Keeping it real[21 M]

That’s true man. Thanks for your words. Also, how are you doing my bro?

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Ya, it definitely will. My last streak of 96 days started with valuing 1 hr of cleanliness. It sounds weird but it’s true.

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It’s quite ironic.

Outside this forum and social media, I’ve met many people, built meaningful relationships, shared pleasant memories, laughed, and had fun with them. I invested a great deal of time and energy into nurturing those connections.

But, unfortunately, I would often lose contact with them for various reasons—some moved away, shifted to different fields, changed interests, pursued new career paths, or simply drifted apart.
They get replaced with a complete new set of people I have never seen before

At first, it was hard for me to let go of the memories I’d made with them. I would feel emotionally drained, thinking of all the effort I had put into building those bonds—only to start all over again with a new set of people.
If I don’t start building again with new people, then I will be suffering from loneliness and would feel depressed.

With passage of time, I became accustomed to this pattern. I adapted to the reality that in life, the old is often replaced by the new. I came to accept it as a natural part of existence.
I accepted the quiet truth: in nature, the old makes way for the new. Seasons change, rivers shift, people come and go. And in that cycle, I found a strange peace.

Now, I no longer take it personally when I lose touch with someone. I accept it and move on.

That’s why I find it fascinating that I’m still here, on this forum—I haven’t left.

And it’s not because of a relapse.

It’s something deeper than that—perhaps an emotional connection that goes beyond explanation.

Maybe, only when all the familiar faces eventually leave, I’ll feel ready to go too.
But until then, I will remain here on RC

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Don’t worry brother. I have only seen longer breaks but eventual returns of all the veterans. Most of it is due to old PMO issues creeping in after a long break from this forum which isn’t the right way to be coming back here.

Personally, I always have a solid reason for what I am doing. I still plan on leaving once and for all, this habit and also the forum.

I have a knack of leaving when people say “why?” And not “when?” (Have some personal experience here too)

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I’m doing well, trying to keep myself busy and distracted as much as possible. How are you doing bro? How’s nerbo doing? I hope you stay strong!

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I don’t think it needs to be mentioned but after getting the opportunity to earn, since then even on the worse days I don’t spend money on all that shit.

I am not exactly fine. But trying my very best to be productive and beating PMO (the actual reason is career pressure which leads me there).

He seems to be busy with his PhD. And I have tried contacting him through thick and thin but it feels like he is happy and I am disturbing him with my concerns. Since Diwali last year, it has been incredibly difficult managing to be in contact with him while being away from forum.

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You’re better than your version of last year. Despite multiple relapses you know how to make some comebacks. This is not about streaks it’s about experience , knowledge.

You learnt many things you just have to utilise that in a proper manner. Try to reach 14 Days , 30 Days and so on. Be positive & trust yourself

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I am better in not letting No fap dominate my brain. But not that good in making long streaks like last year.

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I’m not reading this much ! Hell noo… Neend aagyi padhte padhte… Isko padhkr studying ya work me time jodunga

Someone bring challenges

Abracadabra

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Since all nigga , readed it already.

@The_EnlightenedOne @Covertxomic @Awaken_one I was talking about you and some other people too :skull: . Stop writing you’re going to leave it forever guys , yhaa aate jaate raho app hi toh h :sob::wilted_flower:

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Kitne ha join Karo bhot h

Fresh :smiling_face_with_tear::smiling_face_with_tear:

Abracadabra

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Prince, your problem lies not in knowledge, nor in applying the knowledge. Your problem lies in consistency. If your goal is truly to quit forever, you should give yourself a goal that is your purpose of life to do so. Let’s be honest, you might even know your life goal but the problem is no longer in knowing, it’s in believing it, living it every moment. You had it last year when you reached +300 days but eventually you let it go. You forgot nothing, you only let go of your meaningfulness existence. Your current streaks are like the roars of a lion who let go of his jungle and found himself in a desert and is now tying to reclaim his thrown. But to whom? What is a king of a jungle without his jungle? A lion who gave up on his jungle is not a king. Reclaim your jungle, and your roar shall command again. Your knowledge, your power will then have true meaning. You’re at your second final stage of success. All you gotta do is to BE YOUR OWN ROAR.
You’ve got this Prince, you always had. And I can’t wait to see you rise up again to reclaim your thrown. So

LET THIS BE THE RISE OF A FALLEN ROAR!

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2024 was all about addressing this issue.

I kind of get it, this is what feels missing, not just now but during large parts of 2024 as well. I think I know, the problem is in execution. Thanks man, first is to write a big paragraph which takes time and understanding of that person. And then to write exactly what needs to be written.

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No thanks please. That’s what brothers are for :grinning_face_with_smiling_eyes:
Out of like by the way, so here: :heart:

All the best Prince :fire:

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U were the reason for motivating me to make one of the most productive phase of my life. Maybe, just maybe u r going to be the reason again.

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Blue lock me join krlo member equal nhi bethte wha or entries hamesha open ha , aao to tum bhai sahab :pouting_cat::+1:

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Bruised, battered, defeated

But is it the end??

I have lost everything which was mine

Confidence, belief, hope, consistency

But is it the end?

NO

It’s time to show what someone who has nothing to lose can do.

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Pain is inevetiable , but suffering is a choice

Being bruised and battered is inevitable , if you are disciplined it will reflect physically , if you are undisciplined it will reflect mentally.

But being defeated is a choice.

I wish you all the best.

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