Inspiring journeys here on the forum…
Looking forward to writing the best ever success story here on the forum…
32 M, but firmly resolved to be in top 1% in my field by the end of this year…
I am a man on a mission…
I have two books that guide me… Think and Grow rich in my material life…Gita in everything else…
I will be updating my daily progress here…and everyone on this forum will witness my transformation this year.,
Raghukul Riti Sada Chali Ayi, Pran Jayi par vachan na jayi…Jai Sree Ram
A regular Indian Software Professional, stuck in mid career crisis…
A bright shining student in school days, the blue eyed boy of entire school…
Every girl’s crush…pride of parents…
Left home to study in a distant city, got into a bad company, and since then decades have gone by but my downward spiral doesnt seem to stop…
Currently at the lowest in my life…in an average job with an average salary…everyone I knew in my life has gotten more successful through the years…when I meet my school friends in my hometown…they just cant believe its the same guy… who used to top among 500+ students, win debates…school captain and what not…
Years of PMO has made me physically, mentally weak… Physical weakness can be overcome…its the mental / psychological weakness that is causing more troubles in my life… I have literally lost the fighting spirit…every damn problem in my life makes me contemplate suicide…I am fearful throughout the day
I fear my manager…I fear my friends / colleagues…I fear every other person…
I am a social failure…cant have conversations with people…cant look into their eyes and tell the truth…A nice guy trying to please everyone but dying within every single second…
Easiest way out of this mess is to just give up…but I have a baby…I am father to a daughter…she gives me all the reasons to bounce back and fight back with all my power…
I was looking for appropriate forums for having people trying to turn their lives around…and this forum seems to be a good one… so here I am all set to take a damn swing at life…
Done…then lets do it brother…let this year be the end of all miseries…
What is the point of living a life wherein you are consistently depressed / anxious / feeling vulnerable and so on…
Strength is life…Fear is death…
I am all in here…ready to take on every bloody challenge in life…no more sobbing…no more sulking…
I am all set to be a man full of abundance all around…Money, relationship, career, an shredded body…I want it bloody all…you only live once then why live like a loser at all??
Thank you so much comrade !!!
I read through your diary…and woah what a profound wisdom you possess…
truly a manifestation of Saraswati (the Indian goddess of wisdom and knowledge)
@Resurgent Lets have a friendly match…lets track our daily, weekly, monthly goals and beat the shit out of them… consistently will keep rising and…by the end of this year…we will rise like phoenix
Failure is not an option, giving up is not option…success is responsibility and the greatest duty for our families, for our kids, for our parents and for the God who bestowed upon us this fortune of a life of a human being…
Anything that takes less than 10 min, do that immediately
Donts
No Day dreaming
No News
No Looking at girls twice /staring
Media usage <1 hour
Dont dwell upon past and small things that dont matter much…focus on the larger goal…
No self Doubt - I am the best and I will do it…thats it.
Bad start but Rome was not built in a day…the only way forward is upwards
Though didnt complete a lot of tasks, still had some small wins…
Tomorrow will be substantially better…
No Looking Back…There is nothing called pleasure in life…
Vir bhogya vasundhara…and Vir comes from controlling the self
Today’s learning: this comes from a blog on LOA, believe in the final outcome even if current state seems very different, dont lose the faith…You will achieve it no matter what…
Anything that takes less than 10 min, do that immediately
Taking vitamins before sleep
No Day dreaming
No News
No Looking at girls twice /staring
Media usage <1 hour
Dont dwell upon past and small things that dont matter much…focus on the larger goal…
No self Doubt - I am the best and I will do it…thats it.
Substantially better than the previous day. Improving more than 1% everyday.
Learnings: this comes from a blog on LOA, believe in the final outcome even if current state seems very different, dont lose the faith…You will achieve it no matter what…
Those who succeed are not the ones who worked very hard or had a great IQ, rather they are the ones who believed they would certainly be successful… It took me over a decade to understand this secret that mindset is all that matters. In my previous reboot attempts I had a shaky belief about my own abilities, and hence I failed miserably every single time… But this time I am 200% sure that I am going to write the best ever success story…my dreams are turning to reality very very soon… I am earning 50 LPA, and buying best SUV very soon…I want it all and I am getting it all…no doubts at all
Anything that takes less than 10 min, do that immediately
Taking vitamins before sleep
No Day dreaming
No News
No Looking at girls twice /staring
Media usage <1 hour
Dont dwell upon past and small things that dont matter much…focus on the larger goal…
No self Doubt - I am the best and I will do it…thats it.
Today was a fantastic day, felt the blessing of the Almighty and getting closer to my goals…
Got appreciation from multiple seniors in my office. Earlier I used to be obsessed with negative thoughts like am I doing enough? what if I get fired … similar bullshit…
Now I putting massive conscious effort to keep my thoughts sane, reminding myself again and again that I am born to win…its not a question of if anymore its all about when…and that when is very close…really really close…I am earning 50 LPA and owning the best SUV…a shredded body…
I want it all, and having it all
Todays Learning: The one thing I lacked badly: Growth Mindset
Wake up at 5:30 AM
Affirmations and Visualizations
Light Exercise, Yoga and Pranayam
Cold Shower
Study 2 hours - Finish API Design and MuleSoft Associate Certification
Focus on positive, self help digital content
Keeping vision clean
Evening Pooja
Staying obsessed with the future self Strong firm belief that I am the best…#BornToWin Taking Vitamins before Sleep
Calculation practice for 15 minutes
Living Mindfully
Plan and execute (Remember - you fail to plan, you plan to fail)
Seeing postivity all around, staying super happy, blissful, enthusiastic
…Huh!! One mistake and all gone down the drain…I got an urge in the morning and consequently I peeked…though I could control myself in time…now I am just being haunted by even stronger urges to peek and relapse…
But I recall that its all about the mindset, I must not give the urges any power over myself…Because I am not looking back…I am infinitely stronger than any of my urges…I am man and I want to walk with my head held high…no shame no guilt…pure bliss, joy and masculine enthu
Today’s Learning: Those who love life, dont waste even a second…Your life is ending a second at a time… and I want everything in life …so just cant afford to waste any moment…learn, earn, do mistakes but dont waste time
Study for 5 hours (studied 3 hours)
Affirmations & Visualizations
