Last thing, let’s push our friend a bit
@Finding_Myself , man how are you doing, don’t isolate your self
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January 23rd check in
Challenge day: 12
Personal streak: 1 day 
First off, yes. Totally agree.
Second. Yeah. Life’s been garbage. I’ve relapsed everyday for the past week… A lil more than a week now I think. Sorry I’ve been kind of distant and lazy about the challenge… I’m not doing so good. I’m having such a hard time with urges lately… I wish I was back on my highest streak… Life was so good… Thanks for checking in on me…
Third. You’re doing better than me pal…
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i like that, count on me
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Check in
Day 53 of 90
A question for those in this challenge: what will you reward yourself at 90 days? What can you use as motivation?
Mine is Minecraft. If all else fails, I think my need for Minecraft is more inportant than my need for MO. This does work.
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Literally the best thing I’ve ever heard!!! Idk. I probably won’t reward myself at the end of 90 days. I’m very blessed!
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Checking in day 12/90 days
And in day 19/28 days (personal streak)
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Cs 76 days
Hs 106 days
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@anon3047577, for me I reward myself with food regardless of my streak.
Anything else doesn’t matter.
Just having the success would be 1/3 of the satisfaction I desire.
The other 2/3 rds would be a changed life and a beautiful girlfriend which are never going to happen.
My wishes will remain as wishes.
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Checking in
12/90
CS- 12
HS- 21
Going strong still! Keep fighting and win each day!!!
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What good question jaja
I think my reward is to have control about PRM and MO. I just want be able to look for them just for pleasure and not for boring, lonely, sadness or dopamine generator.
Maybe I can change that in all the road of the challenge.
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Checking in day 13/90 days
And in day 20/28 days (personal streak)
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I relapsed guys. Every 2 days I relapse.
This cycle I have been experiencing for almost 2 years now and I can’t escape it
Current Streak is zero.
You all are succeeding and I’m failing. 
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Bro, are you having other problems that are making you fall into stress, anxiety, depression or anything? Or do you have nothing to do? Cause once you’re busy with something, you won’t relapse.
What’s your age? What are you currently doing?
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Age is 31. Turning 32 in April.
I just got home from work and relapsed due to an hour drive home of loneliness thoughts that I will never get a girlfriend or a wife or a family of own.
I work Mondays thru Thursdays. I get a 3 days weekend.
I’m very stressed. I need my car for work and the insurance company is threatening to end coverage and cause other companies from covering.
If I lose insurance, I can’t legally drive, I then lose my job.
I’m always sad now and can’t escape my doom.
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So your problem is negative thoughts.
Bro, you’re 31. If nothing were to happen, there’s always the option of arranged marriage you can always look for a beaut in arranged marriage too… So don’t worry, you have hope till you’re 35 or something.
You got any friends or something? You can hang out with them or you can go on to long drives (in which you’re tired) by yourself and while on that, enjoy some music.
Music always helps- and that’s a fact!
And above all bro, you need to start meditation. It’s the only fucking way you’re gonna get rid of this negativity.
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I have no friends.
My entire life was always spent with my Dad. He homeschooled me for high school, so I couldn’t socialize.
Then, he wouldn’t let me get a job because I had to spend all my time with him.
He always had to go anywhere I went.
Now, he is on dialysis, had a recent toe amputation, and requires a lot of medical care.
That stresses me too.
At work, my colleagues have gotten to know me and are shocked I never had a girlfriend.
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THen mAKe a feW!!! It’s that simple. Like talk to your grocer and people you meet regularly like they’re your friends.
Bruh, seriously? You’re succumbing to peer pressure…
And so what if you dont have a gf?
Are you dead? Has your life been destroyed?
You’re breathing, have a home earn enough too feed yourself everyday and you cry because you don’t have a gf?
C’mon man, you can do better than that.
Look bro, i may not be the best person to tell you this but Love, intimacy are not the only thing a man looks for. So stop and pray. Take some efforts and god will help u.
Just hang on to that feeling even in your darkest times.
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Getting a girlfriend is the only thing that matters.
I have no other true interests.
And No comment on my Dad?
I guess he was right to hold me back and now, I don’t know how to make friends or talk to women.
That’s ok?
My life feels like there is no meaning. Just a servant with no freedom and from where we live, an hour drive to any civilization.
After 4 days of driving an hour one way and an hour home with a 10 hour shift each day with 2 breaks.
I’m tired.
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Well then, sorry bro, I can’t help you with that.
Ofc you will be.
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