It’s been around a month since this new forum is introduced, this forum is built from the ground up to encourage participation while keeping things incredibly simple yet having a huge array of features for you to explore. And I’ve seen this forum grow unprecedentedly in this short amount of time.
Keep helping one and another and keep being supportive to your companions. We are all here for the same reason, to reclaim our lost life. And most are here because they have realised it’s much easier when you have someone to talk to. A relationship more personal than “regular internet friends”, who motivate you once and then you’ve lost them. Keep in touch with your brothers, and I hope we all be victorious.
Now to the feedback part, after using this forum, the app and adding companions, did you notice a decrease your relapses / urges?
Also if you have any suggestion regarding the website/app, feel free to pm me or reply to this topic or create a new topic.
Here’s an chart of our user visits each day. We are growing constantly. Thank you guys
This app besides the forum keeps me always on track. I like the way how people can connect to each other in a supportive way. There is no one who insults another
I just wanna thank you for this great tool you have created, it has helped me greatly thanks to the support of all the users and the easy way to use this app. The forum is one if the best features since it gives us free space to express ourselves and motivate us and others. As a random suggestion I would like to see a ranking like a top 50 or something like that as an extra way of motivation and maybe show in each person profile the bages they have acquired and their longest streak.
Excellent app and forum. It has given me the force I needed to fight againts this addiction. I would be quite lost without it. You are great people for creating and keeping it working.
As a suggestion, if it is technicaly possible, would be great to see in the users information in the forum the days without porn and the title (campesino, noble, whatever) of each one.
As everyone else stated, this app combined with the forum was the only chance I had to get clean. I wouldn’t have been able without.
I like kamafeos idea of streak or rank shown in the forum.
The only thing I’m not really sure about is the forum badge system. But I guess this is just a personal thing. I personally felt a bit too drawn to the forum since I wanted to get the new badges and so on (just an old trait of mine) but I know how to handle it
First, thank you so much for putting all this effort in the app. As others stated before, it has greatly impacted my progress on staying clean.
Especially the forum has, again and again, helped me to strengthen my beliefs and convictions, since most parts of public life will do the opposite to you.
One thing that “bothers” me right now is that the user name on the Companion list won’t match the user name in the forum. I added a lot of companions over the last week or so, and start to loose track as for who is who in some cases. So a better connection between those two features would be great!
Edit; I also experience a little bug sometimes in the community feature. If I scroll down, after a few posts it seems to repeat the posts from above, for two or three times with around six to ten posts, then it continues normally
No fap is the great initiative for one to get himself or herself out of bad habits of porn and masterbation. It’s really helpful for one to keep himself fit physically and mentally. Thanks and keep doing this.
I would like to suggest one thing here, since so many people start their streak and most of them fail since they can’t handle new changes in their life style. So I suggest that enlist some often changes felt by beginners and let them warn about what things they are gonna face in coming days so they will be prepared mentally for that.
The update of an application was the greatest thing so far.
Many Thanks to developers. This app help us to keep on track, share our story and encourage each other to overcome the addiction. Best!
Suggestion: How about adding direct message feature to our followed and following companion?
if it is technicaly possible, would be great to see in the users information in the forum the days without ■■■■ and the title (campesino, noble, whatever) of each one.
Thanks. It’s been on my mind, will look into it soon.
One thing that “bothers” me right now is that the user name on the Companion list won’t match the user name in the forum. I added a lot of companions over the last week or so, and start to loose track as for who is who in some cases.
Thank you,
Actually earlier the app username was linked with the forum one, but few users had privacy concerns, so I allowed the ability to change the username on the forum.
You can ask your friends to change their forum names to the appropriate ones or maybe write their forum username in their status.
I also experience a little bug sometimes in the community feature. If I scroll down, after a few posts it seems to repeat the posts from above, for two or three times with around six to ten posts, then it continues normally
It should be assigning a task or mission.for example we can message beginners like: This is your first day So your assignment will be keep yourself away from touching your self.and like this there should be levels upto 15 days.So within this period they can be trained to handle their urges. Like this assignments can be given to beginners. I know badge system is already there but we can make this more interactive.
This app is amazing. Just reading comments and topics helps my mind stay away from PMO and I really wanna thank the Admin/Owner of the app. I’m trying to get some of my friends to join this and be support me and me support them!
@Taher
Would it maybe be a good idea to add a new topic category like “relapse or urge diary”?
Everyone could write in there before or after a relapse what the trigger was, how did the urge feel, why did he relapse and so on.
I think that staying abstinent from porn is obviously a large part of quitting but it’s also very important to figure out in which situation and why and urge occurs and what I can do against it. Writing this down helps a lot in understanding the problem and we as a community could also help each other better
I personally just did it in the diary but we could encourage the people to do that more often. (after or before every single relapse). I havent seen that many people talking thoroughly about this kind of stuff.
For me it helped in three ways:
I wrote right before i thought i relapse. It took me so much time to analyse my urge and stuff that i completely forgot to watch a porn
I figured out more about why I watch porns
The community was helping me a lot with its support.
