s pathetic anyone should even ask me that as I am in the grip of an addiction. Within just a span of three days I have an inbox full of such messages. I try to focus on the better ones but whenever I read such messages it really makes me feel crappy.
Actually this forum has provided me a great lot of strategies and I am thankful to a lot of people here. But maybe being open was not too great an idea. It’s just disappointing that’s all.Back to the closet with all my secret. Thank you to those who provided ideas to combat it. I have read a lot of articles here and created a lot of pointers to guide me through. Most of you have been supportive and kind, but I cannot keep blocking people or reading messages asking me to sleep with people. It really affects me.
I am also reporting to the feedback forum all such persons who are saying this so that they do not trouble other females. Those who have been highly sucessful please tell me more strategies if you find time and I will make a note of them and follow them.