Bro, listen. VERY IMPORTANT
When a women finds her husband watching porn she becomes disappointed due to two things.
One is because it’s a bad and disgusting habit that her husband is into.
THE SECOND REASON and MAJOR THREAT to relationship is that she feels CHEATED. Not only does she feels cheated but she thinks 3 things:
’ Am I not beautiful enough for my husband?’.
‘Does my husband love me anymore?’
’ Is my husband not attracted to me anymore?’
These question haunt her and she becomes silent and disappointed.
So to save your relationship, u must talk to her about these things (be cautious about asking her as maybe she did not think about these things before you asked). You must ask her concerns first. Ask her the reasons of disappointment. And then answer her all questions.
Tell your wife that porn is an addiction and a supra normal stimulus. Tell her that watching porn does not mean u don’t love her anymore but it means that you are trapped by chemical need just like drugs… Tell her that porn is just like drugs and that you need her support and help.
Tell her that porn stars are fake and far from reality just like filtered women on Instagram.
Those are not real. Tell her that she is the most beautiful women u ever saw, you ever love and feel attracted to. Be the most romantic and loving husband ever.
Tell her it’s not cheating but a disgusting trap that u need her help to get out of. Tell her that this is a sickness and she is the medicine.
Cry in front of her, ask for forgiveness and most importantly, ask for her help. Sure you will have a big fight in which she will tell her concerns and maybe cry and shout. But SHE WILL DEFINITELY FORGIVE YOU AND HELP AND SUPPORT YOU once you answer her all questions and talk to her sincerely with your heart out.