Actually what happened?
Ahh, self pity. One of the ugliest pit of PMO.
This community here has a lot of people who are willing to care about you, your feelings. They will always try to comfort you, motivate you with tender words.
In a way I also care, that is why I am writing this comment to say, that in your current state, you don’t deserve any tender words. You deserve a smack in the face.
When will you stop pitying yourself? It is the most pointless, useless thing you can do in the world. Stop it!
Your life is not important, worthless? Who’s responsibility it is to change it? What did you do to have a worthy, valuable life?
I was there too and that is why I say, there is no place to tender words here. You shouldn’t be comforted in the state you are. You should be smacked to the ground completely, to realize that it is only you, who can stand up from there. It should have been done to me at that time too.
Noone else will change your life for you. That is the truth.
Again, is your life not important? Life is life. It has it’s own worth and you can add your own value to your own life. I wish you to realize that in every breath you take you have the power, to change yourself and your life.
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I don’t involve myself in these conversations but aren’t you the one who just said two months ago that you gonna die? And returned home saying that your friend was writing this all. That play was terrible dude .
This is not a place for all this bullshit . Stop this otherwise I m gonna report you .
If you can’t fight then go to doctor don’t crave for sympathy here. Understood.
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@Levonad I just read your main post.
When you have a lot on ur shoulder what you do is that you lighten that burden.
Right now, don’t think about what is happening with us humans and the enviroment we live in. The existence etc.
Narrow the focus on yourself.
Brother, right now you work on fixing yourself first. Then you can think about the world etc.
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Man this is some bad shit if you keep telling your self this shit that life is worth less that will get into your head and you will land up no where but porn. This happened to me too. I also think like this but than I realised that no one is going to help you it is your life you need to work on it every single day. To improve that’s the only path to live a life. Some times it will be bad, sad then happy that is what life is all about. You can truly sense happiness when some days you feel sad. In the end these are emotions they will come and go don’t run from them feel it and start telling yourself that you are better than this and can do better
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I think you have 2 problems on your hand. deperession and PMO. You have to work on both.
No.
All and all, You are having self-defeating attitude tbh.
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Sorry levonad
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Listen bro, thing is simple harmony with self, body and society is necessary.
Human evolved time to time and also it is necessary. your comment on evolution is totally irrelevant.
If you are really suciadal or stressed out then change your habbit. If not strong enough to change alone then tell you closest person your truth and ask their help. Genuine relative will never say no …
Go outside, switch off the phone, put a poster on wall for strong motivation , watch your parents hard work for you. Don’t be emotionless rise above it.
Maintain diary here or join a group .
Many things are there if you are genuine.hope to see you growing and finally don’t try to get sympathy for covering your shame.
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All your saying is bullshit bro, stop letting everything get to your head stop being weak.
What’s been happening to you what has happened that’s so bad to the point where suicide became tempting
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If you think life is unfair
Then read this
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Yeah life is unfair
See the orange dot over there?
It’s an independent kingdom of Mewar
A small dot in the ocean of pink kingdom
Yknow what happened that time? The pink kingdom was immensely stronger than any other kingdoms
The other kings (small independent kingdoms) surrendered to the power of Mughals and allied with them. That dot didn’t. His name is Maharana Pratap, and when he was born he had only a broken kingdom, absolutely nothing. No standing army. No resources. All he had was the will to fight back. He had just one fort (that too partly broken by cannons)
He rushed to the forest. He learned fighting arts. He did everything that was in his power but he didn’t give up. He gathered men, and took on against the mighty Mughal empire (the pink ocean). Vastly outnumbered. Both in men and resources. Everything around him was broken, except his spirit. Everything was unfair to him. He still fought on. And yes he didn’t lose. He actually recaptured the part of his kingdom that were lost before he was born. He is my hero. I love him. He constantly reminds of that unbreakable hope and will that can literally pull you through an impossible situation. If you think life is unfair for you, always look at this picture.
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You are selling yourself out to depression. Don’t do that. Depression is not your friend.
Let’s take yourself out of depression.
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FUCK SELF PITY There is no emotion more heinous. Everyone on this forum has experienced it at one point or another. Just do whatever the fuck you need to do. You know what you need to do. Just fucking do it. This instant. Right now.
You told me I can share my feelings here freely. But I feel like I didn’t have to.
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This feeling is because our brain is destroyed because of PMO and it will take time to fully heal. Patience is the key. Calm down, relax a little and don’t get overwhelmed by what life has become these days. You can’t let the outer world disturb the inner peace within you. Your inner peace is divine. Don’t let anyone or anything disturb it. I have a lot of such issues and I am slowly healing.
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Destroyed , why ?!
You 're not the only one man , believe me we are all have many things makes us down and dissappointed but there are a hope …
This hope always be in your soul if you like and for anytime you grow this … I advice you to do a meditation for a week for just 15 min to see , to heal , to clear your noises from the deep , believe me we are all suffer of this ugly life and we know that is create not for the unlimited beauty …
We are in a big exam man … this exam begin a huge one every year you grown … respect the natural of your mother and father witg their noises because you have not anyone will care like them , believe me …
i see that you are someone who is usual worry and afraid , afraid even from himself but you ahve not …
TAke it easy , i know that i don’t know anything about you and how are you ???
but if i don’t care , i will reply … right ?! (think more people please about your vision and take it easy peace by peace and we are with you … ?! )
There are always hope …
stay strong
you can
don’t wait for happiness , act it …
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@Levonad It’s ok to express yourself. But don’t deny reality please.
The reality is you absolutely have shots against your problems. Yet you are willingly not taking your shots.
Accept that. Then set your intention to fix the problems.
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