I can understand how you feel. Being alone in a society that put a relationship like the most important thing ever is seriuosly frustating.
Im not such as great with girls, actually im a fool, i have low self steem, i m not able to talk with girls. Loke you, a girlfriend is the most important thing i wana conqueer. Nevertheless, let me tell ya something: If you get someone right now, you just gonna be with her to fill the lonely space you have, Do you think this is correct for her?
First, you have to work on you, to love you, to feel comfortable with you, to gain confidence.
I hate everything what i said, life hates us in that topic, we are not its favorites, but we can not lose against life. YOU ARE NOT ALONE, we are with you, we suffer the same, and we can go out from this shit togheter
You need to have a better outlook on this. Life won’t get better unless YOU make it. NO ONE can do this for you. YOU need to take care of yourself the way YOU need to make you happy.
You CAN do it. You just have to BELIEVE that you can and COMMIT to it.
Do you need an example?
I’m going to be 19 in April. I was homeschooled my whole entire life. My parents are very overprotective. I wasn’t allowed to have a sleepover with my friends until I was 17 years old. The only reason why I have friends is because I introduced myself to them with the acception of two and if they did something that hurt me I let them know, and I held on with both hands and didn’t let go. I’ve been masturbating for 7 almost 8 years, sometimes 6 times a day. It was VERY HARD to get out of but I knew Christ wanted me to so I commited to making my streak grow. I’ve been struggling with depression and suicidal thoughts for 5 years, and I told my friends about everything, the MO, the depression, all of it even though I was terrified they would leave me because I needed someone to hold me responsible for that. I prayed every day for help. There were no guys in my town. I want to get married, badly. So I prayed almost every day for God to use this desire on my heart to glorify Him. And last summer He showed me His glory by bringing the most wonderful man whom I care about deeply into my life. I already was fighting before but now I really am. But if this doesn’t work out, I am praying that I will still glorify God in all that I do, and in my writing and relationships with people. I found myself a Bible study to go to to learn more about being a Godly woman. My parents don’t want me leaving, they don’t want me with a man, they won’t put me on the insurance so I can drive, they have to know everywhere I go. But I am respectful to them and their wishes, but I say that I need to go be with my friends and boyfriend sometimes. I wanted to commit suicide three days ago because I felt trapped. Then I had a really tough urge. But I’m still fighting. I’m not giving up. I’m fighting mostly for ME and for God, not for my boyfriend even though he motivates me. I was fighting long before I met him. @Vortexkicker, so don’t tell me that you can’t do it. If you want to give up, then fine. But why do you keep coming back to NoFap?
Because you want to be free. But YOU, only you, can fight for that. Only YOU can be the hero in your story.
Sorry this is so long. Hope this inspired somebody.
@Vortexkicker I have read a few of your posts, it seems like you are in a dark place. You must find your true happiness. I’d say start going to churches and find one you like. There are plenty of people that can help you and get you out of your shell. I understand your commitment to your father but there are times you need to break away and have your own life. That should be every fathers dream for their son or daughter to be happy in life. Right now it sounds like you are not. Pray and meditate ask God specifically for what you want, repent of your sins. Watch God’s blessings start to change your life. Stay positive and even in our darkness moments there can be blessings in knowledge and strength!!!
@Vortexkicker and for all of us win today focus your mind on something else. Keep busy so you cant be persuaded to waste time on pmo! We got this keep strong and focus on winning today!!!