It’s especially useful in professional setting but making it a general outlook of life gives you a very thick skin.
See even when you and I had conflict on that other topic I was calm af. You gotta give me credit for that.
I gave you the link bruhhh.
Interesting, didn’t mean to hurt your feelings but sounds like I probably touched a nerve unintentionally. Fine I guess. Again, I didn’t mean to. Just saying.
But you denied at that time that you are angry and now you are saying about conflict.
Well, it’s common among bros. And I do admit I was acting a little more heroic about saying him to stand against the bully gang.
Everytime someone replies I read the title of this topic “don’t love girls” and it makes me laugh 
I was just giving an example.
You have to admit that I was being very calm in that, at the same time assertive too, regardless of who between us was right and who was wrong.(let’s not go into that topic, because I’m here to have a discussion, not a quarrel)
And yes, I’ve said it before and I’ll say it again. I wasn’t angry. I’m blunt as hell in my conversations and sometimes it can offend others.
I’ve been a very sensitive person since my childhood and I’m still that person except there’s very few people whose opinions I care about. Those people are in my inner sphere.
Also I’m still working on this, I’m just 20-30% of the actual indifferent being.
You were just writing paragraphs and showing passive aggression.
Even tho you were sharing your experience and shit, admit you were passive aggresive .
Introvert things I get you. Same here.
Nope, I was being blunt. Sorry to say. I do write long ■■■ paragraphs, that’s true. But I write to explain, and I try my best to not hold against anyone on this forum (there’s a few exceptions where I’ve escalated. Maybe just one guy and I won’t speak his name. And no it’s not you)
It could be the case that I didn’t give you closure and might have been a little defensive (I don’t think I was) but I won’t count it being “passive aggressive”.
Wonderful advice, like, it’s to-the-point
And very well written in points
The situation I think is more of a result of culture given to children while growing up, as seeing girls and women as a separate species. Like I was scolded when I say with my female friends at a reputed school in “Delhi” and that’s in year 2012. You can’t imagine what all shit is going out there In non-urban areas.
All this creates a huge communication gap between the two genders, leave alone LGBTQ+ who literally have NO say among their peers.
But yes we can’t blame everything in society and govt.
Have to take responsibility of our own self and social skills irrespective of all factors.
Did I miss something or it was autocorrect?
Didn’t get you?
That was reply to @debellator
And have not edited the post till now.
Well the feminist did it first so it’s just our reaction to it.
And post feminism women have their place in trashcan. And obviously I don’t mean all of them here but a large chunk of modern ones.
That sentence formation was incomplete.
You mean pseudo-feminism
Actual feminism is very logical and must. It’s not about female supremacy, that’s matriarchy, female counterpart of patriarchy, equally toxic.
Feminism is about EQUAL rights. Not more than men.
You can read a very nice book written by an African writer, “Why We Should All Be Feminists”. Amazingly expressed female point of view. Her Ted talk is also available on YouTube. Truly enlightening.
Ironical because the woman who built first women’s abuse shelter aka erin pizzey is now an MRA(Men’s rights activist) and she got death threats from fellow feminists just because she didn’t agreed with duluth model of domestic violence.
And it was built around a faulty concept of patriarchy.
Because it ignores the fact that most men are as socially powerless as most females.
It also ignores the fact that the bottom tier of society is majorly male.
That just straight out kills the concept of patriarchy and you can’t fight something that don’t exist.
Watch this ted talk if you have time
Well, having seen the situation otherwise on ground level, treating patients in tribal and rural India, i disagree. Maybe your country has a different aspect. What i have seen is almost in all the situation, women bear the consequences of suffering more.
And whenever capital is invested in women, the whole community flourishes more.
I don’t know about the face you are mentioning, neither have I much interest to check that out. Might be true that some women might be defamed for it. But yes it’s sure that women are always the bottomfeeders in almost all settings.
I think @prince_king you can be a little more assertive in the tone of content of your post, as while reading the previous ones, it feels kind of more aggressive, which i think is not that good for variety in ideas to germinate. If you think otherwise, it’s fine. It was my observation.
I’ll try to see it later
You mean to say I should say it in a tone which promotes discussion rather than a debate?
The fact that it was delhi commission of “women” who put out a statistic that 53% of registered false rape cases are false in Delhi from 2013-14 tells a story in itself.
I agree with you on helping the rural women. But the thing is, with corruption a lot of funding is not reaching the right place and I barely see activist talking about rural development except maybe a few. Most is centred around western ideologies.
Yup. One should know to respect choices of the people in front of us. More importantly, one has to respect oneself before any of that comes to play.
Yes
But if the original intention was for debate, then it’s fine.
Yes this might be true. Might be not. How do we know these “false” cases were the women actually raped but to keep the image of the person clean, he might have threatened or shut their mouth with cash and forced to accept that the accusations were false.
False claims do happen. But this happens too…
How tf this discussion went into this direction 
Will check
Th?? 
I don’t care in the slightest about what you said.
I just have better things to do plus today was a tiring day. Besides, online debates are of too little value for me to engange in beyond a certain point. They can go on forever. Speak in person face to face that’s actually worth something.