These days after having crossed over 10+ days streak,I am getting a strong desire to have a female companion. I am feeling bad for myself for getting hooked to jerking off to images of girls,and sometimes to real women without letting them notice. Why Iām so bad like that ?
I think itās only because of this creepy habits,I was never successful with girls. Iām not bragging myself but Iām above average looking and quite smart but I had never have any courage to approach any girl during my graduation years. Now Iām feeling so lonely and this loneliness sucks. Iām thinking to get married but I donāt have enough courage either to say this to my parent. Iām now 25 years old
I think all I need is true female companion which Iām lacking for years.
I had once loved one girl during school days,she left me when she joined her new college. Since then I am heart broken.
My question is if itās OK to have a strong desire for having a gf. Iām not looking for sex or one night stand. ( Trust me)
I want a genuine romantic relationship with a girl.
I will start approach girls once I cross 90+ days streak hard mode. First I need to change my view on women, reboot my brain
Brother, we all are same donāt worry . You are always blaming yourself. I noticed that .
If I say about my story I also want a good girl,we all want but not that too much. You are not focusing on your work so getting this type of thoughts. Everyday make a proper planning and try to clear all the task .khali dimaag sehtan ka ghar he, ā ohh ladki kitni sundar he ,wo kar dunga ea kar dunga !!! Chalo so jata hun ab; chalo thoda game khelta hun; relapsed omg , please help me bro I relapsed
If god gives us 24 hrs we have to decide how we will spend this.
This type of mindset, a single female will never love you . Why she will stay with you??? This line may hurt you but I am straight forward. Invest your time and energy in your aim. Every girl needs successful person who have fame,money,good look, knowledge and self confidence
If someone is crying then no girl wants to love this guy.
So learn to fight alone.
single attitude . Ignore all girls message. Show that you are a āshakt laundaā
Bro search on YouTube āDr. Nippun Aggarwal Ra ma da saā and do the guided chanting 10 mins before going to sleep. And after 4-5 days, you will yourself decide whether is it good to desire girls or not.
Plus, this advice was given to me by Gaurav Mall on Stop M app. Gaurav has not masturbated for almost 2 years
I didnāt tought I would have said this but I donāt agree with _Tiger. I think you can get one if youāre sure thatās actual love and not sexual attraction. Donāt have sex with her if you arenāt ready to have a son. I wouldnāt count it as a relapse if you have sex with your wife and not for pleasure but to have a son/daughter.
So donāt do it 'till you are married and donāt use protections.
With that out of the way, I think you can get a girlfriend, but remember what I wrote in bold
But remember that if you also like her body she could (Probably will) make your journey harder, so you must be strong at all costs. At the same time she could make it easier if you tell her whatās happening. You could be ashamed, but having someone who supports you irl could really make the difference
Your thinking does not work in real life . By reading your sentences I can surely say you are below 25 or less and still a kid. Sex is a physical need and nothing to deny. But you should not be enslaved of it. One need moderation, discipline to success in married life and professional life or else be a saint
Now Iām confused. Should I change my mind again? XD
I mean, I still donāt really 100% agree with subhamsensit but heās right, I donāt have experience maybe I should just trust him
Hes not right
Thatās just his point of view and it doesnāt mean you should be okay with what he says
We are not talking about experience here.
Some men think they are grown up but they are still a baby in their minds
Yeah you are right. And this means WE are right, what a win!
No, jokes apart, @Roads_to_purity if you really feel like you are ready to have a girlfriend, and not just a āGirlfriendā but someone who you are actually willing to merry and you are sure itās not sexual attraction but love, then itās fine if you do- no, itās bad if you donāt!
But remember, no sex for pleasure, only to have a son/daughter.
Finally you desire girls, great! Now your body will begin prepping you to take action and become a man. Donāt fool it with jerking off, that tricks your body into thinking you already have a girl and thatās why you havenāt had one for so long.
(Unless youāre like me and you turn them down because youāre not interested in dating atm )
Iām so bad like that ?
broken.
. Ignore all girls message. Show that you are a āshakt laundaā
Awesome 
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