For those who has spouse

@anon25497833
I’m having the same problem with you 2 years ago…i’ve set a goal to stop porn after marry her…but the reality sucks…i failed her and back to looking porn (fool me)

My advice, get married ONLY IF you ready for it. Do not get married because anyone else (including ypur parents), Do not make it as your way to stop PMO…stop it first, stop it for good, strengthen your mind, and after that do the marriage with strong believe. I dont want you to have the same problem like me…because it will hurt her a lot when she found in after you’re married

FYI I also came from conservative asian family…so i feel you about the problem. Lets face it together

I hope we can be a better version of ourself

Feel free to share your progress too…sharing is caring

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Time heals everything.Time calms all angers.
It will work out fine. Just be patient and have hope for a bright happy future.

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@BetterVersionOfMe Your words gives me right now, a lot of strength morally, emotionally and practically. Thank you for this :slight_smile:
Have a good day!!

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@All:
Please add me as your companion, so that together we can fight with this. I won’t promise you a complete year out of porn. But I will make sure, I am “the” best version in this year. I mean it.
Current Strike: 23*
MyCode: o004hz

Feel free to message me anytime you would like. Thanks again for the support.

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If you can’t do Reboot, don’t marry.

After marriage you have to handle a lot of duties along with childrens,spouse & soceity.

If you are not able to handle your body & mind, you are going to suffer a lot after marriage. And not only you but your spouse & childrens also.

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Update about my problem

My wife already forgive me…but i feel that she still disbelief of me…i hope i can regain her trust…we are happy little family…the only problem here just myself and this nasty habit…

This time i must succeed my target

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I am happy to hear that she forgave you.

Now make her your accountability partner and with her help ( not alone… Involve her in your recovery so her trust increases) you get rid of this bad habit.

Get rid of all triggers. Analyse why when and how you used to watch porn and make a solid plan.

Best of luck👍

That’s great to hear @BetterVersionOfMe don’t give in!!

@NeverGiveup420 Kudos to you! Your replies are practical, on point, and not just unnecessary beating around the bush or woman bashing. Keep going :slight_smile:

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@debellator
Thank you very much. Your appreciation made my day😊.
We are all here to lend our support to those who need and get support when we need.
Stay blessed :+1:

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That’s a good news. Keep going …:hugs:

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Thank you. You are right. reboot is on :muscle: let’s see what’s next.

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