Yes… Positivity is a Must for life betterment.
And yeah I may not be able to express my ideas perfectly cause I too have a blur picture of this idea.
And this was purely my opinion which may help somebody
I agree.
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I don’t want to debate on God.
Yeah me too.
It’s a matter of perspective
There is difference between Belief & blind belief.
Yeah there is.
Believing blindly will lead to disasters.
Like the one in the example,
The people fighting doesn’t know of blind belief, they only name it under belief
If you look from the third person then you know it’s blind belief but the peoples fighting think that’s what belief is.
Brother @Deadpoolgupta, when I did my first relapse after 39 days. I was devastated, and at that time I wasn’t on this forum so there was no one with which I can share my feelings with, at that time I watched a video of “Shiva Stotram” which was in my recommendation so I thought, “now only God Shiva can help me”, I imagined urges as a monster which appers out of nowhere while I was walking on my path, and then god Shiva come from the sky and kill the monster (urges) and I keep meditating till he killed the monster. At that time I thought this is a brilliant idea, I can easily reach 100+ days with this method. But unfortunately I relapsed within 10 days (I was having a chaser effect also). When the urges came I forgot everything thing, I forgot about my plan. It’s like by this plan I was giving the responsibility to God Shiva to save me. And then I realised it is only and only me who can break this addiction. And then I started a new journey, My first weapon was my willpower, second was excercise, third was my fellow companions, and fourth was the motivational articles and videos that I posted on my topic ‘Nofap motivation for begginers by legends’. And now here I am at 150days streak.
And I won’t fap till I reach 1000days or maybe even after that.
I know that there are some nofappers who achieved high streak by their belief in God. But I think one should go by the method which works best for him. And you can know that method only by failing a few times unless you are lucky enough to know that method in your first attempt to Nofap. So now it’s totally upto you. Decide by which way you have to go…
It is simple brother…
God help those who help themselves
You cannot just sit and doing nothing and think that God will help you… God will help you by giving you opportunities… but it is always you(Your VIVEK) who chose it or not.
SHRI MAD BHAGWAT GITA ME SAAF LIKHA H… BHAGWAN APKO OPTIONS DETE H… USKE BAAD HUMKO APNE VIVEK SE… SANSKARO SE…UNKO CHOSE KRNA HOTA H…KI HUM KYA KARENGE AAGE… JISKE BAAD HUMARA KARM DECIDE HO JATA H.
Isliye hi Gita me kaha gya h…karmanye wa dhikaraste… maa faleshu kadachana… FAL KI CHINTA MAT KRO… BECOZ FAL TUMHARE HATH ME NAHI H… BAS APNA KARM KARO…
Mera belief se matlab tha… Bhagwan me vishwash rakhna… vishawas rkho bhagwan me ki wo tumhare sath h…
7 August
Well talk about a bad day, it’s this one. Today i woke up late as a result i had a rushed morning and then at around 9 i felt my stomach aching, my health was down the whole day and my appetite was nearly dead. Had a low energy day. Got very low productivity. Well no problem, i’ll try to do better next day. Now i’ve stopped babbling about nofap, being the king and all cause its of no use. I’ve also stopped thinking about nofap as something new, ive taken nofap as my lifestyle. Preserving my semen is connected to my identity now. We got many fallen brothers in past few days. Now let’s rise together brothers
Wake Up at 5- woke up at 5:45
Drink a glass of water
Affirmations and Visualization(Beastmode)
Write Goals
: Workout
Pranayam
Water Intake : 1.7ltrs
Cold Showers
Reading: Productivity Superhero
Puja
Mindful Eating
Freedom Ritual
Watch some useful stuff
: Meditation
Journal
: Chew Food 20 times(starting)
Productivity: 4hrs
Study: 2hrs
Guys, calm down, every person have different beliefs. I am a Christian Orthodox, you are something else. That’s not a reason to be mad at others. We are brothers, we fight together.
