♀️ Girlfriend Problem ♂️

I have been trying NoFap since many years but couldn’t take it seriously, until now. I got in a serious relationship for first time & we’re sexting, video calling n phone-sex since 7 months.
We had some sexual encounters too (No Penetration yet). First time I saw her down, felt a lot of anxiety, anger and disappointment in my porn-induced want-everything-perfect mind. Had to keep it hard with my hand & ended with blowjob.
I already have low self-esteem from constant fapping. Then I tried to accept the reality and be open minded next time. On next meet, I got aroused fully but totally Failed to get an Erection when naked. Tried everything but didn’t work.
I fapped a lot in depressed mode after then decided to take NoFap seriously, so that Erectile Dysfunction doesn’t happen again. I’m doing this for her, to have a healthy sex-life.
If I don’t get this girl as my wife, I don’t want to bother anyone else with my darkness & want to live a life of Celibacy.
She’s an Amazing girl & enjoys the pleasure with me. Even when she’s feeling it, she doesn’t Masturbate without involving me. So this makes me feel cheating on her when I do MO/PMO.
Also, I can’t resist her as I’m doing it all to satisfy her. Now, when we talk dirty I want to ejaculate infront of her only on vid call. So don’t fap mostly at the time (often get blue balls and wet-dreams cuz of it) but, have to fap later.
So If I Fap with her, It’s also a relapse cuz after all it’s MO by my hand. How to Prevent it all, So Confused? To Relapse or Not ⚠️ [NSFW]

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@AnkitK @Sahas @KarmaYogi . Help him brothers

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भाई सच तो यह है कि सारी बकेती छोड़ और खुद पे ध्यान देना शुरू कर । तेरी कंडीशन देख भाई उसके सामने तू नामर्द हो जाता है और घर आकर विडियो कॉल पे मुट्ठ मार रहा है । तू खुद को बचाएगा toh wo ladki tere pass rahegi na । Apni health pe dhyaan de aur apni gf se band kar saari sexual chats .

Nofap ke reboot ke liye monk banna padta hai . @rowdy_nik

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हां भाई यही करने की कोशिश है । उसको हिंट तो दिया है, अब इस बारे में बात होगी तो साफ मना कर दूंगा अगली बार सामने मिलने तक के लिए । नहीं तो शुभ मंगल सावधान जैसे हो जाएगा । बंदी हर बात में समझदार और supportive h. Baki Hindi me likhne se feel hi alg aa jati h. Rajasthan me kaha se tu @koylakhadan

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ये ही बात सीधे लगी दिमाग में, तभी तो NoFap शुरू किया सितम्बर से । पर साला उसकी वजह से फिर कन्फ्युजिया गया । अब सख्त लौंडा बनना पड़ेगा next time Sakht Lauda rkhne ke liye haha

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भाई ध्यान से सुन मेरी बात उस लड़की को साफ बता दे तेरी एडिक्शन के बारे और तू इस से कितना सफर कर रहा वो भी । क्यों की पुरा सच बताएगा तो वो अपना 100 % साथ देगी तेरी इस journey mein ।

और तू खुद 90 दिनों तक सब कामवासना भूल जा । योगा , ध्यान , व्यायाम आदि कर । और उससे कुछ अच्छे टॉपिक पर बात कर क्या हर टाइम फ़ालतू बांत से दूर रह । @rowdy_nik वो भी लड़की है उसके भी काम वासना जागती है । जैसे ऐसा कुछ तूने काल पे लगे तुरंत फोन कांट देना नहीं तो तूने पता ही है अपने में इतना ही दम है सब साथियों में । कुछ नहीं छोड़ा बॉडी में अपन सब ने ।

ऐसा मजबूत रह कुछ महीनों के लिए फिर देख मजा कैसे तेरी सारी प्रॉबलम मिटती है । याद रख अब करेगा toh tu only sex ।

Mutth toh bhul ja Aisa kuch hota hi nahi hai ।

Aur bhai mein Ajmer se hu । Tu kaha se hai

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हां पर मैं उसे बढ़ावा ही नहीं दूंगा तो सही रहेगा ।

सावधानी हटी, दुर्घटना घटी ।
तो बस अब, सब कामवासना भूलकर खुद को व्यस्त और स्वस्थ रखना है । हाथ ही ना लगाऊं नीचे
Sikar se hu bhai.

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@koylakhadan Bhai mujhe kyon Tag kar diya… Main khud KamVasna ka Pujari hoon.
Kal hi sex kiya hain.

Ha ek bat mein help kar sakta hun… Lode ko steel jaise sakht karva sakta hun.
Vo aise hoga…
21 Days Hard Mode kar…
22nd day par sex kar lena.

Sarra mamla feelings ka hain… Hum abhi confuse rehte hain… i mean brain Fog. Jab present in the moment rahenge or Andre mein 20 din ka juice hoga to lode gand fad denga.
2nd Point… Pied ka hain… porn induced erectile dysfunction… Porn ya koi bhi sexual stuff mat dekhna 21 din tak… phir dekh kya dammal hoga 22nd day par… Tu Rewire hone lagega… Rewire matlab asli ladki ke sath mazza aana start ho jayega.

Good luck … Experience se kehta hun… Kam se kam 3 ghanta chut marenga tu vo bhi bine chode… Bas sex ko slow karna… dhadkan ko fast mat hone dena… Jab lage ki choot jayenga to man mein ginti count karna ya hanuman chalise ratna… ya thoda pause lekar bina lund ko bahar nikale… thodi der usse bat kar lena… positions badlte rehna. Good luck.

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Bhai meri halat tere jaise thi… aj mein hard mode ki wajah se 4 ghanta tak sex kar sakta hoon bina ejaculation ke.

Hard Mode is your Medicine.

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Ab bhai problem to PMO se hoti h… Sex to acha hi h, bas सम्यक काम hona chahiye ek non-brahmchari ki life m. abhi 22 din m to dene ko tyyar nhi hogi wo hahaha… Baki mne bol diya h usko ki min 90 days hardmode pe jana h… aur ye slowing techniques mne b use ki hui h, bas ab time badhane ki jarurat h.

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@Sahas bhai married h na tu. or sex pe b relapse count kyu Streak reset kri

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only one way to achieve higher nofap streak … & remove pmo addiction which is … Stop sex & porn shit physically & mentally …stop thinking about sex with wife or gf n porn in mind … cause every action has a source with it which is a thought … sex thoughts make urges … & when you start doing what urges tell you … the urges becomes excited uncontrollable urges which will become harder to stop the urges … mostly people relapse only cause of addicted sick mind … their addicted sick mind tell them to do shit … and they do that … if you are the one who are doing what addicted sick mind tell you to do for dopamine & temporary fake pleasure then there’s no point of doing nofap then … cause you will fail everytime with same reason & also you are not finding solutions for that …

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Yeah words of wisdom bro. I look upto your streak daily. 275 days Congratulations @drago08

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Yes, i am married.
Yes, i Reset everytime when i do sex.

Loss is Loss … Doesnt matter if you Rub it with your hands OR rub inside pussy. You are going to lose the precious energy anyway.

I would not Reset only in case i will do sex for the purpose of Reproduction. This is also a loss but we can count it in exception since i will do it not in influence of temptations but as a duty towards the institution of marriage & to fulfil my wife & mother wishes.

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Ohh bhai brahmchari banne ka tha na. Ye chut k lafde m galat hi faste hum

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