How beautiful was ur life before viewing ur first porn video v/s how is ur life after watching porn till now

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we can and we will win over porn and mastrubation
All the best to every 1

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Life has become like a shit eater Pig.

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Life was full of colours

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U can explain a bit more if possible to motivate others to enjoy their life without all this shit porn and mastrubation
Thank you anyways

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Hi bro
Before porn
I used to smile
Always used to remain happy
Was an extrovert
Could really and easily talk to girls
Used to have real friends

** After porn**
*No social life(not even on internet except rewire and telegram that too for only school purposes)
*Most of the times are in stress
*My mom says that why i dont smile anymore like in childhood
*No friends
*Became introvert
*Have zero confidence for asking someone about anything.
*never talk to a girl on purpose

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Before porn: I was being me, very happy and had loads of friends. We use to play cricket together, go to swimming pool together. Spent happy times with family, use to go outing each and every week.

While on porn: I became a loner, I didnā€™t find happiness with others instead I jerk off and living on those fake happiness. Stopped hanging out with friends and family, lost almost all my friends. Always irritated of my family :pensive: I still hate that guy.

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Before porn, my life was always awesomeā€¦ I could easily talk to girls without any fear. I would study alot, I was a brilliant student. I lived freely thatā€™s why my childhood was the golden period for me. Before pmo I had full confiedence to do anything. Digestion was perfect.
But after porn
All that confiedence disappeard. I procrastinated alot. I would waste all day. Thank God I did 33 days nofap in my tenth class and got good marks in exams. I could barely talk to girl and I became socially anxious

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Before porn and masturbation:

  1. Life had innocent and simple pleasures.
  2. I was a happy person.
  3. I had no mental health issues.
  4. Never experienced anxiety about anything.
  5. Had great focus.

After porn and masturbation:

  1. Started looking at people from sexual angle without even realising it.
  2. I entered the world of depressed thoughts.
  3. Became anxious about everything in my life.
  4. Started to go away from my friends and spend time alone all the time.
  5. Lost the amazing focus that I had before.

And so much more happenedā€¦ and this all is very true. Thatā€™s why this battle against porn and masturbation is extremely important for me. Itā€™s time I get my life back. A new life is waiting for me:)

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My life before watching porn

  1. I was more bold
  2. Highly energetic
  3. More focused towards study
  4. Never delayed my work
  5. Attracted a lots of girl
  6. Simple life lots of happiness no addictions and a peaceful sleep

After watching porn

  1. Fear among crowd
  2. Lack of confidence
  3. In anxiety
  4. Less social with people
  5. See other gender as a sex toy

These needs to be changed and it will be
To regain the happiest times of life again

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Before porn I was a kid funny lots of friends no stress thought life will just happen and everything will fall in place Iā€™ll have a great career a beautiful girl by my side great friends

After porn life hits you but the fact is it hits everyone not just fappers but now i was not able to handel the stress from the everyday life problems ,I still am funny but at times I am depressed, i did have many girlfriends but never had satisfying relationships didnā€™t handle relationships problems very well, I have friends but socially I am not that confident i am working but not for something I am passionate about

Moral.
life is pretty much the same I have the things I had before or thought Iā€™ll have in future without porn life will still be stressful there is no magic pill But if I quit porn Iā€™ll start handling the everyday stress that everyone faces in a better way. Still problems will be there but rather than focusing on the problems Iā€™ll focus on the solutions still at times I will be sad, at times I will be scared of social situations thatā€™s normal but instead of medicating these everyday stressful situations with porn Iā€™ll handle them well like any other person who doesnā€™t have addiction to watch porn
Life is a struggle for everyone but it depends how you handled that struggle one should do all he can and be prepared for that struggle and here I know porn is getting in the way of me becoming my best so letā€™s quit this habit and be happy

Happiness is in solving the problems of life, life without problems is not yet achievable to humans ,only god will be able to provide it.

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Iā€™d share mine but its pretty much the same as all of yours. Curse this addiction for causing so much loss! Letā€™s reverse all of this brothers! Remember the past, but look forward to the future!

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I lost everything ā€¦ My health ā€¦ My intelligenceā€¦ My powerā€¦ My confidence.

It compeltly destroyed me.

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If i could travel back in time, for atleast once, i would do it, no matter the cost, to stop my younger, dumber self, from going down this path to hell,from taking that wretched first step. There is nothing I wouldnā€™t do for a second chance and a reset in my life, to start fresh again, simple and pure like i used to be.

But i realise that can never happen, and there is only one way we can go - forward. We can never un-meet our demons, we can only try and beat them. They will be with us for all eternity, but in that battle, we will come out stronger, we will come out on top, my brothers. Every. Single. Fucking. Time.

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What Prox said is the same for me - life became shit.

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My life was not beautiful before watching porn

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Do you mean to say your life is beautiful after watching porn? Duh

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No. Iā€™m not saying that.

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Before porn I was aliveā€¦ I was high when I use to see sunrise, muntainā€¦ And other beauty of natureā€¦ But now I want to be alone, doing nothing and also my heart is felt with regret that how I destroyed my life.

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Before ā– ā– ā– ā–  -

  1. Had a girlfriend
  2. No social anxiety
  3. Topper student
  4. Favourite for teachers
  5. Damn I was actually talking with girls and even flirt with them. When I was in class 5-6.

After ā– ā– ā– ā–  -

  1. Average student
  2. Started looking like a creep
  3. Ugly and skinny
  4. Social anxiety

This is when I was in class 8th , I had intense addiction in 2019.

Hopefully I look good now because Iā€™m trying NoFap since 2021. Making constant streaks since a year.

Itā€™s a journey and it gives me various progress like.

  1. Now I stopped objectifying girls , i stopped seeing them as a fuck toy.
  2. Complimenting a girl becomes easy.
  3. Journey of constant efforts teaches patience.
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Damn it has been 4 years.

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I have never looked at ā– ā– ā– ā–  so I donā€™t know what you guys/girls are going through.

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