You can feel free to continue postings about your experiences. Preferably mention at the start of your diary, “Trigger warning” as sometimes there may be some users who might find what you write triggering.
I apologise for the lack of maturity in the forum, there’s a lot more to it but that’s better left alone. If you wish, I can delete the other replies from your diary (referring to the recent argumentative ones) if you wish to continue your flow, else can leave them here.
Just remember that people here are on a journey, and PMO has negatively affected the social skills of a lot of people. The internet has made it even worse. But keep going, all the best.
Thank you for the support. No need to delete, but I’ll just go back to ignoring the haters.
I never intended this threat to be argumentative, hence why I clearly marked it for people to ignore if they are not interested. Just to share my experience.
It has actually helped me retain to journal I think, even with sex, I would usually relapse but now I’m past 50 days, so keep journalling for anyone reading this! It’s a great resource you have.
@Consumate
Hi brother, don’t mind the hate and negative replies you are getting. You don’t deserve the amount of hate being thrown at you. You have every right to post whatever you wish to in your diary if that, in your opinion, aligns with your goals of overcoming PMO.
And you are very right about the fact that Semen Retention increases a man’s SMV and female attractions. Your experiences are deeply inspiring and motivating. I will support you in your efforts. Don’t pay attention to others.
Continue posting your experiences. Stay blessed
Improving your relation with women is a major motivation for men, and I’m in no way minimising all the other benefits that come about from retention, but the celibate lifestyle is not for everyone.
If you can leverage that motivation to retain, it will only be a win win.
I have a good mate who’s been retaining longer than me, and has chosen to do the celebate thing, and I’ve seen women coming up and swooning over him. I’d say I’m objectively better looking, taller than him, even though both of us are far from being a 10. The effect is absolutely fascinating, especially when it gets into the non physical of women out of the blue starting to persue you online with no physical contact before hand, which negates the ideas about pheromones, posture etc.
I failed to retain, and so I will reset and start the experiment all over again. Setting an October 20th goal, right before I leave for my holiday, and overseas it will get a little hard to stay strong.
I’m just getting back to my stride after relapsing, but it’s like night and day.
Just like when girls were coming out of the woodwork at my 30+ streak, they have all dispersed. No more eye contact, infact o noticed girls looking away, and I’d say physically my appearance has slightly improved. (More gym)
Will keep you updated, and would love to hear stories from others while I’m grinding back to 30+ days.
Day 9 in. Something inside me just clicked. My mind became sharp as a pin. My eye contact is strong, but not yet recipricated. When we stop lusting after women, we get the strength to dominate them.
A girl I matched with previously that I remember unmatching with me, matched again and asked me to meet her on the same day I “felt it” (at almost midnight)
I didn’t do it because I wasn’t checking Tinder that late, but this is exactly the woo woo stuff about SR that I cannot explain and that fascinates me.
I get pheromones, and posture and all that, but how do you explain women just coming out of the woodwork like this.
Your posts are about getting laid and all. This is for the yougsters who will join the forum and see this. The more you have physical relationship with others the harder it will be for you to sustain your marriage that’s why it’s best to abstain from such thing before marriage. Think it of a sacred act that you have to do it one person only , after getting married. Journaling about your improvement will motivate others, telling and doing such bs isn’t a sign of improvement and motivating in a wrong way.
Been a while since I posted because of a reset I had, but back to 10 days, and feeling the vines again.
Had a maturish woman outright start a conversation with me in a shop I was in, and then a girl heavily checking me out at the gym. Both things not typically that happens to me, as I don’t think look wise as what you’d consider a “Chad”
I have a couple of dates set up also, and had some fun previously that led to my relapse.
My dating apps have been going off a bit also. Much more than usual. Not sure if there is some kind of general shift I’m not aware of, but it’s all our of the “ordinary”
On the self improvement / spiritual side, I’ve been delving deep into progressive yoga relaxation. It’s a practice I highly recommend everyone adopt for SR as well as general well being.
Haven’t updated for a while since I’ve been on holiday, but man oh man, the synchronicity and the experiences, old flames coming back etc, too much to explain.
I am resetting again, even though I have been retaining for a few days and will update again on my experiences back home.
As for energy level during release, I found it a lot less draining when I was having sex and sharing the intimate energy. While I felt kinda drained towards the end of my trip, I was full of energy even at the height of my debauchery.
I would definately contribute this to retaining all the time in between and before.
As I’ve said earlier, I’m not a puratin, but I staunchly believe is saving your energy, retaining and avoid ■■■■ for those moments when you are offered and amazing experience (with a guy or a girl)
All the best to everyone, and looking forwards to where things go on this new journey.