But I strongly believe while in nofap we need to have a belief in a supreme power. Only by depending on ourselves we’ll maybe reach 400 days or even 500. If you want to reach 1000 and above you should believe in something brother. Faith in ourselves is the best along with that a faith that God is by our side can take us a long way. Because nofap is not easy. A small choice or a moment’s carelessness can destroy everything. Not everything but can atleast destroy a streak and can lead to chaser maybe.
Whatever everyone has their own opinion. This is one thing I learnt after I failed. Iam moving along with God in this new Journey.
8 August
Talk about a bad day. Well my i’m down cause of some health problems and i really need to get well soon, as it’s a blunder to my studies and i also need to work on my sleep. My sleep is getting worse, need to get a hold of it. All day went through unproductive and i just wanna get well soon. So i can pull off some studies.Well as for my mood, it’s unstable i don’t know why. I’ll try to detox as soon as my body allows, cause i feel filled to the neck and about to throw up. Well see you then. Atleast i’m self-aware about it and determined to do something about it
Wake Up at 5- woke up at 7
Drink a glass of water
Affirmations and Visualization(Beastmode)
Write Goals
Workout
: Pranayam
Water Intake : 1.5ltrs
Cold Showers
Reading: Productivity Superhero
Puja
Mindful Eating
Freedom Ritual
Watch some useful stuff
Meditation
Journal
Chew Food 20 times(starting)
Productivity: 1.2hrs
Study: 1hrs
Brother even if you couldn’t do anything, do Meditation Pranayam etc without fail. Those things need Consistency. Waking up early etc. Learn from my mistake. Consistency is the mother in mastering those routines.
Yeah I’ll to keep that in check
@TheWillToLive @Forerunner & others.
I don’t know what is people reading… plz read my comment full.
This person Neo… quoted half of my post and started all kind of delusional story.
After that… ForeRunner said to me … Bro… Did you call me a Fool ?
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Then… Today… Will to live guy… bombared at me… with 3 edits on his post …
… Thank God… atleast you showed some mercy.
Guys… again … i am making it clear…
In past … when forerunner used to write his diary… i found one thing common there… With God’s Help
In past i personaly asked him about the God thing… we both agreed on some inner voice. … help etc.
I thought him as a fool that time because according to me… There was no God.
Today… in present time… i understand now… why he used to write that… i can also understand konstinonf… because i know now…
We are Powerless without him.
Yes… Effort is good… and all must do effort …
This God thing can only be understood when we do our 100% efforts.
Keep Going brothers.
Cheers
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sorry brother @Sahas … if any kind of misunderstanding happened from my comment… may be when I quoted it…at that time you written it half and you were still writing your view…whatever… I have deleted that… and also sorry to @Deadpoolgupta to create a mess in your diary.
Wake Up from the sleep
I never edited… ask the mods & app owner.
I think people are just ready to explode on anything… all they need is a match stick/excuse.
Yeah brother… you are right… I have just checked it now… IT MEANS THAT IT WAS ALL MY FAULT… really Sorry bro.
I still cannot figure out… why I did it… becoz usually I read whole comment when I reply to someone… SORRY AGAIN.
I think our views are quite similar… see ![]()
Take care…
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10 August
Well sleep is starting to get puzzled. I had sleep problems so i decided that i will find out for myself that which sleep pattern suits me and im really having a hard time doing it. Studies are going great, i’m really able to get some productivity here. These days i’m not learning a new thing or two cause i’m behind in the syllabus, gotta complete it. I feel like my thoughts and views changing for better. Now I really see hookup culture and physical relations as disgusting, i would rather have someone who loves me and love that person. There was a big role of anime too in changing my life and i’m thankful for that. Anime really taught me how to live, although that was a basic idea which I am constantly improvising on and i’ll continue to do so. Not much going on in personal life.
Wake Up at 5- woke up at 6:00
Drink a glass of water
Affirmations and Visualization(Beastmode)
Write Goals
: Workout
Pranayam
Water Intake : 1.7ltrs
Cold Showers
Puja
Mindful Eating
: Freedom Ritual
Watch some useful stuff
: Meditation
Journal
: Chew Food 20 times(starting)
Productivity: 8hrs
Study: 7hrs