Hey man, rightly said. I know not all the people here are for the same reason, hence not everyone
will like this post, but I myself is a fan of what I call it as ‘destructive motivation’, where you speak the harsh truth right in front of the people. When I started nofap, my goal was to restore my hair growth, remove face pimples etc all the childish reasons. But when I struggled the first week, I realized this for the very first time that I was a fucking addict. Then I noticed other things which actually are wrong in my life and I became serious about nofap. What you discussed about embracing your urges is exactly what I do, every time I have urges. I would encourage you to read my article and it’s discussions as you will like it:-
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